>Roses are red
>Violets are blue
>Will you be my player 2?
So how are you virgin faggot spic-nigs spending valentines day?
>Roses are red
>Violets are blue
>Will you be my player 2?
So how are you virgin faggot spic-nigs spending valentines day?
why do women constantly want to be pampered, coddled, and cared for but will always REFUSE to show ANY affection towards her spouse, or even anybody that isnt her child?
This is why
I'm not even sure when Valentine's Day is.
I'm not a spic-nig I just hang out on a board full of underage spic-nigs which is even worse
Doing nothing. There's not even any games I really want to play right now, either. I don't know, I might splurge and get some McDonalds or Burger King for the occasion. Might as well.
you little fat-ass
dobson?
I don't know. Maybe I'll check out the steam backlog.
I want to have sex. SEX.
The more you pamper, coddle, and care for them, the less affection they will give you.
fuck you im not a spic-nig
I'm spending it in criminal law class, then jerking off to cunny and playing 3S and Strive with friends. I should consider suicide, I'm nearly 30 at this point.
Jury doody
It's McDonalds Night, user.
Rejoice.
Why can't I human interaction?
Like every other day.
because you're a little gay ass :)
So when did you realize you are going to die alone user?
i'll have a 2b, large with no pickles, and a diet coke.
in my dads ballsack
>Have you ever held hands with someone you loved? Interlinked.
Well, I just woke up from a heavy drinking bender at 12:30 after passing out, I think I drunk drove around with a gun and started shooting random shit innawoods after posting a wall of text to my cousin which I don't remember making and deleted it.
Probably about to off myself or check myself into a psych ward if those are even still a thing. Not sure what to do my mental health hasn't been this bad since I was in HS. Probably will not survive the year
Alone.
I'm still not sure if Joi truly loved him or it was just damn good programming
When I dropped out of college.
There was this girl I was talking to, a bit tall and really shy because of it. She said we should meet up and watch anime together or something, and I was all for it. I get her number, we text back and forth a bit, the semester ends, and I never go back to college after leaving the campus, ghosting her in the process. I've nobody to blame but myself, and I'll die with that knowledge.
its valentines day?
At work. Happy Singles Awareness Day.
Damn good programming but that's not any better than real love
had a laugh at the image.
>jerking off to cunny
basado
Pretty much yesterday, people keep telling me I will find someone that I'm attractive etc but im an insane person with no social skills. Being a mentally ill man in this society is basically just being the scum of the earth to most people.
No one has sympathy, people expect me to fix things on my own even when therapists do nothing. It's a major factor that leads to homelessness here, the homeless being spit on by anyone above middle class. I hate this country, I hate the people in it, and I hate the fact I have no other choice but to deal with it. Everyone is so selfish, especially our elders.
I haven't sex since December 2019
>2 prior partners before settling for the 3rd
yikes that's already only a 40% chance of a stable marriage
That's a funny way of describing Africa.
If i can't tell the difference it doesn't matter to me. Even if it's 80% as good as the real thing.
After I got rejected by the 5th woman I tried dating. That particular time really stood out to me because we went on a few dates and it actually felt like I was pretty close to getting somewhere. But turns out she was just playing along until I was done with a thing she needed my help with.
It's just so fucking demeaning to date as a man. You have to waste piles of cash and play the funny jester, constantly entertain her and look tough and shit. It's just so humiliating and I hate it. The sex isn't worth it.
i played taiko and took a nap
Same I do everyday.
