Do people actually regularly have sex? I find it hard to believe. I don't really understand what the societal expectations for having sex are or what is healthy. Am I meant to just get a girlfriend for the sole purpose of having sex with her? I don't want a girl to just like hang out at my house all day and I don't want to lie and say it's for another reason. Are people just hooking up on apps and in real life regularly? Does this involve lying about intentions every time or just most of the time? Isn't this immoral and degrading to the quality of the race? How and why would you get someone to agree to do something immoral with you? But it's not like anyone wants to get married. I had sex with 2 girls like 10 years ago but since high school ended there have been no girls around. Where even are people encountering girls?
Do people actually regularly have sex? I find it hard to believe...
i would say tinder is responsible for like over 50% of hookups nowdays because the internet made everyone autistic, only super hot people actually find random sex partners in public because they probably get regularly approached anyway, other than that it's pretty easy to find a gf or a girl to hookup with at a shitty minimum wage job or in college classes, or you could always be bold and ask a girl at a bar or coffee shop or bookstore or something for her number
You're just an antisocial autist. I live with my GF because she is my best mate and we have loads of fun together. We also have sex but I'd probably still be living with her if we couldn't.
Also just talk to girls. It's really not that hard, they are people just like you and me. If you click ask them to do something fun together and it might result in sex. Don't aim for sex, aim for fun and sex will probably follow. Girls can smell desperation.
Yeah I have sex regularly with my long term partner. Usually 3-4 times a week. I’ve been with her for six years so idk what the dating scene is like now or much about hookup culture but we met online and went on a date and a few years later we moved in together. There is more to it than just the sex though, yeah it’s fun but we also support each other and help each other around the house and do our best to make it a home.
>Where even are people encountering girls?
In social settings mostly, but if you dont work, go to school, hang out with a co-ed group of people or some other activity where men and women congregate, you arent going to meet women.
I had some good luck with hookups on dating sites in the pre tinder era as well. Plenty of Fish and what ever that other free one was were pretty good. if you are a decent looking guy with your own place you could pretty much find someone to fuck that day, if you were willing to go for girls less attractive than you.
I read the 1st sentence.
Yeah people have sex mostly females/whores and 6ft tall fit guys with over 100k in money named chad.
Popular people meet people through regular social gathering events.
That chat online with same 100 people everyday, for their whole life. Then meet them a few times a week, every week, their whole life.
Supposedly its a chore being popular/celebrity. But that's how you do it i guess.
I'm less looking for advice on how to have sex and more trying to undertstand the modern societal relationship to sex and sexual morality and how I am expected to behave. I'm aware I can find crackhead to suck my prematurely ejaculating, autistic dick, but I wouldn't get much out of that. The message about sex just seems incoherent to me. What kind of sexual behavior does society desire for me to engage in?
Honestly don’t know how many girls I’ve had sex with but if I’m single it’s roughly 10 - 20 girls a year 2019 being my record of 23. I’ve had 2 long term relationships since then with only two hook ups. Honestly it’s easy. I’m 37 so I’ve had years to perfect my craft. What I’ve learn works the best is to do as little as possible and let them do all the chasing. It needs to be their idea so don’t be too available. Girls like the chase as much as we do and they want to feel like they’ve won at the end of it. They don’t like being chased and as soon as they know they can have you they lose interest. Sounds cringe but act like James Bond. I don’t mean wear a suit and come out with cheesy lines but just observe how he treats women and how he acts around them and do it in your own way.
What's the point of doing this?
Society is fucked right now, but if you wanna have sex with a purpose, find a girl who wants to make a life and family with you.
What's the point of life? Why is porn sexy? Some things just naturally happen because people are naturally inclined to do it OP, why do people eat?
But what if youre an ugly balding autistic manlet like I am? I dont think girls will want to hang out with me let alone fuck me.
My wife and I have sex when we're both in the mood. Maybe 5 times a year. Most of the time we play Soulsborne games together ( 2 TVs, 2 consoles) and just enjoy our lives as it happens.
People who have sex a lot are just unable to find meaning in their purpose with others. There is nothing wrong with self-value, so this also isn't an issue. Life is what you make it - don't follow anyone's example as a guide.
>society
That's an abstract question which isn't useful. It is skewed by commercial drives, and an epidemic of narcissism. I'm not just bullshitting, there's lots out there on this. More useful for you to ask what do you want. And go after that. There are no rules, there is no "immoral" unless you want to hand over your agency to religion. Be in integrity about what you want for yourself, and how you communicate that to a prospective partner.
1. you have to be attracted to each other. She has to be excited about you having sex with her and you have to be excited about having sex with her.
2.You have to make her feel like you know what you want and you know what your doing. (See rule #1 first) if she is excited about being with you then she will be excited by your confidence, your desire to seek sexual satisfaction from her.
3. You have to be familiiar with a female body. Know where everything is. Know what women like.
4. You have to enjoy giving pleasure to a woman. Guys like gettting their dick sucked and cumming but you also have to desire and enjoy giving sexual stimulation to women. That includes touching her based on her body reactions, using your tounge etc.
The rest is just personal preferences and fetishes that kind of thing. Some women like to be used. Some women are so worried that the guy isnt going to have fun that they just want to make the guy feel good even if they dont feel good themselves.
If you have a long term relationship sex just becomes an unspoken thing. It just happens
i have sex regularly. i actually met my guy at work. but i feel like 99% of relationships now *are* based on tinder or some other dating app. idk i dont use that shit.
Buzz off your hair, accept being short and stop giving a shit about those things, do other stuff you can be confident about and stop acting like a girl a predicating your worth on your looks.
If you're fit and got hobbies and a career going for you, you being bald and short isn't an issue.
I have hobbies that arent degenerate. Healthy hobbies and stuff, and I exercise. But I do not have a good career because of my adhd and aspergers I have no attention span and dropped out of college
and you probably think you're cool but you are actually a piece of human trash
Where?
>What's the point of life?
In one sense it is reproduction. In another it is fulfillment, expression, and understanding of the will of God.
>Why is porn sexy?
It is the illusion of sex.
>Why do people eat?
Many reasons.
Why does what I want matter in the slightest? I'm a grain of sand in an hourglass. I want to do what is best for the whole but I don't know what it is.
>You have to make her feel like you know what you want and you know what your doing.
That would be a lie. Why would she trust me after lying to her?
I'm not gonna answer the rest because you're just talking about fucking and not really addressing the why. I can read pickup artist bullshit on Reddit.
Career can also be a trade user.
I'm in the same boat as you, I've got ADD and autism too and I work in a grocery store because I'm sociable and like tidying up, which are both good qualities when you gotta deal with costumers and keeping things in stock.
I bet you have personal qualities that would make you ideal for some trade job out there.