I've always wanted a partner who will take charge but even when I discuss that with someone prior to our relationship I always. LITERALLY ALWAYS. End up basically being my partners parent. Men women older younger its like people turn into retarded children the moment they move in. I shouldn't have to teach grown people how to manage money I shouldn't have to hold my partners hand any time they need to get a job or make a big purchase or go to the doctor. When is it my turn to get taken care of huh?
I've always wanted a partner who will take charge but even when I discuss that with someone prior to our relationship I...
Tyler Bennett
Charles Martin
i fuck bitches behind dumpsters
Jason Bailey
This seems like a common phenomenon in all age groups, but I find that women to a greater degree have this meandering, listless demeanor.
When should I come to visit?
>i dunno. any time.
So, what are you into?
>anything i guess.
It's to the point where I'm convinced they just someone- anyone- to take charge. Men suffer this too.
Logan Gray
why do you think there's so many people who are literally excited about having the government take control of their bank account? why do so many people get giddy at the thought of censorship? lol most people are truly incapable of autonomy.
Xavier Taylor
That's what I'm saying. I hate having to be the one who decides fucking everything. I hate feeling like if I relax for a second the other person will just sit around and do nothing until the house falls apart but without fail right after the get to know eachother phase I have to choose everything. Where we eat. When we clean. How we handle money. What we do for fun. When you have to plan everything the relationship becomes a chore. I've never had a partner take ME out or tell me what we're doing. I hate being lonely and I don't really have an issue attracting people but I'm beginning to feel like being single is less head ache
Juan Perry
>Where we eat. When we clean. How we handle money. What we do for fun.
I get it, I really do. But you can actually take advantage of this. Make your partner do all the things you enjoy doing and slowly mould them into a version of yourself that you can actually have sex with! Win win!
On the other hand, I get how it can feel like you're just interacting with a black hole. When they don't have any enthusiasm, it's better to be single. I think I'd agree with that.
Logan Powell
>When should I come to visit?
>>i dunno. any time.
I have to deal with this shit with my own mother and sister. I started a group chat so that we can start hanging out, and all they say is "ok" and heart my messages. It's rage-inducing.
Liam Ward
Jason Bennett
I've tried this and it works until they meet a new friend who calls you abusive and that sense of absolute trust you manipulated into them gets turned on you as they trust new friend over you implicitly because they're the new favorite person
Isaiah Roberts
Shit man, sounds like your friend group and/or peers might be fucked. I've only had one girlfriend so I don't know how common your experience is.
Landon Stewart
I feel like a chronic starter boy friend. I've dated a couple dozen people and every time it's super intense for a few months. Has a period out to like the first year or 2 where it's a full time soul sucking job and then they find a new plaything and I get left for the newer younger richer not exhausted person
Christopher Howard
I'd say either exclusively meet up with people over age 25 or only pursue casual sex. Maybe even both. Sounds like the people you date are all relatively young and inexperienced. I think women are prone to the same coombrain shit that is posted here, except for them it isn't porn. Women's brains are fried by the instant gratification of social media. Imagine being a decent-looking young woman today and having hundreds of horny guys in your PM's, some being more discreet than others. How could you not reply "k" and "sure" to every message thread?
Aaron Hall
Its true that most of my partners have been younger. But I did date an older guy one time. He was a software engineer in his 40s and I thought "he's got it together" but literally the week after I moved in with him he lost his job and I spent the next year financially supporting him while he chased being a small business owner. And then when he did get a job he met another engineer friend and cheated on me and left for that guy
Hunter Campbell
What a doucher! Well it sounds like you've had a series of bad lucks. Like I said, I would enjoy being single if I were you. I know I am. You can have all the casual sex you want and no one will bitch at you. What even is dating besides having slightly better access to a fuckhole? I don't think I've ever been "in love", with all the butterflies, since I was 11. If I want love, I chill with my family. At least that is how I look at it. Too many low-quality dating prospects at the moment.
Connor Sullivan
Hooking up is all I do now but I do get incredibly lonely for emotional intimacy sometimes. Someone to grow with who will stand by me as an equal. It's doesn't seem like a little loyalty and sharing of burdens is much to ask for
Nathaniel Torres
Hey op, maybe you don't need to be taken care of. That is not a bad thing. Maybe you act in a way people actually believe you are the one who takes care of everything. If that is what you like, enjoy it and stop whining. Verification not required.
Blake Ramirez
Why can't family and close friends fill that need? As it happens, close friends and family can't "cheat" on you.
Colton Ward
My friends are cool but I've never felt like we're emotionaly intimate cool. And don't have any family. Mom and dad died when I was 17 and I've been figuring it out since
Cameron Taylor
falling for the ol' monogamous, "committed" relationship scam I see. and still, in 2022? yikes.
Leo Robinson
>falling for the ol' monogamous, "committed" relationship scam I see. and still, in 2022? yikes.
This made me laugh unreasonably loud user. Good meme.
I think you should pursue closer friendships. It may be ultimately more fulfilling and rewarding than sifting through the dating dumpster. Who knows, you might actually find someone you're romantically interested in if you change up your perspective thusly.
Nolan Rogers
I'd settle for polyamourous committed relationship but it never works. It always just ends up being a vehicle for emotional infidelity