>Be me, 19yo egirl
>Meet cute, long haired 19yo eboy with a sensitive side
>It’s love
>He’s a feminist
>Swooning
>Joking around with him, use the word retarded
>”You can’t say that word”
>He’s a little pc, no big deal
>Relationship going great
>”Hey user, do you think we could try you being a little more dominant for once?”
>This is new, could be fun
>Let him be submissive to me, kind of a turn on but I wouldn’t want it all the time
>He stops being dominant
>Always wants to be submissive when we have sex now, never anything else
>”Do you want to try pegging me?”
>No not really but we’ve been together so long now, trying new stuff is good for us
>He loves it, I feel less feminine as a result
>Lose myself in this relationship, trying to not be judgemental
>BF has a falling out with a friend over an argument about trans rights
>Loses his best friend because his best friend is a transphobe
>”I’m glad you’re so much more accepting user, ily”
>Together for 4 years now, a few rough patches but we’re working on it
>He starts consuming a lot of porn
>Sex life suffers more, I’m never physically satisfied but emotionally satisfied is close enough I guess
>Steals my underwear all the time, at least I know he’s still attracted to me
>Talking about marriage and starting a family
>See he’s put “they/them” pronouns in his Twitter bio
>Do you want to talk about this my loving future husband?
>”No user it’s not a big deal, I just don’t care what people call me”
>Press the issue, we get into an argument
>We don’t speak for a few days, I cry alone and wait for him to reach out
>He swaps nudes with a trans woman he met on Twitter
>Please just talk to me about what’s going on, I feel like I don’t know you anymore
>”user would you still love me if I identified as a woman? Promise me you will”
>Can’t promise him that, I want kids
>”We should break up”
Be me, 19yo egirl
How do I ever recover from this? I’m going to kms how could I be that retarded to miss so many blatant red flags for so long?
How about next time just go for the masculine alpha male
Don’t have to deal with whatever the fuck that was
give they/them to me
Pics of the faggot?
i will fight you for they/them
just start going to the gym and move on, he's a cucky faggot that has a thing for girls with dicks just start dating some normal dude and not some cuck nextime. trust you will forget about him in like a week or two
your "boyfriend" came to terms with the fact that he was built for BBC
4+ years ago I didn’t have a lot of knowledge about trans people, didn’t realize all the pretty feminine tall boys were at risk
You’d probably get along well
I still somehow don’t entirely hate him. Don’t want his life just ruined forever
I turned down plenty of men while I was with him, plenty that were a lot more successful and weren’t coomers. I experienced a brief bout of brain rot, I don’t know what happened
His dick is too big and he’s not white, he can’t be your snowbunny user I’m sorry
If he was the only guy you were with
You don’t know anything about duck size
You turned down better men?
To stick with a faggot?
You must be an idiot
Ladies don’t just stay in a relationship just because ok? Sometimes it’s just best to leave
He wasn’t the only guy I’ve been with, and I’m a woman user I’ve had more pictures of dicks sent to me than I was 13 years old than you could ever care to see.
His dick was above average size but it’s not like it mattered since like I said, he liked to be pegged
I really thought I’d marry him. We would always daydream together about our kids and our home together and our plans for the future. He still wanted all of that with me, just with him living as a woman maybe. I couldn’t deal with that
>Dates an eboy
Found the errour. /thead
Physically he looked like the kind of edgelord that would want to spit on me and choke me. I was misled but caught feelings before he owned up to wanting to sub for me and get pegged
I don't know... Seems to me that your problem is that you still haven't posted tits and a timestamp yet.
I just found out the man I’ve wasted 4 years on is a tranny cheating with trannies and stealing my panties for tranny purposes.
Cut me some slack tonight user. It’s 2 weeks until Valentine’s Day
Literally just a timestamp would do.
I'm sure there were signs of suppressed honosexuality hindsightedly
I feel for you but at the same time, why are you coming to Any Forums for therapy and getting pissed when people ask you to show your tits? It’s like walking into Gaza with a yarmulke and wondering why you’re getting rocks tossed at you.
If you want advice as a woman without getting sexualized, there are plenty of better options than Any Forums.
I mean he was never traditionally masculine other than wearing these big ass boots if that counts. But I didn’t correlate the lack of traditional masculinity with wanting to get dicked in a dress
I’m not mad. I expected that to be the first reply. The fact that anyone is willing to have a conversation at all was a nice surprise. I just responded to that user instead of ignoring him
>be me, 19yo
Jesus Christ, get over yourself. You had a shit relationship. Whatever. You’re literally a teenager with countless years of disappointment ahead of you. Take the L and learn from it. You know the red flags. Don’t forget them.
We were together for 4 years, almost 5. I turn 24 soon lol. I know I’m not ancient but you have to admit that’s a long ass time to spend with someone
You would have a point if user was 19 at the end, but that was at the beginning, now is 23 i guess.
>I’m a woman user
prove it. post tits and timestamp
By the way, how was the pegging?
yeah sucks, give them my kik: miscinslme, they can be my girl
Where in the Midwest are you from?
I got nothing from it, which I didn’t mind. But it was so much prep and he would usually end up getting cum in my hair and it was overall not enjoyable. Him being submissive for me wasn’t the absolute worst but I hated the pegging
You wouldn’t be able to afford all the toys and the lube. Also who uses kik still? Old man
West Coast
>The fact that anyone is willing to have a conversation at all was a nice surprise.
you already got something now post your tits and give something back
But I got what I wanted without having to do that, why would I now
You sweet Any Forumsros have gotten soft. I like it. Buncha kind cuties
That sucks bro. This only means that you tried your best to make the relationship work. Next time you'll know better what your boundaries and requirements are in a relationship, and know to head this off with better communication earlier. That said, even with better communication all you could really have hoped for is to have wasted less time towards the end, and ended things on better terms.
user. youre only 24 you have a lot of potential for relationships. break up with this retard, move on, and start dating other people. i can guarantee youll forget about him in a few weeks. life is worth more than a shitty experience, even if it took four years. learn what you can and live your life
sage, no wonder your bf developed the way he did