Probably just masturbating and gaming with my bros while masturbating
I haven't sex
What I don't understand is that the majority of people on Any Forums and subsequently Any Forums generally look average at worst. Unless you have extreme social anxiety, you could conceivably find someone if you work out, get even an average job, and take more than a few minutes a day on your appearance. More likely than not, most people here do that anyways. The stereotype of the neckbeard that lives in his mother's basement at the age of nearly 40 hasn't persisted past the early 2010s with video games and anime becoming mainstream. We have an abundance of these threads and the Gosling pictures posted but it seems unbelievable that people here are genuinely in as dire straits as they claim, where they'll never meet anyone in their entire lifetime. I'm not saying to "just b urself" but you have a long life ahead of you. You can find someone if you make an effort. You just have to be willing to make compromises as well.
thats rough
tsim
Currently at work, but will finish early today. Gonna play some chill vidya half the day. Females are cancer.
but you die if you lose your last one
In school. Maybe 5th year. I didn't interact with anyone from my school in my free time so it was obvious for me
I'm always fascinated by this. Why do Americans hate it so much? It sounds like fun. Well guess it depends on the case, if it's some boring stuff, which 99% of cases are I guess, then yeah.
Human interaction is like a muscle. You have to train it to see results. I believe in you.
Just chilling out by myself at home.
It's been about 6 month since I broke up with my bf, I'm not ready for another relationship yet.
>Don't mind me, just pirating this heart
I haven't ever sex. Oddly enough though December 2019 was the closest I have ever been to it
I fucked six women before discovering that through some bike cuck math, the enjoyment I get from shoving my dick in someone doesn't outweigh the annoyance I get from having to deal with someone's shit
It probably was worth learning firsthand, the grapes really are that sour. I respected women and thought more highly of them when I was a virgin, I wonder where the fuck the "misogynistic incel" stereotype came from lmao
I honestly envy you fags. Not having to deal with females sounds like heaven.
It's unanimous and you gotta agree with the other npcs. Also pay is shit
Same. Just working.
Because I already spent "valentine's day" one day early, playing that It Takes Two game along with Castelvania SOTN
When I turned 30. By this point, I realized I was simply to shy and ugly to make it.
They're two robots, it was always programming
>you could conceivably find someone if you work out, get even an average job, and take more than a few minutes a day on your appearance.
I've been employed since I was 15, am Any Forums and make a reasonable amount of money. Women give me a lot of attention but it fixes nothing user. Most women around my age are just hilariously selfish to degrees that blow my mind. The men aren't much better either. I've never had a genuine friend , my family is awful and frankly my opinion on the average person is absolutely negative. I've seen the absolute worst from people since a young age and while looking better and being "successful" gets you more attention it doesn't actually change the quality of the people you get attention from.
I don't believe in good people anymore, I think its a lie people tell themselves to cope. I don't want a gf anymore , I just want to be left alone and to die in peace
its horrible
you have to wait, sometimes underground, for ages with a person feom every walk of life all waiting to be called in then selected while either lawyer can force you out, then you get sent back, trials can take weeks or months and you get no income aside from the government gibs or if you're lucky, your employer while they pay you less
its shit
In some ways, I resent being unable to handle dealing with women long enough to find a significant other and marry them. But ultimately I think I'm thankful for being truly content single. I still remember the feeling of relief when I broke up with my last girlfriend, and while it's not as strong now, sometimes I'll be going to get a breakfast burrito and it'll hit me. "I don't have to deal with anyone else today if I don't want to. I don't have to force myself to spend time with someone just to maintain a relationship. I can do exactly what I want at any time without consulting anyone else. I am free."
It's an amazing feeling.
>sounds like an incel
>acts like an incel
whatever you say incel.
>this thread
Once you get pussy you'll realize how overrated pussy is, faggot
You have to practice. Anyone who doesn't interact often or much will struggle as their social skills atrophy.
Start by talking to family if you can, get used to having casual conversations with a family member.
Practice talking to cashiers and other people in retail for getting a better hang on interacting with strangers, it's not the same as talking to someone properly but it can help you smooth out awkwardness a bit if you learn to have a brief conversation with the cachier whenever you're buying groceries.
Oh and if you can, join a sports team made up of people around your age. All ages/adult team sports leagues are usually pretty casual and it also has the bonus of helping you get fit, you MIGHT even make friends, just make sure to stay after games/practice and actually talk to your team-mates, don't be that loser who shows up for the game then goes straight home after instead of hanging out, chatting or going for drinks.
