My New GF is a dead fish in the sack

My New GF is a dead fish in the sack.

Me 30’s her 21

She has had sex with 6 before me.

When we fuck I have to direct her the whole time on what to do. ie: arch your back more.. move this way. She is ok on top but can’t figure anything else out when it comes to positioning and etc. also she is very quiet the whole time and if I dirty talk her she just repeats what I say. She has never came from vaginal sex only clitoral stimulation. Says I’m the only one that’s made her cum.

Never had a partner so lame during sex. Makes me feel insecure.
She is a rad chick but what should I do to help her with this.
I got short with her once when I was sitting on the edge of the bed and she was just standing there instead of getting on the Dick and she started crying. I felt really bad.

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I'm in a very similar boat. I'm 24, near my peak libdo, but my girl is a starfish in bed. We might have sex once a month.

Her body count is almost 20 though. Mine is 5, 3 were dudes.


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idk how to tell u this guys OP
but shes just not that into you

Aww...sounds like you're in for a long run of bad sex because you cant dump the cunt. Fuck off faggot.

Recently was in a very similar situation. Broke it off because of that and a few other things. We still hang out from time to time because it was mostly mutual.

I never really found a solution. We talked about it and I felt like we had very open dialogue. Made me feel really insecure too because every girl before that was WAY into the sex. But she swore up and down it wasnt me, just that she was never really super into sex.

But really digs me, weirdly enough we still meet from time to time and have sex, and its better than it was when we were together most of the time. Super vocal now and gets really into it. I guess the fact that she actually "lost" me made her get into it more to maybe try to get me back.

This probably isnt solid advice, but just know youre not alone OP. There is hope, but I guess just try to be open about it. The sex has gotten better but now we're not together so idk what to think lmfao. Good luck faggot.

Definitely not the case. Chick is in love with me. Always calls/texts. Buys me thoughtful things unexpectedly. Does my laundry and cleans my house all the time.

The weird thing is she always wants to have sex. I’m thinking she may be lying about her body count and is just very inexperienced.

Stop robbing the cradle. ever think of that?

I think you guys are gay. Just grab her and move her around how you want. If you want her to do something specific, just tell her to do it.

Jesus christ what's wrong with dudes, shave your cock and balls for fucks sake. No wonder your girl wants nothing to do with your unaesthetic pubes all over the place cock. Would you want to put your mouth on your girl's pussy if it had octopus hair like your gross ass hairy dick? Don't have to shave it bare, but for fuck sake trim that gross shit.

She wants to be your mom?

lol never thought of it like that.

old pic. shaved now

big difference in having to coach someone the whole way and being with a chick that knows what the fuck to do and shows she enjoys doing it. are you a virgin?

was married for 6 years wife passed away. Never been with a girl more than 2-3 years younger until now. She came onto me I wasnt looking for anything.

Dude she’s ripe for some dom. My wife was just like this and totally shy during sex. Once I started just bossing her around she went wild with it.

Command her. Not joking. Not incel

this could be true but ive tried pulling her hair and her reaction was "ow that hurts stop" smacked her ass hard "ow thats too hard" and anal is a nono she had a bad experience when younger and brings up bad memories

Yeah brings up bad memories….so she’s anxious and possibly ptsd and not going to instigate anything much. You need to tell her what it is you want and then talk dirty to her when she does it. Not pain. Direct commands and rewards with verbal compliments and actual sex.

You gotta encourage her to do what makes her feel good. She's inexperienced. Help her figure out what she wants and work from there. She's trying to please you and afraid to fuck up

I'm 30 and my gf is about to turn 21.

Maybe don't be such a faggot about it. She's young. Be "gentle". Not everyone is loud and like how they are in porn.

Suggest things casually in the act. She's blowing you? Tell her how good it feels and to go deeper.

My gf can throat my dick no problem. Where over a year ago she was like a cheese grater.

Good luck.

>are you a virgin?
not even close
>a chick who knows what to do
this is a chick who does what I tell her to do. it isn't too taxing for me to put them onto my dick how i want. are you disabled or what