just got stealth divorced. Supported a woman through cancer, court, prison, and parole. within one month within parole being over she stealth divorces me.
i feel so used and gullible >i took out a loan in my name that i cant pay off. >she maxed a credit card in my name and i hardly saw a cent of it, >signed house into her name >made me quit my job and leave across country back with my parents >i believe every reason she gave me and trusted this wasnt a set up >lmao within 2 weeks she told me she wants to be single and needs to find herself. >i waited and supported this jobless woman through multiple jobs, her being unemployed 85% this marriage. >i stay with her, look past it, and try to help "save" her and rebuild her life >i worked and sent her money while she was in prison and in halfway house >i moved to her and help fund and work for her own business she started, which she takes all 100% credit for >it wasnt viable and we lost money on every sale, but it built her business. >we spent every single cent of money we loaned and i earned >she is now a semi-successful small business owner, and offered a great job at a high class restaurant because of it >i am now living with my parents and i have no home of my own or income, with $0.00 to my name and lots of outstanding debt. >oh yeah this is the month i was supposed to be a dad to twin girls with her to, she has great timing >i started dating her when she was getting divorced, recovering from a coke habit, and used to be an escort, and she was going on trial >oh yeah she also had brain cancer and 6 months to live but idk if this is even true at all, but i still took care of her through it >i looked past everything to save this women just because she seemed to love me and we had the same values in life, i thought that mattered more than shallow things like looks or history or race >im a full 1488 nazi, or at least I was then, and i let a half native do this to me, because i believed in love above all things
>our whole marriage im walking on eggshells >she is always mad and fighting and making reasons why its wrong for me to leave her >she is constantly threatening to leave me over every small thing >wants me to change myself completely and give up everything that costs any money so she can have more to spend >was constistently violenty against me, always punching me and smacking me >would cry and scream abuse if i pushed her away or smacked her on the cheek in self defense >to highlight this, she once pulled a kitchen knife on me because i asked her to stop being so mean to me all the time, and she stabbed me in the arm. while im bleeding and naked in the shower trying to wash off all the blood, she is yelling at me and insulting me and smacking me. she wouldnt let me wash myself and if i went to the hospital it would cause her to go to jail with her already being in court. >the small bruise she got from me shoving her when she stabbed me, she takes pictures of and still has to this day to use as blackmail when she needs it >always said it was "incase i killed her" which when i said i wasnt violent or she didnt need to be afraid of me, she would start a fight >every kindness was take advantage of and left with nothing
i feel like im too mindfucked to greentext, i feel like there is too much to say and im just blogposting.
the tldr is >whole marriage was a lie >she needed someone to save her and so she wouldnt be alone during her lowest point in life >now that she took everything from me and is about to be free of parole, she decides to get rid of me >not even kindly, just lies manipulation, threats, and anger >not even allowed to have the dog i love back, who she hates and wanted to get rid of our whole marriage
that dog was like my only daughter.
Christopher Morris
im 27, high school education only, no job/income and 0 friends and social contacts left now that she made me cut off my entire life and burn every bridge i had.
i got scammed so hard and feel so alone and used, and i just have no clue what im supposed to do or how im supposed to do it. i need to get a life but i dont even know how to make friends or how to start over.
Lincoln Price
someone please help me
Alexander Powell
Submerge your head in boiling water and inhale deeply
Bentley Murphy
get some student loans and go to the nearest university. it's a sea of 18 year old girls. if you enroll this fall you have until then to get fit and save some cash with any menial job that you can quit in the fall. just forget about your prostitute prison gf who scammed you. it was a dumb idea in the first place. block it out of your mind and focus on the goal (bang teenage college girls). and don't tell anyone about this ever again
Michael Ramirez
i expected as much thanks
i just have no direction and have no one to look to. im legit all i got other than my parents who this marriage really strained my relationship with
Jacob Wood
i like this advice and need this shit. trying to learn how to code right now, something i tried but my ex wife stopped me becuase it wasnt a "real mans job" also planning on applying for welding school.
im fucked for student loans and there is nothing in university that interests me. but maybe i can just get a job in the uni town once i get a degree in welding or whatever and then hit the bars they do. is that viable?