Beyond that and when it comes to more intimate relationship stuff, practice when you have the opportunity but building a good base and making some friends will help you meet girls more reliably and make them more likely to be receptive to you.
And I'm sure you yourself are a good person?
I'm gay
>I respected women and thought more highly of them when I was a virgin, I wonder where the fuck the "misogynistic incel" stereotype came from lmao
Same user. I became a misogynist only after having a few relationships. Once you learn what women really are it’s difficult not to see them as subhuman.
You are right that it's overblown to a certain degree, but I think it's wrong to discount most of it. The dating scene is pretty grim for 5-6/10s these days unless you're willing to make some drastic compromises. And imageboards like this are like flypaper to autists. Why do you think probably 40-50% of posters only use this site? Anonymity is protection from consequence, and consequence is fucking frightening, therefore human interaction in general is terrifying. Add on top of that the exaggerated "Oh, I spoke to a girl and got locked up." stories that make the rounds only exacerbating it. Plus the people like who have simply seen 'through the veil' and have lost all good will to humanity.
This site takes all who come to it for better or worse, and it's quite believable that so many of us had to have failed at least a few times to end up with our outlooks the way they are.
Human interaction isn't worth it most of the time as far as I know.
Unironically good for you, user. Count your blessings, you got spared the femoid bullshit.
It's almost always inconvenient. From personal experience and talking to others I've never heard someone say
>Yay, jury duty! I had no other plans or obligations, so thank god I'll be able to spend up to nine hours in a drab room being asked random questions by lawyers for the possibility of actually participating in a court case that will suck up another chunk of my time!
I agree that it might be interesting to sit in on some wacky criminal case, but there's a 90% chance it'll just be some boring civil case about a guy who doesn't want to pay his landlord rent or something.
>fucked 10,000 women
>hates women more than anyone on earth
OMG SANS?!?!?
>Incels on this thread that think it's all about sticking a dick in a pussy and not having a lifelong partner
You guys are still on like, step 1. The thing you do when you are 16 at a party once for fun and move on from that relationship forever. If you just want to stimulate your dick there are so many better ways to do it without dealing with a woman. Go pay a prostitute and you are done if you want a "real woman".
Unless you're 30, bald, a manlet, have severe physical deformities, exceptionally bad teeth, little to no income, disabilities, etc., you can find someone. You aren't going to find the 10/10 you retards are all clamoring for but you can find someone that is willing to tolerate your autistic shit.
It's not.
I don't really know what women are like, but I can tell you that guys (gay/bi guys at least) aren't much fucking better, though for different reasons (namely, gay/bi guys are a bunch of fucking gross, kinky sluts who can't monogamy for shit).
Sometimes I wonder if I'm literally the only gay guy in the fucking world who just wants a normal, monogamous relationship.
>a lifelong partner
>a female
Pick one and only one.
And why the fuck would I want that?
I never said a female. Good luck to all of you straight anons.
You don't, obviously. But the alternative is to stop coping.
Do you have a different dictionary than everyone else, why the fuck are you using "incel" to describe people who have casual hookups
Wasn't talking about that user, was talking about incels like you.
Nope, I include myself. Trying to be good =/= being good. I've done my fair share of horrible things and I'm getting what is coming to me. Whatever loneliness I feel I have it coming tenfold. I deserve nothing and I will get nothing. I'm a few seconds away from just shooting myself. Doubt anyone would care, I've confessed to a few people now I thought were friends and no one has cared.
Why would they? They wouldn't be missing much. In the end were all reap what we sow
>my boyfriend says he won’t celebrate valentine’s with me because it is a “jewish conspiracy” so I have to find someone on tinder again
He's thread sliding, ignore him
Same, I had really lofty views on women relationship, and romance, the one, on how if you compromised to be together for each other through thick and thin and after I had some relationships, they all fell apart upon realization it's no magical fantasy. It's funny how these that had a taste on how vile females can be gets labeled as incels unfairly when it doesn't take much to know.
