Anyone here under 23?

Anyone here under 23?
How do you get a girlfriend?

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Just dont be ugly, bro.

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Solid adice faggot.

>be 17 yo me
>constantly try to find gf
>meet and kiss with some girls i contacted via social media
>it all never gets more than some dates
>probably mostly cause i was still in chase mode and want a hot gf and not just "some" gf
>also they wont touch my peepee and wont sex with me, so basically only kissing
>say fuck it i just dont care anymore
>start hitting gym with good friend
>smoke weed every weekend
>make rap music as hobby
>go to clubs every weekend
>smoke a lot of cigarettes
>girl literally asks for my phone number at tram station
>when i smoke weed with friend at weekend invite her over
>she tickles me and i tickle her back in my bed
>we joke around
>friend gets a bit uncomfy, goes home
>she teases me but doesnt let me cum
>next day we have sex while watching how high together
>she's becomes my gf and breaks up with her actual boyfriend for me

sorry to break it to you but you need an unhealthy douchy lifestyle to find a girl.
hopefully some other guys here had an easier time.

What’s your current situation? Where do you live, how much do you make, are you a NEET? Hard to give advice without some specifics.

I will tell you if you want but do you actually want to give me advice?

Hit me

I'm a programming student. i live In romania. I spend a lot of my time right now inside because I need to program a lot of stuff for my final year. I dont make any money but I have a lot of money from my parents.

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why dont you just use tinder?

It sounds like at the moment the most important thing to you is finishing school. This is a good thing, you’re laying a foundation that will help you be a suitable mate.

What’s your social life like when you aren’t programming?

I have a small but very close groups of 7-8 friends that are all mutual with each other. Other than that nothing more.

Tried, only got ghosted. Didnt use it much because after 3 matches with no responses I saw no reason to continue. I will probably just go back to it if I see no alternative

You have to be top tier to get any action as a man on dating sites, especially a dating site like Tinder which was specifically designed for basic bitches. Real life meetings are infinitely better.

pwnd

>you need to be douchy
that hurts very much.

Not under 23 but was an incel until 28, 31 now
Stop caring. Thats literally all you have to do. Easier said than done I know. I gave up on women completely, decided that I want to feel the full effects of a healthy body before it starts to deteriorate so o started working out. Made time for my friends and family. Started volunteering. Joined a local dungeons and dragons group cos I always wanted to play. After about a year, women started approaching me, and I'm an ugly fuck. It was my happiness, my confidence that attracted them, they wanted a piece of it. From there it was easy to get a girl. But now I'm stuck because I actually fucking hate women, don't trust them, know about hypergamy, game, redpill shit etc.. So I know that she will cheat or lie or manipulate me and I can already see her trying to stop me from working out and shit so I'm not as attractive and she doesn't have as much competition. I preferred when I was single though blowjobs are nice. Anyway sorry for wall of text and thanks for reading my blog

>I live in romania
yeah I live here too and that is your first problem. get the hell away from this place.

My main advice would be to try to branch out of your friend group a bit and meet new people. I’ve met all my girlfriends from people I knew or from activities I was a part of. The more people you meet, the more opportunities will be presented to you.

If you’re introverted, try joining some kind of casual club. I did a coed kickball league in the states and have met many women over the years. I’m not sure what’s in Romania but they might have some casual football leagues. Or if you’re really into programming, do some tech meetups. The main goal should be to meet cool people though. And by cool I mean people that you get along with and make you happy.hope that helps.

i dont even want to give advice anymore to people like OP cause i literally see no problem in being single. having a gf is only fun if you are real friends. otherwise it's just stressful and annoying.

>I'm not sure what's In romania
nothing.

1. talk to girls
2. ask girls out

the only reason you don't have a gf is you're too scared of being hurt or rejected to try.

to be honest, OP mentioned he was on his last year of college so, honestly if I were him I'd just focus on finishing, landing a decent job and then see what happens next. I wouldn't want a girl to distract me during key moves in my career.

>Be white
>Approach negress
>Say "hay BB u wan sum fuck!"
>Negress is impressed by your masterful use of the English language
>Girl friend achieved
>Hand holding commences
>Arrested for public indecency

/thread

if you are a healthy 23 yo man and single and you dont fap 3-4 times a day i dont even know how you survive without going nuts. your balls basically refill in real-time at that age

Not OP but just wanted to say you are a lucky person.

> some tech meetups.
Being a programmer is seen as a strait up negative trait in romania.. WOmen really hate that..
But I get what you're saying. it's true I havent met new people in a long time