Why must I over-analyze every relationship in my life?
Why can't I just have a good time with my friends instead of hyper-analyzing every action they make? Do normal people do this?
I'm genuinely looking for an answer here. Not just posting this to post it.
Why must I over-analyze every relationship in my life?
Carter Green
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Thomas Ramirez
Because you know you are an inferior impotent white boy who needs to get casterated so you do not waste anymore women's time
Landon Wood
you just have to chill user, please, don't do this to yourself, work on you and never come back to Any Forums please
Jordan Jackson
take the narcissist pill and this
Bentley Rodriguez
I only ever come here in the peak of boredom.
This question came to me because my friends amd I are planning a trip and everything they say, every message they send seems like it has some sort of other meaning to it. Do they really want me there? Do they actually care at all? or am I just a filler so they can split the cost better?
It's all exhausting but the only thing that silences these thoughts is drugs, which have already wrecked my psyche enough.
Parker Perez
drugs are cheats of life, just get over drugs and try to get your shit togheter, get help and please stop coming to Any Forums, great ideas come after boredom if you center yourself
try walking outside or meditation but please just stop Any Forums & drugs
you can be happy but quit self-sabotage
i know it is easy on paper, but later it will be easier to get well, trust me user
Brody Jackson
>try walking outside or meditation
I do meditate, but not regularly. Feels like a bit of a chore.
Any tips to make it more pleasant?
Christian Rodriguez
CBD will help you out. Give it a try.
Adrian Gonzalez
I do this too OP. Sometimes I wonder if I'm projecting my antisocial tendencies onto them as a way of justifying how irregularly I hang out with my friends.
Anyway, drugs will make you more paranoid in the long run. I found rotating through multiple groups of friends made me feel less like I was being needy or an annoyance.
James Green
>CBD will help you out.
It does. That's the point here I use marijuana regularly, and have tried every kind of CBD, CBN, THC, you name it. They all work. I'm looking for something I can do to solve this problem, not something I can take.
Ethan Ramirez
meditation is not easy or pleasent if you bore so easy, focuss and MAKE it pleasent for you, it's just for you and no one else, in a world were everyone inside their homes is crazy you need to go outside or meditate to focus
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Julian Edwards
Maybe you need some therapy. Try to think more of yourself. You should think of yourself as an equal to your friends. They have plenty of flaws and insecurities too.
Dominic Morales
hes talking about his friends, chill the fuck out with your degeneracy
Dominic Gray
ftf, nice quads.
I do need therapy, and will be seeking help as soon as I am financially able. (usa! usa!)
>You should think of yourself as an equal to your friends.
I try. Never works. I'm always above them in the ways that I choose to focus on. That's where the NPD comes in.
Ian Carter
I feel for you. I have done similar my entire life. You probably over-analyze yourself.
My mind approaches relationships almost like a strategic game.
I try to figure out the "why", and if I dont understand why its extremely frustrating.
Sometimes I may just ask, but I found out most do things without thinking of a reason to do it. They just do what they "feel" like doing.
It's a concept I still have difficulty understanding.
Prepare to be hurt, disappointed, and confused. Unless, you stay aware of how you're over-analyzing, and stop doing it.
Drinking alcohol seems to be the only way for it to go away completely.
Isaiah Reyes
I stay aware, but the behavior continues. It's a cycle of self-awareness and unwillingness to change.
Parker Garcia
I could be wrong, but over-anaylzing stems from you wanting to control. Not necessarily control other people, but yourself. You want to always try to do the "right" thing and the best way to do that is to imagine others motives and predict their actions to better suite the outcome you desire.
You just need something to motivate you to change. For me it was extreme disappointment.
Lincoln Powell
you need jesus, not drugs
Andrew Diaz
I do the same, thought I was just depressed for ages, found out the other day from a psychiatrist that I am depressed because I’m really socially anxious. I have lots of friends and a girlfriend so I didn’t think that I was, but I’m constantly battling negative thoughts about what they think of me and it’s exhausting, i can’t live in the moment I’m just in my head. I always thought anxiety was feeling nervous and skittish but turns out a component of it is projecting negative thoughts onto your whole environment. Waiting to start therapy to hopefully help the situation cause I just can’t enjoy being around people any more which is sad cause it’s one of the things that makes life nice
Jaxson Kelly
>Why must I over-analyze every relationship in my life?
Because you have past trauma that you are not dealing with. You are looking for things that are wrong because you subconciously believe that you dont deserve to be happy.
Jordan Ward
But have your thoughts ever been right?
That's what's the hardest for me. When the negativity is right.