There's no such thing as Karma like that. I can point out to so many situations where I was a selfish asshole and things worked out in my favors and others where I was genuinely helpful and it blew up in my face. You don't "deserve" anything that you will "sow". You decide how your life goes, user.
You can just get in a car and drive somewhere else really far tomorrow, move to another state that nobody has ever heard of you in and start a new life from scratch.
>Openly hates feminism
>Women accuse him of rape
>Women are still overwhelmingly attracted to him
Sounds like a babysitter instead of anything else. I could just hire a escort.
>how if you compromised to be together for each other through thick and thin and after I had some relationships, they all fell apart upon realization it's no magical fantasy
This is exactly how my relationship works though. I don't know if it's a woman thing but since the advice for being that way came from straight relationships in the first place, I assume it's the same? That's the whole point of a relationship, I'd say it's like a reliable co-op partner. If one person is having trouble, the other one helps. You keep this up and things work out and you grow to appreciate each other.
Except if you are over 20 then you are pretty much fucked
user, everyone is miserable these days. Women included though they cope by becoming bitter, selfish cunts.
I am gonna train like i usually do like every other big day.
Not how it always works.
At least women can get all the attention they want whenever they want.
Hahahahahahaha, yeah. No.
>, you could conceivably find someone if you work out, get even an average job, and take more than a few minutes a day on your appearance
Already do all that. Still nothing.
>had 3 different partners over the years
>all 3 cheated on me
>friends and family implied that it was my fault for "not being a good enough partner"
Needless to say I'm not happy with the idea of spending the rest of my life as a pandering buttmonkey catering to a woman's every unspoken desire and getting cucked when I don't.
I simply realized that there's 0 chance of someone as average as me to get any kind of loyalty from anyone that isn't both ugly, obese and poor when they get free pickings from dozens of affection starved males freely available in literally every social circle.
That has nothing to do with what I said.
Working from home, as always; girlfriend does as well. However I did take her out for Japanese food yesterday as an early Valentine's Day dinner. It was Super Bowl Sunday, so there was fucking no one at the Japanese place. I should have gotten a steak but tried this fried rice dish instead, it was good but not as filling as I would have liked. Had a good sushi roll though, it had banana tempura and shrimp tempura in it, eel sauce on top along with some other sauce that was really tasty.
She had pork katsudon.
Sure, but then again it wasn't a very reliable co-op partner right? I've had a few relationships, the ones that failed were clearly because one or both people weren't interested in playing the game co-op. The current one is working out because I know if tomorrow something terrible happens to me, they will cover the shit I need to do and I'd do the same.
It's Monday, I'm at work, kid
Sex is overrated. Sex with someone you love and loves you back is the GOAT.
I've been with a few women since I broke up with me ex, but it's basically just masturbation with a few extra steps if you do it with some random slag.
>Karma doesn't exist like that
There is, if you invite evil into your life it tends to stick around. Moving to a new place doesn't somehow change the fact that the people around you are human. Humanity is the issue, there is no place I can move where people aren't selfish, aren't evil, and won't be cruel. It's simply just human nature. I try to be honest and kind , and frankly it just sets you up to be in constant pain from people who would abuse it.
Especially as a man, you cannot be yourself or be honest with anyone or else it's seen as weak. People will absolutely spurn you or mock you. It's an endless cycle and people will never learn their lesson.
>dozens of affection starved men
This is it. Tinder is 3/4 men. You compete with 2 other guys for one girl. Man they need to invent joi irl already i want out. Japs already date holograms where's mine ?
No. You're just not trying.
You know how before the internet, if you were really good at an Arcade game, you were basically the best in the world, your world? You were competing with your like 2 friends and some 3 strangers and you had to do better than them. Now you hop on Twitch and you'll see people a million times better than you can ever be that don't even get any attention because they just aren't one of the top performers.
