Sup faggots, I need some serious advice. Been in a relationship with a girl for 6 years. She’s been pressuring me into getting married already and I’ve consistently told her no but she keeps insisting.
I haven’t been with other girls (I’m 30) but her. And part of what keeps me from getting married is honestly all the girls I feel I’m missing out on. Plus, once you hit 30 it’s almost like you become instantly attractive to most girls.
So to any other married Any Forumsros, has it happened to you? How did you deal with it before getting married?
I don’t even mean like getting into several serious relationships, I just wanna fuck a bunch of girls before I get married or settle down.
Harsh way to word it, but essentially this. Marriage is about love and commitment to one person. When you want to be with that person and that person alone.
You don't have to be a dick about it, but let her go. You both deserve happiness, and this relationship isn't it.
Jayden Morgan
Is it really possible to hold a monogamous relationship? I really don’t understand how other Any Forumsros can do that, it blows my mind
I used to think I could, but it wasn’t till COVID hit that I really started to fantasize really hard about fucking other girls
6 years is almost triple the time you need after being with someone to get married. but then again it's current year and people stop being kids at 35 so what do I know? Regardless, on the one hand, marriage is of no real benefit to you nowadays and being "forced" into one is only going to make you resentful, especially when shit gets rocky, even if you think "eh, it's ok". On the other hand, seeing as you've only been with one girl, your game probably sucks and you might find fucking around to be hard work you'd rather not be doing. Or it might go well only for you to find out you're looking for what you already had.
Sounds like you should give the relationship a break to figure shit out. Although it's hard to predict how she'll react. Maybe she'll be fine considering you keep declining her and she still hangs around.
Jose Reyes
Yes. And it has many benefits to. Its something you will come to realize with a bit of maturity. Sex with a person you truly have a connection with will always be more fulfilling than random flings. Clearly the one you are with is not the one that will show you this, but when you meet the one you'll see I am not bullshitting you.
And one last piece of advice. When you do find the one, do your damndest not to fuck it up, because once it's gone no other will bring that feeling back.
Easton Morales
I really was not expecting such mature advice from Any Forums from all places but thank you. I guess I’m still very immature.