Adam Ross
If you expected such a reply it shows you have a glimmer of common sense. Someone as retarded as you should not procreate. You’re either A.) a fool who got taken who then expected Any Forums tards to have any advice of value or B.) a troll who thinks this is constitutes some kind of victory. We’re all degenerate losers here. Whether this is your source for inspiration and direction in life or your outlet for trolling you’ve dun goofed and really ought to neck yourself.
Seriously bro, just get out of the gene pool and help marginally increase the future potential of the human race
Michael Price
oh shut up nigger you have to admit i got JUST'd pretty fucking bad, and i was so niave and gullible it has to make you feel smarter. Laugh at my expense, because this shit has to have some good come out of it for someone other than her. I geuinely was retarded and ignored all the signs and common sense because i woman told me too, and i got exactly what everyone seen coming.
and there is tons of good advice here, i wouldnt of been the man worth scamming if it wasnt past advice that made me build up some value. i was a hugless kissless virgin for most of my life before i learned how to fake-chad its just i dont want stacies or beckies, i want a honest loving woman who is fun to be around.
is that my next lesson to learn? that there is none and im just super niave? im seeing the trend
Eli Nelson
>but maybe i can just get a job in the uni town once i get a degree in welding or whatever and then hit the bars they do. >is that viable? only if you get really, really fit. if you are an older guy coming to the college bar to get their pussy they will be upset with you and maybe the girls won't like it. it doesn't matter if you are fit enough and have money though. I'd still say go to school yourself. don't be an idiot user.. it's a sea of pussy
Jayden Kelly
the only thing id do is computer sciences. i have no clue what to take for course but i guess this is probably better than welding or trying to self teach over a year.
Wyatt Scott
Ah, I see. You’re an Intel poser. You can’t “pretend to be a chad” and succeed long term. You have to actually be alpha as fuck.
Stay sad bitch. The world does not care about you or your feelings
Aaron Harris
you can worry about your career etc later on. just go slay as many hoes as you can while you are young enough to get in the door but old enough to look cooler than some kid who just graduated high school. and don't just get an new gf and feels. that's dumb
Gabriel Powell
So basically you're a retard, what's new
Logan Scott
yes im retarded, and honestly not ashamed. I may of been hurt, but I didn't do anything wrong or take any ill moral action upon myself. She is the one who walks away having done wrong and putting hurt into this world. I'd rather an evil person take advantage of me, than take advantage of me AND take away the light that burns in me.
i was a poser, i went back to ignoring women and being a loner and just being the best version of myself. i had other owmen, and 3 ex's come back to me... but i chose this girl because i thought it was for the right reasons. im not trying to brag, because im literally retarded and wasted potential if anything.
you are a real bro, thanks user. Your advice was my mindset right before i got married, i let her take me off that path. The plan was, and is again now
>focus on setting up career and life for myself so i can live in own house and live my own lifestyle >find hobbies other than sitting inside alone on computer >get education and career rolling again >not stay a recluse, or focus on women.just bang chicks that are worth the effort, not get commited or distracted like before >constantly look for advice and new knowledge in which to better myself
now if i can just learn how to make friends. i literally have no clue how to be friends with other men, my original group was real fake rich kids who honestly werent loyal and seen me as an outcast. They actually told me, on my birthday, that they didnt want to come to my wedding but i could come to their cabin party after. these were the guys i talked to every single day since kindergarten. im a real outcast and fuck up
Charles Anderson
>>i took out a loan in my name that i cant pay off. HAH classic >>she maxed a credit card in my name and i hardly saw a cent of it, look at this dude >>im a full 1488 nazi, or at least I was then, and i let a half native do this to me, because i believed in love above all things OH NO NO NO NO
Gavin Ross
just goes to show you
Any Forums is right about women and anyone who says otherwise or believe there is an exception will end up like me.
Zachary White
Kill her. It's the only way to win forever and not let your life waste away meaninglessly. You'll be saving another man from meeting the same fate as you as well.