I think the same goes for relationships, when your competition are some people in your high school you have a decent shot, good luck when they have a phone and can readily hook up with anyone in the entire state with ease.
>they said heavy rocks makes sad voices go away
>they lied
You could try living with your own kind that works a lot better than diverse cities
user it's not about finding someone to stick around it's about finding someone who makes you happy. Even 10/10's are miserable most of the time. If you don't get that then I don't know what to tell you.
I see what you mean user, but it's also partially about surrounding yourself with like-minded people. If you have a genuine friend who you wish well and do good for and they do the same for you, none of this will happen. There is no betrayal, there is no evil because they have no reason to.
But those people are more rare to find, if you just show overwhelming kindness to everyone you meet and go out of your way to help them, you bet your ass a lot of them will just take advantage of your niceness.
I had to wait 27 years to spend valentine's with anyone and it was worth it. Realize your own worth as a person user, grow, enjoy being yourself and if you don't like yourself do something to change that. The time will come where you don't have to jerk to cunny anymore, but be ready for it.
I thought about going to the pub to try to meet someone, but remembered there's no point.
And how the fuck are we suppose to find anyone? Pray tell us user.
>The time will come where you don't have to jerk to cunny anymore, but be ready for it.
Who says you can't have a relationship AND still do that?
Ok, what kind of places can a 30 year old meet friends? Every place people say you should try like board game clubs were filled with literally mentally ill men. And you can’t just walk up to some football club eith ten guys who have been friends since lementary school. After college you only lose friends over time, especially if you are a social retard. They will just see “oh that’s a huge nerd, I don’t need another tard to wrangle, my life is streasful as is. I want a cool friend who says funny stories and help me get laid and good jobs”
>Especially as a man, you cannot be yourself or be honest with anyone or else it's seen as weak. People will absolutely spurn you or mock you.
I had a weird experience that cemented this for me. My roommate, who I am rather candid with in regards to how I live my life, told me in a drunken bender how he sees me as weak and "holds himself back" from bullying me or something. Then he proceeded to throw a temper tantrum because he was under house arrest and couldn't go outside, with zero self awareness. It was one hell of a sobering experience.
Resisting the urge to go get a bunch of cheap leftover valentine's day chocolate.
I want to put my face into some big ol titties.
The second girl probably broke up with him after that
That's great advice user but I'm older than you, nearly 30, and despite working on myself, it matters little. I just want to jack off and play video games with my bros at this point.
That doesn't happen.
You sound like you're autistic or something. I'm sorry you feel that way, but even if you might not be like everyone else it's not worth killing yourself over it either. You're just giving into them
Lifting gave my life structure, it gave me ambition. I used to be content with vidya but now i actually want to live life. But it still doesn't make the loneliness go away, the desires for physical affection is still there.
Try reconnecting with old friends. I did, it was great.
Recently got a boyfriend and I will be spending it with him, it's my first time having someone for Valentines in over 15 years so not sure what to do, we'll probably play vidya or watch a movie
With an ear infection and an exam the day after.
>you can find someone
>except if you fall into one of many categories, one of which you are guaranteed to fall into eventually
what the fuck did user mean by that
hope you have two x chromosomes
My girlfriend and I both have exams at university. I got one tomorrow and she's got one in two days (and is subsequently also having a mental breakdown from it) so we've decided to skip over valentine's day
>give them what they want
>expect them to work for it
Why do you think women tend to turn into monsters after marriage, relationships are a business for them, if they don't need to pay for something (metaphorically) they won't.
I don’t think that happens...
Metric - lost kitten
quintessential feels song
Sorry to disappoint
I don't want to discourage you but there's some hard truths here, Anons. Life tends to get more complicated and more bogged down. If you are reading this and you are in your early 20s, in university and with plenty of opportunities to socialize, please take em. I'm reaching my 30s and I already don't have the time to deal with most people because there's just more important things going on my life. I just can't afford to sit around and talk about Crusader Kings 3 for 2 hours straight anymore.
