Comfy thread. What are you up to user?

Comfy thread. What are you up to user?
Finally a night alone. It will be perfect. I have my astronomy gear set up, i'll make some hot cocoa, podcast ready to go... everything i need.
I love my girlfriend, but my god women are incapable of letting a guy have some time for him selfe.

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If that is how you feel then you need to make your gf understand that you need some space for yourself, that way you will also appreciate her more.

No, that will simply make him appreciate her more inaccurately.

So you think every moment of his life should be about his gf?
That just sounds sad.

You've misunderstood. I simply meant that needing to condition your significant other to act less like a dog will just make you more blind to the fact that they are one.

So you are instead saying that he should leave her because she is a dog?
A dog can be trained to not be so needy, a mans gotta have his alone time, if she cant accept that THEN he can consider leaving her.

If i misunderstood you again then maybe its not me who has problems understanding, but instead you are terrible at getting your point across.

I never said he should leave her, as she might have some redeemable value not addressed in OP's post. My point is definitely that if it acts like a dog, no amount of "proper training" will ever do anything but fool yourself.

And my point was that even if she acts like a dog it doesnt mean she is a dog, maybe she is behaving that way simply because she is used to it, is there really only self deception to gain from trying?

>if she acts like a dog it doesnt mean she is a dog
Yes it does
>is there really only self deception to gain from trying?
that and a more well-behaved girlfriend.

Im so confused about what you actually think, If you think she can become more well-behaved then obviously you think she can change/learn, which means that even if she acts like a dog she can learn to change that which contradicts your first response.
You also ignored the part where i explained why acting like a dog is not the same as being a dog, as if from something said by a third party about a person you have never met is enough for you to conclude she is a dog. Are you off your meds or something?

I am abundantly and clearly pointing out that if you need to fucking train your girlfriend, maybe you are lying to yourself that you are fucking a stupid animal. Also, you explained nothing. You said maybe she is just "used to it" or something retarded. Are you a low self-esteem reject looking for a fight or something?

> podcast ready to go
Which one?

>I have my astronomy gear set up
Also how easy to get into stargazing? I have very little money to spare and live in a small town with light pollution, not as much as in big cities, but enough to obscure stars when looking up with the naked eye.

>What are you up to user?
It's midday for me. Just chilling on Any Forums watching video essays on games on the side.

You are probably right. The thing is, i have told her. She tryes to give me more space, but she has a hard time with it. Basically whenever she sees something interesting she has to share it with me. And since i have told her, she has gotten into the habbit of doing that in batches. But still, she's a bit clingy. It's nothing serious, it will work out in time, but i still am really going to enjoy a bit of solitude tonight.
Thanks for the advice though.
You have weird views on women. I'm curious. How happy are you in your current relatinship?
What are you talking about? She is great, she is smart, cute, does the housework and is fun in bed. She has a bit of a hard time letting me have my alone time, which we have discussed and she is working on it. Man you extrapolate a lot from half a paragraph.

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Is it training when you say "I'd like some more alone time"?
The "used to" it part was just 1 out of many possibilities, NONE of which you considered even for a second, it seems you have forgotten that you are a stupid animal because you seem to think you know everything and now you are also making it personal, maybe because your big ego cant handle not "winning" internet arguments.
How can you be abundantly clear when nothing you are saying is making any sense?
Grow up a bit before giving advice to others.

Narrow b8 m8; if your reading comprehension is that poor, you still have nothing to be buttmad about. ..Anyone who uses the term "used to" and not "conditioned towards" is retarded, but seething because you don't like a conflicting idea on the internet is embarrassing.
>is it training when you say "I'd like some more alone time"?
Yes, necessary behavioral reinforcement of your partner is not only what you would do with a horse or a pet, it is also entirely shameful, tedious, and in my opinion, not a good sign.

Not that it matters, but OP did end up agreeing with me while calling you out for your bullshit.
Saying i need more space is something i would say (perhaps i would word it a bit different), because i value honesty, it could even turn out that she agrees and only was clingy because she thought i liked it, only 1 way to find out really and that is actually talking to her, i personally would not suffocate in a relationship like this and would fix the situation before it becomes a habit, but thats just me.

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>Saying i need more space is something i would say (perhaps i would word it a bit different)
Kek, this is just what I was preaching. Mincing your shit to convince yourself that you aren't dating a fucking rat is great, but I'm still gonna make fun of you for it.

You really are a weird fellow, forcing someone to change their behaviour or leave them isnt exactly convincing yourself of anything, either you convince the other person to change or you leave, where does the self deception come in? Im not the kind of person that fools himself, but you seem to be if you have convinced yourself that i am.

>Which one?
Mr metokur
>Also how easy to get into stargazing?
Depends on how serious you want to get. Pair of binoculars will let you see things like the orion nebula or the seas of the mon. A cheap telescope setup can give you amazing resaults. A 300$ starter set will give you everything you need to see some amazing shit. If you want to get into asto photography, youll need more expensive stuff. Apochromatic telescope, astro camera, high mag barlo and filters. That goes up in the 1000s of dollars quickly.
>It's midday for me. Just chilling on Any Forums watching video essays on games on the side.
A fun chill afternoon. Sounds nice.

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>Mr metokur
Kek, Been a while since I watched anything from him.

And thanks for the info user, I'll start off with a cheap telescope then.

Good luck. If you do decide to get into photography, buy a 100$ planet camera, it's actually perfectly fine for deepsky too. I took the images i shared here with one.

Gotcha. The are indeed very nice pics. especially op.