Share whatever is on your mind anons, this is a comfy thread

Share whatever is on your mind anons, this is a comfy thread.
We chat, we share, let it be anything.
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I want a big hairy bear to smash my clean shaven twink ass.

I wish I had a view of a city from my bedroom window. Living in the middle of nowhere is dull.

Same here! My favorite view I had before was when I lived in Rancho Cucamonga and could see the mountains and even some houses and a highway near the mountain just from my second story room. It was a 10/10 sight and I miss it very dearly!
Closest thing I got to a view of the city is certain hotel rooms i've been in that weren't utter motel 6 trash.

I have such a view user.
Is comfy. The people look like ants.

I hate how romantically inept I am. I thought this was easy mode

What makes you feel so romantically inept user?
And honestly, romance is hard. My best relationship was one that just fell in my lap, and even then our relationship went sour cause she had a lot of trauma from being abused or something by close loved ones. She would randomly think I was touching myself at the park or even touching her while she slept, and everytime I'd awkwardly tell her that I wasn't doing that. Got really emotionally and mentally draining to always be seen as some pervy creep.
Fast forward a couple years when we were just friends, she tells me she was molested and that because she was molested she also molested someone in her family so... yeah. Love's hard, ll

That was a ride to read. Does that mean she was projecting?

I’ve never had a relationship

I think she was definitely projecting, and it got bad enough where she would be delusional thinking I was gonna report her to the police for abusing me when she literally did nothing to abuse me, was very weird and got too red flaggy schitzo for me. When things were nice though they literally were absolutely comfy and no problems whatsoever, whenever she got paranoid, shit got weird fast.

Also relationships are really nice! I just explained an extreme situation for one of mine ending but it is nice to feel the comfort of someone who genuinely wants to see you succeed and grow and just, well be yourself.
A relationship only st arts to grow sour when one or the other or worst case scenario, both parties end up disliking each other from a base stand point. I'd say the only thing a couple really needs to look out for, is when they start growing resentful of the other or any form of negative seed starts to be planted and grow.

What attempts have you done to get one? Honestly, as cliche as it is, you really just find someone randomly in life that just calls out to your heart, and if you are lucky, their heart will call out for you

I'm also in your boat. My GF's grandparents were abusive as fuck working her 60 hours a week and wouldn't let her talk back. One time she got hit over the head with a shovel and they would get the guns out for disagreements and show them around. I got her away from them but its seriously fucked her because for the first like 5 months she rarely said no then one day she said something no over something "serious" and was shaking and the thing that was serious was I made the chicken too dry. It hasn't gone south yet though and I hope it doesn't shes chill as fuck tomboy introvert.

I can't really woo romance a girl either. I'm a very blunt person and can't do the flirting bullshit, usually I'll just finger/eat her a few minutes to get her ready then go to pound town. Its hard to find, but you can find a girl where you just do it through actions like helping her out in schoolwork or cuddling and its enough for them. Most of the time the relationship really starts to work(for me anyway) is when you stop projecting all the romantic "owo we love eachother uwu" stuff for everyone to see and just behave normally around each other. But to most people once you stop complimenting her on how shes pretty every day or calling her something like honey constantly you don't love her. Fuck that shit. Its not easy mode, you kinda just figure out as you go.

I'm kind of worried about the whole Russia-Ukraine thing. Too many trolls and bots to figure out what's really happening.

WW£ nig wdym?

Also chekem

Wow, she sounds super cute user, I do hope that everything works out for you two. Hearing that event you had with her over the chicken, those moments can get very scary. For me it was just having her randomly accusing me of doing something perverted which was a weird projection everytime, and i'd usually just hug her and let her know that no I wasn't doing whatever thing she was imagining. Your girlfriend mostly sounds like she might've felt a lot of pressure on making the meals perfect back when she lived with her grandparents or something.

Also yes, all this, I actually sometimes am the more uwu lovey one in the relationship, even as a man, but even then I like reaching the point in the relationship where if you are acting a bit more relaxed and not just constantly all over your partner, and you two can just feel relaxed and, good!
You really just got to figure it out as you go, we are all complex and human~

yea I see why most people don't date the ones with ptsd or whatever because you never really know what'll set them off and you gotta be on egg shells until you figure it out. I still think the meme of "i got abused and now I like it sexually" is real because she ended up like that too where she wants to get dominated hard and rough but she doesn't like to talk about the shit that happen. She has a bad burn on her right neck where you can see where the skin got fucked up and its stretched weird. I honestly have no idea what they did there but she never told me what it was when I asked.

I do understand that many choose to avoid women with trauma or PTSD, but I grew up to understand that almost everyone has some form of trauma that can haunt them from their past, so best thing is to just treat everyone human and see if you two can get along!~

Also from my experience, a lot of women I have dated or been with do end up sexualizing their traumatic experience in some way, or being hyper avoidant of it.
Also ah, maybe she is trying to avoid going back to the memory of getting the burn, or maybe even feels embarrased. It can be weird to share something that you can't get rid of, especially physically. I got scars that were from something as lame as acne on my chest, but I always have to juts say "Yeah it's kelloids" instead of some cool self defense story or something haha

As much as I miss living in south Korea and dream of doing so again (this time perma), I know it's extremely unlikely for a number of reasons. In particular, this potato-girl who interviewed me for a job there in January via Zoom, and I haven't heard from her since, even after having emailed for a follow-up. Maybe I *should* just stop and continue focusing on Japan instead; even though it's not any more likely that I'll be there, at least the people (the ones who live where I am) are willing to talk to me in Japanese and show appreciation to my presence. Them and my actual Japanese friends I've had for years.

Kinda sucks too, because I'm really getting into this new K-Drama that's sure to take off in popularity soon, but I've also really gotten into the Mobile Suit Gundam series after having watched the entire '79 season in January-Feb.

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South Korea has always looked like such a nice place to visit, and even live! I'm sorry to hear that a job opportunity sounds like it's falling through though, you should keep applying though, or like you said, stay with comfy Japan where it seems people treat you better there for whatever reason.

I always would miss the old friends I had if I ever moved but hey, just focus on what it is you want to do in this world, the rest of the world clearly doesn't have a better idea of what we are doing haha.

Also ooooh, I love Mobile Suit Gundam from what I have seen but I actually got into Kamen Rider this year due to just being really into an anime with cool outfits, that was literally my only requisite for a show a while back.

I sort of want to tell my friend that I want to date her given we've been pretty much friends for 1/2 a decade and indulge in the same fetish. Hell at this point I am her go to to dictate on what to do or what rulesets i'd recommend so she doesn't go overboard.

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Hate is born from fear, fear is born from the unknown. We hate others because we see something in them that is not in us.

Poetry only, I wouldn't want to cause harm with more ideas that sound nice but mean nothing.

Does that say something about me? I guess my head is a funny mess, thanks for being there for me.

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Listening to this shit feeling actual unironic angst at the system that failed me

If you guys have been friends for that long and even openly indulge in the same fetish with her, I definitely think you two can start something fun!

May I ask what sort of fetish you two are in?~

Nice piece of poetry there. I got really into the idea of how we all go through similar experiences, yet at the same time go through very unique ones as well. We may never know how another person fully feels.