Your friends will marry, have kids, have families and get tied up into all sorts of things as well. That friend counter is not something that tends to go up and very few stick around, especially if you are a very problematic person who has nothing at all to add to their lives.
This guy has a great point though. Some of those friends who you already have established relationships with aren't lost to time because you haven't spoken to in a while. Catch up.
Who said "one of the categories"? It's more that the more boxes you check off, the more fucked you are. If you check them all off, it's game over.
I got some pity choco at work. Gaijins aren't seen as relationship material, but club life is pretty successful since you're basically an oddity.
Nah they don’t want to talk to meet
Met up a few times and it was very awkward and hd to be forced. I can get them to meet up but they are all nerds like me
>Still the same job? Yup
>Did you do anything? Nope
>Did you watch anything or play any games? Nobody wants to reveal powerlevel
Sometimes I can get the only chad in the friend group to show up and he just brags about how much money he makes and how much pussy he slays, and all the cool Without him there isn’t even any conversation
See?
That defeatist attitude is just an excuse for you to not even try.
Who says you can't join a football club and meet guys your own age who you can become friends with? Who says they'll all be old friends from way back (frankly, there's a much better chance that they won't be at most maybe 2 or 3 will be old friends playing together the rest will be like you, people who decided to play a sport because they wanted to stay active and make friends).
You're deciding that it's already over before you even fucking try. Stop making excuses to be a self-pitying sad sack of shit, if there's one fucking thing no one wants to hang out with it's a pity-party throwing sad fucker like that.
I go to work, come home and sit around playing games all day and repeat the cycle. On my days off I play video games all day. I don't go out unless I dodge my friend group's invites too many times. I will live like this forever as no matter how many times I read it, no matter how many times I remind myself I can be the only change in my life, I still sit inside playing games. I'm terribly afraid of meeting new people, I lack the skill of producing good conversation, and overall I just look and feel like shit. And with the way normies around me talk about how trifling women are in current age, I don't know if I want to really attempt going out when I look like easy bait.
Kosmos - J Lloyd
It's a comfy 'lean back and listen' album.
Take it
I live in a 90% white town of about 100k and am white. It's not an issue of homogeneity, and frankly race matters but not to the degree where somehow one race is incapable of being absolutely horrid to themselves and others. All I want in life is to find peace and help others do the same, but I can't do it alone. Thus far I've met no one who shares these goals, and I also fall short.
All that Valentine's day does is remind me of how painful life is for people and I want to do something about it. I see women out there alone and it hurts, but then I'm reminded that we always hurt for a reason.
it absolutely does
>28y
>kissless virgin
>cant force myself even to hooker
why i hate myself so much?
Hope you have a good one, user. I enjoyed my time with my mine very much. I don't know anything about them but it's probably literally as easy as just have some fun hanging out together.
>unless I dodge my friend group's invites too many times
So why not just go hang out with them? Now that I'm getting older, my friend group has dissipated because people either feel like they no longer identify with the group (a lot of people browsed Any Forums to give you an idea), they become busy with their careers or girlfriends/wives, etc. Even if you don't have someone to spend Valentine's with, the least you can do is make sure you have people to spend the rest of the year with.
You sound just as selfish man. Feeling entitled to people coddling and dealing with your bullshit just cause you're "mentally ill" (hey welcome to the club, over whelming majority of adults in the US are in some shape or form mentally ill). People got enough bullshit going on to deal with and take care of
I'm in my early 20s and already working, so I am busy most days and when I get off work I hang out with a friend or two before going home, I didn't go to uni and I'm a manlet (1.77cm, 5'8 for you fatsos)
what's the prognosis, give it to me straight
Okay and how the fuck do I do that? Google “football group my area”? I can’t even play football, I tried plying sports when I was young and fit and they told me I should leave because I fucking suck and I am just embarrassing myself. The same thing will happen here to, I don’t need even more negative life experiences
It's genuinely not worth it.
t. lost everything to an escort
I genuinely wish I could sit inside and play video games forever. I'm so tired of people giving me shit about how that's supposedly not normal and treating me like shit for it. I wish I didn't have to spend so much time on work and could do more gaming instead.
