I recently got a girlfriend after 24 years of loneliness and virginity, she's great, slim, cute, great ass and she's great at sex.
Problem is I have spent the last ~14 years jerking it almost every day, I have almost no sensation in my dick I've jerked it that much, when we fuck I can't keep a boner because her pussy doesn't feel even remotely as tight or nice as my hand does... We've had sex a few times now and I just can't keep my boner or cum.
Is there a way to fix this because it's causing me a lot of internal anguish, she on the other hand doesn't seem to mind, she cums every time we fuck.
I'm super attracted to her and it's fucking with me that we can't have "proper" sex.
people who use the word "great" this much are usually full of shit.
Zachary Nguyen
Get a cock ring, and go to Roman.com and get yourself some viagra
Angel Diaz
From here on out you must stop watching porn and jacking off. Then give it time. Also from here on out the only sexual stimulation your dick gets is from your girlfriend. That's it.
Xavier Harris
>slim That's your problem. Skinny girls are loose, fat girls are tight. Simple as.
Christian Diaz
This is a genuine option and she's already told me she'd be down, but I'd like to be able to fuck her pussy to orgasm aswell, we can't do anal all the time.
I'm already doing this, I haven't jerked off since the first time we had sex and I couldn't cum, nearly a week ago. This is the longest time I've gone without jerking for a long time. I'm super horny but I have horrible anxiety that I'll never be able to cum with her...
>get yourself some viagra Already on the way, I don't want to have to rely on Viagra though if I can avoid it.
Gabriel Reyes
This, or simply return to your life of degeneracy
Ayden Bailey
I've experienced this problem OP. Just keep at it. That's all you can do.
Joshua Kelly
How long did it take to resolve?
Christopher Young
Can I join the Azov Battalion if I'm Jewish? I've heard Azov are like, nazis or something? I'm Ashkenazi jewish and I want to go and help fight for Ukraine because I have family there. I don't mind the violence so much (I play a lot of CoD so I should be alright) but I do worry about being potentially misgendered (I'm MtF). Are they like, really regressive over there? I won't tolerate hate. War and hardship is literally no excuse for Ukrainians/Russians to be bigoted and hateful.
Stop watching porn/jerking off for at least a week. Keep being a selfless lover during that time. Don’t have penetrative sex or have her try to get you off. Give an excuse of spoiling her or something so she doesn’t get suspicious. You basically want to starve yourself. That’s how I did it, but there are other ways.
Jonathan Lewis
Loosen your grip when you jerk. Better yet, get a Fleshlight.
Joshua Peterson
Generic cialis. Take one, bone her shit out for 48 hours t. boomer
Jack Russell
Seems like the first thing you’d try but switch positions. Might be less loose fucking her sideways than doggy. Worked that way for a tinder date I had a few months back
Asher Turner
I don’t recommend fleshlights/onaholes.
I used them to masturbate exclusively during a dry spell and I became addicted to them. First time having sex after, it took me 20-30 minutes to cum.
Christopher King
jerk it less often, but if you have to use a fleshlight with lube. They feel amazing and you wont have to gorilla grip your donger
Ryder Myers
I had this issue. Took like a month of zero -- absolutely zero -- porn or fapping to start to get better, but prob a few months before I was actually 'normal'. After a few weeks you'll start to notice your erections are getting way stronger, and you'll get hard more quickly in the right situations etc. It's embarrassing but just keep making up excuses for a while and eventually it'll clear up. Good luck man.
Kayden Lee
Like 6 months
Zachary Clark
tops
Hunter Richardson
Six fucking months? Jesus.
Matthew Johnson
It's going to take few weeks to regain the sensitivity from death grip. Last time I had to do anything like that it took me a month until my dick was highly sensitive again.
Dominic Davis
at the most, but the good news is you can fix it. Then just keep the porn to a minimum after that. It's an addiction and you can easily slip back into fapping nonstop, and you'll wreck your dick again.
