>Be me >Guy I've barely ever interacted with on a separate platform ask if I want to talk on Discord >Dont want to make the guy feel sad, so I accept >We are now friends on Discord >We literally have nothing in common yet we still talk everyday >Sometimes I just dont respond to him for hours at a time because our conversations rarely every go anywhere >Guy hates his life and barely finds any enjoyment out of anything >Sometimes he would go on rants about everything he hated making me super uncomfortable >He goes on about how when he messages other people, they never respond to him >He tells me I'm the only person who ever responds to him when he does message people >I hate every second I have to spend in dms with him and I'm literally one of the only slivers of happiness he gets out of life >Eventually ghost him for about 8 months >Return because I feel so bad about leaving him >He somehow doesn't care about how I ghosted him and everything goes as normal >Back to boring ass conversations with hour long stretches of silence, plus the same old hate filled rants >Back to talking everyday, cant not respond because I feel so bad for this guy
What the fuck do I do? I'm in other Discord servers with him in it, so ghosting him again might make me look like a dick.
I knew a guy like that. Ahmed (don't know which middle eastern country he was from). I just stopped him and asked what he does like. I get that there's a lot he doesn't, but what does he like? Then explained that I don't do hate. I don't engage in it. He was confused and angry at me and then he ghosted me for days. Then returned and accused me of being an NPC, I just replied "if that's how you feel" then he ghosted me again for weeks. Then he comes on again and asks why I don't hate stuff. Had long philosophy discussion with him. We start talking about other stuff. One day he says he's gonna start focusing more on school and poof. Gone forever. Never heard from him again. That was years ago now. I hope Ahmed is doing well now. I hope he's happy.
Henry Rogers
goddamn it i want an incel geek to help
Dominic Wood
Based. Nice work.
Noah Reyes
Honesty is the only thing that will help.
Tell him that his negativity keeps him from forming lasting friendships and that he should find a way to deal with it.
As I have learned the hard way: You can try to help but you can not save people from themselves, you can only save yourself from them
The fact you care shows your worth as a human being but you should not suffer for his social ineptitude
Oliver Parker
same thing happened with me several years ago when i would spend 25/7 on the computer. i met this chick in a discord server, she talked alot, was always so negative and weird. one day i told her i really liked legs, so she sent me one, holy shit, biggest hambone ive ever seen. she sent me a full shot, some fat retarded bitch that looks mentally ill, i said no no no, turned 180 degrees and got the fuck out of there. she prob killed herself by now idk, its fucked up but like she just was super weird. i cant personally be around depressed people or it makes me depressed, instant block out of my life. do the same Any Forumsro
Grayson Rogers
Its incredibly difficult to be honest with them since I'm so scared any truth that involves adversity placed against them will push them over the edge, especially since I know I'm basically the only one person who gives them reciprocation.
I see this is the only way though, I'll try it soon. If they push themselves over the edge than so be it, atleast I told them how it is.
Mason King
its not your fault if he wants to kill himself or whatever you need to do what makes you happy, idk how you've forced yourself to talk to them for this long brother
Dylan James
>>We are now friends on Discord lol what does this even mean? Do you children do stuff like this? Fuck me Zoomers are literal aids. I have an idea. Tell him he is cancer and you don't need cancer. Tell him the shit you came here to cry your eyes about.
You are him to us.
Jose Lee
I just feel bad for the guy I guess man.
Joseph Thompson
At this point you are perpetuating his misery and asozial attitude, he needs to understand that he needs to change
Carter Parker
Same to you bud, what the fuck does any of this mean lol
Joseph Cooper
you've met a desperately dependent loser and you should exploit the fuck out of him turn him into a useless goon that does ultimately useless things. it wont surprise you until it does. make him do the stupidest shit.
The only way you can get out of this without feeling guilty is to help turn the guy's life around. Keep directing him toward stuff that makes him happy. Make him make changes in his life however he can. Turn him into a chad however you can and when he's moved on and become a bro you can wipe your hands clean, or at least hang out with someone who isn't bothering the shit out of you.
Mason Fisher
What does he talk about? Is it kinda like a chat bot or a parrot or does it make sense if you pretend he's human
It was really good of you to help that dude get out if his hate spiral. The hero the world needs.
Justin Wright
I don't actually know if it turned out well. I hope it did, but he had problems with his family being all religious and shit, and he wasn't. Maybe they discovered he was talking with some Swedish fuck and decided to lock him up.
Brayden Bailey
we've found the pussies. block him and make him wonder what he did wrong for the rest of his life. that person will not change, hes a depressed loser who clearly has issues. you can't save everybody
