It took me all these years to realize how disgusting the dating scene is

It took me all these years to realize how disgusting the dating scene is.
A "relationship" in 2022 is just two people getting together for sex, nothing more.
It's normal for people to have sex after 5 dates. If they're each 1 hour, then you spend 5 hours barely knowing the other person then getting in bed with them.
I have been doing it wrong all these years, to get a girlfriend I don't try to form a relationship beforehand, I just be direct and apparently the bond forming comes after?
This shit is absolutely revolting to me.

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It's usually pretty clear to me if I may get along well-enough with someone that a relationship could be possible within the first five minutes of meeting someone.
Assuming the interest in pursuing a relationship is mutual, things can move as slowly or as quickly as you're both comfortable moving.
And there is no set order in which things have to progress.
You can fuck on the first date and then figure out if you're socially compatible over the next several dates.
You can get to know each other over several dates and then find out if you're sexually compatible.
Might be in both cases y'all find out you're incompatible, but in one y'all had some good sex a few times and in the other you became invested and then had disappointing sex.
Not terribly difficult to figure out why people err towards the first option.

Nowadays relationships are transactional. Money, looks, charisma, for pussy essentially.

What disgusts me most is people who "date" multiple people at a time, sex or not.

Nothing but pure hate because Im fiercely monogamistic. The thought of trying to invest in building a healthy relationship with a woman Im dating only to find out a month later shes been talking to 3 other men is murder fuel.

Pick one you fucking degenerate piece of shit. You cant focus on one fucking person for 2-8 weeks?

Modern people do not have that kind of patience or virtue

People are often not this intentional.
They may be "talking to" many people at once. Sometimes these conversations don't go anywhere and peter out. Sometimes they continue for months or years without being anything in particular.

One of these people asking you out (or you asking one of these people out) doesn't really have anything to do with anyone else you're talking to, since, recall, you're not talking to them with any particular intention.

Imagine putting your penis in someone that gives it up after 5 hours lmao. Imagine what else that woman has done. That is fucking gross, bro. Women are fucking gross.

Funny for you to say that.

All the so called "experts" always says that relationships used to be simpler, because its was more transactional, more about just picking someone for mutual support and that is it.

Then, the idea of romantic love came to be and now it was evolved in to an ever increasing amount of requirements. People aren't happy with just someone that can support them, support their kids and love them.

>it needs to be someone that is willingly to sign a contract of mutual support
>it needs to be someone loyal and trustful
>it needs to be someone with whom I can have some hollywood love story
>it needs to be someone without any disability and perfect physical and mental health, don't wanna carry any loser
>it needs to be someone of "my type" that always makes me horny
>it needs to be someone good at sex, just like in my porno videos
>it needs to be someone that I can take pride in showing off to my friends
>it needs to be someone that is engaged in social media
>it needs to be someone social enough to like my friends and go to these specific gatherings with me
>it needs to be someone that likes to do these very specific "exciting" things that I like, like traveling or playing vydia
>it needs to be someone that is x, y and z

Yeah. To you because you are an autist that lacks theory of mind no one will ever truly love you. Or you them for that matter

You know that if you put you penis in a girl after knowing her for five hours, YOU are someone who gives it up after five hours.
Maybe you could improve the reputations of such people by YOU not being a piece of shit about it.

A five hour woman is NOT gonna wait for you fool. She'll move on.

>more about just picking someone for mutual support and that is it
This is the purest form of a relationship. Anything else is shit tier.

What a little bitch you are.

Basically yeah. I cannot fucking wait for a meteor to destroy life on earth.

That's way better

even worse when some of those choices are their "exes". like, you broke up for a reason yet you keep them as potential partners again, wtf?

Yeah an ex still in her life is a disqualifier, same for the "friend" she drags around for a decade and is always hanging out with and hugging whether shes single or not.

"Hes just a friend", no he is not.

I fuck before the first date.

Imagine going on dates with women

>A five hour woman is NOT gonna wait for you fool. She'll move on.
So will you.
Most relationships you have will not endure.
You might get to know someone for years and they ghost you after the first time you fuck.
You might fuck on the first date and stay together for years.
Individual factors outweigh whatever statistical trends you may be using to guide your stereotypes.

>you broke up for a reason yet you keep them as potential partners again, wtf?
The reason may not be an immutable incompatibility or even have anything to do with their suitability as a partner.
I've broken up with a girl who was very close to perfect when we were together because she changed schools and LDR wasn't working out because we couldn't be together enough. If we got back in contact and that was no longer a factor, I'd be down to rearrange her insides and see if we still get along.

>"Hes just a friend"
OH BABY YOU
YOU GOT WHAT I NEE
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