>there's no such thing as karma
You're right, humans are just a bunch of monkeys in suits that just do whatever personally makes them happy. That's why society in general is a sham and there's really no point in trying.
>3/6
Yep.
somewhere around 19. im 32 now.
dated a jewish bpd stripper for a few months in my late 20s but thats the only experience ivce had with girls
So I'm not the only one who gets an ear infection every fucking year around the first two weeks of feburary, huh? What's up with that?
I am 28 and i have never kissed or hugged anyone. Or held hands.
I dunno what to tell you, I am a literal autist and general weirdo, but at 35 I decided to reconnect with an old friend. My girlfriend and I would start hanging out with her and her family. Just saw some of my cousins recently, one wants to start playing vidya with me, seems to be into a lot of the same shit as I am these days. Beyond that, I have two friends from high school that I've been close to, and people at work like me.
I think you need to maybe check into therapy, it sounds like you have some self-esteem issues.
Dumped my girlfriend earlier this year because she kept lying to me. Picked up drawing and have never had more motivation in life. Bitches really weren't shit after all.
>fwb
>she asks if she can pet my head
>I'm confused, surprised, intrigued, anxious
>say yes
>she proceeds to lay my head on her lap and stroke my hair/play with it
>Begin weeping like my dad did when he burried our dog
Don't forget those same people who give you shit for sitting inside and "Just playing games" often just go to work, socialize some and then get high while watching sports and Netflix. I guess that's slightly better off because you can talk to others about whatever you watched so you aren't a complete loser, right?
Screw what other people think, user. Live your life and do what makes you happy. They don't need to know or care about your private life, just make some bullshit up.
>valentines day
Fuck that guy and his day. I'm playing vidya and reading.
>wanting to get involved with someone else's bullshit when I can't even handle my own
I learned that lesson in high school.
22, when I realized I'll never be comfortable enough with myself to open up to another person or feel completely at ease around them. Pushing 30, and my shit is, indeed, still fucked.
Therapist says the same exact platitudes as you do.
“It’s all in your head! You are not ugly and people don’t hate you! You just need self confidence! 30 is still young! Just connect with your inner child and help him recover from bad experiences and tell him there is nothing wrong with him! Just reconnect with old friends, go to clubs to make friends!”
Yeah clubs, let me hop down to the ymca and listen to some Guns and Roses and drink sodie pops you fucking old faggot
Maybe you should be a therapist you could make a bank
God I fucking hate women. I almost wish I was a fag.
>if you just show overwhelming kindness to everyone you meet and go out of your way to help them
Kindness isn't always about being weak, sometimes you need to put someone on their ass to teach them a lesson. There is a difference, and it doesn't matter how loyal a person has been or who they're supposed to be people are always capable of evil and will commit it eventually.
I've had family, friends I knew since I was a little boy, teachers, priests, etc professionals all turn their back on me in a critical moment of my life only to find the kindness of strangers which somehow saved my life. Bandaged me up after some heavy bleeding, kept me away from police, told me I would be okay and went out of their way to check up on me. I've never had that kind of kindness ever since. Not from anybody. It was the most powerful moment of my entire life and I feel obligated to do the same , even if it hurts. But goddamnit I can only take so much.
>excuses, excuses, excuses
Yes, you do just google "Adult sports/football/basketball leagues near me". It doesn't have to be football either and most adult leagues are what are generally referred to as "Social leagues" which means people aren't taking the game or winning that seriously and are GUESS WHAT? THERE TO SOCIALIZE AND MAKE FRIENDS!
You're just piling on all of these excuses about what MIGHT happen because you don't want to put in the effort.
