I got my first gf at 24 and it's been two months. I hate it.
At what point do I get to stop pretending that I'm some sort of factory preset chad? If you get a partner through 'fake it till you make it' when is it alright to stop faking it? She has no personality, things she likes to do, and instagram is an extension of her brain. She appears to have no tolerance for people who are a little different from normies, I almost fucked up by letting her discover that my music library consists only of video game soundtracks. She did not like this one bit.
I'm 32 and still waiting for a gf. No one knows I exist anymore though.
Nolan Wood
>At what point do I get to stop pretending that I'm some sort of factory preset chad? You don't. Congrats, you realized that women are dull as shit and only worth fucking.
John Morgan
Are you fucking up by showing her you like video game music? I like furry porn and I have no shame. Is she really the one if she doesn't like you to begin with? And do you really want a gf?
Tyler Gonzalez
This is why you date fembots exclusively.
Jackson Hughes
yes the only way to get normalfag female attention without just being a generic disposable member of the herd requires you to be extremely high energy and eclectic "weirdo" is only a bad thing to women until you are weird with such gravity that it warps the social landscape and people begin to associate with and orbit you just for the experience but video game music isnt eclectic its just autistic
Connor Campbell
>is dating like this? For you? Yes. You were desperate enough for sex/affection you abandonned who you were and only found a normie stereotypical match. If it's neither larp nor bait, then you're pathetic. But hey at least you got to experience the seggs, right? Have a good life. And by all means, please, do not reclaim your dignity by breaking up with someone you don't even like, better yet, marry the bitch!
Gabriel Adams
>Is dating just years and years of this? Ideally? No. For a lot of people, anyway? Unfortunately.
Hunter Green
>"just bee yourself" >being myself means being alone haHAhAHHAhAhhAAAhAhAhhAHHaAH
>Be robot and spend so much time worrying about just getting a gf you forget to work out if the girl is actually compatible with you. Well done you've found out half the problem with society. People spend so much time and effort just getting a relationship to stay together not out of compatibility but because they want a relationship for the sake of it. Hence people get married and then get divorced.
Now what you should really do is use the time to gain skills to enable you to do better next time. But more likely you're end up in a passive aggressive relationship that you cling onto like a life raft.
Joshua Cooper
This is why you're supposed to bee yourself, kids.
Elijah Roberts
Yes. Humans are generally disappointing. Do the right thing and dump her. Otherwise, you're stuck in a losing situation: a futile attempt to change her or yourself. It will be catastrophic either way.
Samuel Watson
Just fuck the shit out of her and then move on when you can't keep up the charade.
Ian Hughes
>"weirdo" is only a bad thing to women until you are weird with such gravity that it warps the social landscape and people begin to associate with and orbit you just for the experience Yo this is fax fr fr, deadass well put no cap
Yes. Did you grow up with a dad? It's always about taking the short end of the stick like a man. There's a reason hornyness makes you stupid. Hope she's pretty enough to make it all tolerable.
that pic reminds me of when I was dating some bitch and when we went shopping, I always picked out better fits for her than she could for herself, which made her "feel weird" and dump me. women are a meme
James Torres
When you get tired of fucking her, break up with her with the line >We need to talk. I'm sorry but I don't think things are gonna work between us long term The actual way of dating is to be as upfront about your interests and your personality as possible. This means you'll attract less people overall, but you'll attract people who are genuinely interested into the real you and the experience will be less tiring. To increase your chances of attracting such people go to places you like spending time in and start talking to any cute girl who's a regular and in dating apps post pictures that show your interests/personality upfront. Posting 5 generic photos of you and your friends will only attract shallow, generic women. And shallow, generic women only like gigachads.
Noah Clark
All women are shallow generic whores, all of them.
Adrian Miller
>Is dating just years and years of this? No. You'll make this mistake a few more times. Eventually you understand that all those old people telling you "just be yourself" were speaking from hard-earned experience, then you kill the part of you that cringes and find someone you like, who likes you, and are too busy being happy together to care whether other people have an opinion on your relationship.
Jacob Hernandez
> I dont like this then start blasting your vidya music and let her leave, no one cares about you whining.
Not me, not her this thread is shit
Wyatt Perez
>She appears to have no tolerance for people who are a little different from normies >dating a normgroid I'm a 24yo turboKHHV and even I see that this is a mistake I'd rather remain single than date a normgroid
Alexander Brooks
Cope + Skill issue
Carson Baker
If something like this happens, you've gotta rub it in her face a little bit. She'll be mad, but she knows what mad feels like and will get over it.
Luis Murphy
>my music library consists only of video game soundtracks This could be recoverable if you author your own chiptune. Otherwise you're fundamentally still a consumer drone BuT sO qUiRkY aNd RaNdUmB .
Justin Turner
More like 30%, but yeah.
Brandon Ortiz
You're supposed to put up with this bullshit to have sex with her as much as possible so you don't waste money on escorts.