Personally I have any form of intimate contact like twice a year. Of course I feel lonely as fuck, but I'm trying to gauge whether I'm a loser, or it's completely normal for singles not to have sex really.
If I have a FWB arrangement then once or twice a week. If not then I can go months without so much as a hug, let along sex.
Bentley Cruz
....... years apart, always on the first date and I never start it. In my defense I have chosen not to fuck others unless I have an emotional connection to them, and am currently running away from a real girl that's trying to jump my bone hardcore.
Hello I never had sex although I was offered it But I don't see why it wouldn't be normal not to have sex If you're not doing it because of your laziness and lack of involvement in society and life in general, then those things themselves are what makes you feel like a loser But I think that having sex rarely or even being a virgin by itself is not at all an issue because, although one of the most primitive aspects of any creature, there is much more to us and seeking higher experiences is what being human is about If you tick all the boxes in most women's preferences and you're outgoing, successful etc., then refusing to have sex or more realistically not having it often can be seen as a good trait, desirable, even making you saint-like The person I keep thinking about while writing this is Swoozie (Adande), I think that's a nice example
Nathaniel Wilson
oh god get that naked woman out of my sight
yup, the only correct way
> If you tick all the boxes in most women's preferences and you're outgoing, successful etc., then refusing to have sex or more realistically not having it often can be seen as a good trait, desirable, even making you saint-like
I'm not a Chad, but there are good things about me. There are people who want to have sex with me, but the problem is, these aren't people I want to have sex with.
Matthew Torres
Ahh I see your a man of culture as well can we have a pic of you please? no head needed and or no bottom half if that's not your thing. also understandable your doing this by choice if you don't want to have sex then who cares what anyone else thinks? your not a loser for having standards.
William Ortiz
> I'm not a Chad, but there are good things about me. There are people who want to have sex with me, but the problem is, these aren't people I want to have sex with.
Such is life. It's also funny how many onlines will hit on you just cause you're a gay furry artist.
Jordan Edwards
>but the problem is, these aren't people I want to have sex with Why is it problem? Just don't have sex with them and there is no problem I think you should just improve every day, make yourself known in whatever hobby club you're into, engage with people you find attractive and give your best at talking with them I think it's not worth it wasting time on seeking out people, better to attract them btw I'm a furry too *highfive*
> I think you should just improve every day, make yourself known in whatever hobby club you're into, engage with people you find attractive and give your best at talking with them > I think it's not worth it wasting time on seeking out people, better to attract them
Yeah, but at some point you're highly educated, nice, athletic, and so on, but still sexless.
Levi Brooks
mmmm I don't see any problems here. What are you into? what draws you to your preferred type?
Dominic Gray
Pardon my directness but you don't look very athletic to me :p But you do look fit and cuddly and your butt is so cute
Christian Collins
The man of my dreams:
1. Age 50-65.
2. Extremely hairy.
3. Big beer gut. In general a big man.
4. Open to fetishes and kinks (I am a bottom sub)
5. Honest and direct
6. Talkative, with a sense of humor
7. A bit of a "redneck" personality, I hate posh people. I love men who wear old clothes and bathe once a week
Alexander Ward
Yes, I don't look athletic, but that's because people who have high stamina (think of marathon runners or long-distance cyclists) don't have amazing bodies. If you challenge me on a long-distance bike race or mountain hiking, you'll lose, and even if you win, I'll enjoy the race anyway.
Julian Nguyen
cool, not what I expected ..... that age is going to make it hard for you to find someone that wants to be real with you wanting to stick together. I only have three things on this list I fit. I wish you the best of luck finding someone whom makes you happy and you do the same for them.
Yeah, I know, but I'm mostly looking for "actually good friends with benefits". I am aware that a relationship with someone more than twice my age is just a fantasy.
Josiah Anderson
Oh? I guess there's some real endurance under all that softness Would love to challenge you to either of those, preferably hiking And if you got any stamina left after we could enjoy ourselves even more
Henry Rivera
I agree with the age aspect being probably the biggest factor here.
you're like, what, probably mid-twenties - early thirties? A 20+ year age gap like that is lil unfavorable
If you live in Europe, then I am open to a mountain trip together. Of course I'd like to get to know you beforehand, but in general I am open to the idea.
Carson Collins
? what state are you in if you would sate my curiosity