You don't have friends because you never try to have friends. Friendship requires that you actually put in effort, you have to contribute something. Your friends are not just there to make you feel better and give, give, give to you socially and emotionally while you give fucking nothing back.
just give up on women and get a non-obviously gay guy
all the worst aspects of gay dudes can be avoided if you avoid someone you can tell at a glance is gay, those are the cheaters/STD havers
Hello Any Forumstards
Jannies are fags.
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ewwww
oh we've been deported. how bout them video games
Yes I fucking do because I don’t want to humiliate myself even more! I did it multiple times, it was alwas humiliating and nothing changed since then!
What guarantee is there that it will work this time? That I even have a 1% chance of not fucking everything up? I don’t know how to socialize and just trying and getting literally pointed at and getting laughed at didn’t help me get better at it but I should just do it ten more times maybe it will work!
I tend to dodge just because I don't want to spend money, or often times it's just because I don't want to do the same song and dance of go out to eat or see a movie or browse things I don't exactly care about. My biggest issue is it drains me somehow. I feel like once I've gone out once that's all that I've got in me for about a month. It's definitely a fun time sometimes it's moments like those where I'm laughing and having a good time, but it also amounts to nothing much different from talking over discord, and that allows me to be a lot less self conscious about my appearance and what the people around me might think despite putting in my best effort. I wish however in the times that I did go out I could just happen upon a new friendship but life isn't that easy
it has been years since i checked the Any Forums catalogue and nothing has changed at all here, it's just porn.
>Expecting kindness from people is entitlement
This is *exactly* what I'm talking about. At what point in your life did you abandon even trying to be a good person? Because most of the US did generations ago. Yeah, I have stuck my neck out for people even if they sometimes didn't deserve it. Junkies, the homeless, the sad guy at the bar. Go fuck yourself with your "pull yourself up by you bootstraps" mentality. It helps no one and it's why we're all killing ourselves.
You guys talk about how much you hate women but as a man myself I personally can't stand to be around other men. They're just so passively dishonest and aggressive. So many of them play up the tough uncaring act, lie to keep it up, and treat you like the scum of the earth if you show even a bit of emotion or honesty. I have a number of female friends who I can pour my heart out to and they do the same to me. I don't try to fuck them so they probably think I'm gay or something but it doesn't matter to me, I honestly value their friendship.
>picrel
I like women but not these women
That's pretty nice. :)
All women are like that
>I personally can't stand to be around other men.
>Lists traits more commonly associated with women
But it must be nice to have people to pour your heart out too. I've met no such person ever, in fact I'm usually that guy.
>these women
you mean every woman in existence?
You are probably gay
I wish I had male friends like that, all my friends are fucking fags like you and you can’t even learn or feel comfortable being manly because they start kvetching and whining and crying
I really want someone I can take turns playing vidya with and sucking each other off
Instead of "helping others" through doing stuff for junkies and homeless how about you help others by not expecting them to put up with your bullshit? Oh is that form of kindess too inconvenient for you?
Any Forums needs to ban porn if it ever wants to go back somewhat to the ways it used to.
I've found that I can connect more with my emotions with women, but realistically I feel like it's just worthless. You're both "there" for each other to be used as a punching bag of sorts. Women have never really been my friend. I have to be there for them and I have to be doing something they want in order for them to give constant response. It's a shit thing honestly. I can appreciate being able to vent my emotions, but its ultimately meaningless within a year or two when they go full ghost. It's even worse when you accidentally catch feelings for one of them but you know they wouldn't feel the same way because they know too much about you at that point.
>They're just so passively dishonest and aggressive
I can tell you're a woman because only a female could be retarded enough to complain about people being too passive and too aggressive in the same sentence
>roses are red
>violets are blue
>we are over cause i don't love you
The last time I remember looking at Any Forums was the fluffy threads, if you remember those. What weird, depraved shit that was. Wonder whatever happened to all those pictures.
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