Wagie here. I suck at every job I try. I’m disorganised, anxious and clumsy...

Wagie here. I suck at every job I try. I’m disorganised, anxious and clumsy. Really feeling like I should just kill myself. I clearly can’t function in this world like other people can and I feel so exhausted with failing over and over again. I have no passions or talents and I can’t handle much more of this stress. Every day, I fuck up a bunch of different things and I find myself dreading work and worrying about it even when I’m not there. I’ve tried to reach out for help but the doctor’s don’t give a fuck. I don’t know what to do, Any Forumsros. How can I live and support myself if I’m just straight up dreadful at everything ever?

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Man the fuck up cupcake.

nice, actionable advice

You had ADD, ask your doc for a referral to a social worker specializing in diagnosing ADD.Get assessed, get medicated.

how old are you

I’m 25. These problem have pervaded my entire life. I tried to get an appointment with the doctor but they just referred me to counselling which is miles away and inaccessible to me. I simply couldn’t squeeze it in every week. It takes months just to get an appointment over the phone.

>i'd rather kill myself than learn basic skills
Try growing the fuck up already.

I tried though, I am very sensitive and vulnerable.

I think so too. They referred me to counselling but it’s too far away for me to get to every week. Should I just call them back and say “Hey, I think I might have ADD, can you refer me to a specialist?”
I mentioned to them before the nature of whatever underlying issue is causing all of this. I try so hard but I always fuck up. They just referred me (as mentioned) to counselling that I can’t even get to. I feel like I’m trying to dig through concrete with my bare hands trying to make progress with the medical system. If I call them back, they’ll just book me into another stupid phone appointment in like two months time and then give me some other horse shit ‘solution’ dead-end. Then I’ll have to call them back and wait another two months to get another phone appointment. It’s so fucked up.

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what job do you have

im sort of in the same boat, but not exactly.

also 25 with really no life experience, just been stagnating and taking things too slow while wasting away in america's abysmal academia system.

i've recently kind of given up on societal norms and it feels pretty good. people are going to tell me i'm fucking stupid and dont know what im getting myself into, and they're probably right, but i realized you need to find something to drive you and not give a fuck about what realists say. (cliche, i know)

i found blacksmithing/metalworking and honestly, although i have little experience, i know it's something i want to do the rest of my life. my current plan is to get a studio job as a photographer and spend the rest of my time making and selling literally anything out of metal.

maybe your goal isn't artistic in nature, but dammit man dont just give up because you've been beaten down; that's what they want you to do, that way you either stay working your trash job or you kill yourself and they don't have to go through the headache of firing you.

too many people have tried and succeeded at crushing my past dreams and aspirations, and because of that i let myself do nothing and was content with it. looking back now, i realize i have 5+ years of time i need to catch up on. find something and don't let anyone take it away from you, even if it's something you found on a whim. If it keeps you moving, then it's worth the effort.

Just tryhard.

Your fucking goal you shitty newfag, is to SAVE AS MUCH TIME AS POSSIBLE while NOT. I repeat NOT fucking up.

Always take note of the best shortcuts to take, the best systems to utilize, etc etc etc. Always. And apologize for sucking. Eventually, things will speed up drastically. Keep going and you will catch a new speed you maybe never thought you could reach. Then, eventually, you can attack the "preparation" phase as well. And past that, the job ALWAYS get a fuckton more relaxed.

newfags jesus

Its really sad how you nubs are so cucked by the internet you cant figure out how to think outside the box even though you live your life on the tool that taught me.
Fuckin gayass plebbit kiddies. Get your heads out of your asses and pry your eyes off your fuckin cell phones for a while see how much your life changes.

maybe you're a perfectionist and you have too high expectations for yourself. You're human, live and learn

No shit shitiot, you have toake it work for you. See as many doctors and psychs as you can. Shotgun approach to mental health is the only way. You cucks seem to think the first place you go is going to solve all your problems and that was NEVER going to be how it is. Not sure why youre all so fucking ignorant besides being shut in dunning kreuger niggers disregarding anything that doesnt line up with your noob island perspective.
Try harder you fucking pussy. Life isnt going to hold your fucking hand.

>miles away
>inaccessible
You realize you can walk miles right?
How much do you want to get better vs how much do you want to sit there whining never solving anything

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even a bus or uber

Better yet go see more doctors.
>b-but it takes 2 months to get in
What, this shit wont exist in 2 months? Fuck is the problem then?

Don’t worry user I’m 25 and have had about 10 jobs, even though I haven’t worked in 3 years

Stop introspecting so much user. Most people aren't better, they just don't think.