I couldn't get hard when a girl tried to suck my dick in my car

I couldn't get hard when a girl tried to suck my dick in my car...

A little bit more context. I'm 25 years old, never, ever been with another girl before that moment. Hell, I maybe spoke to like 5 women before that in my life (excluding my mother obviously). I've also been a regular browser of this board since 2015. I'm in my final year of university and doing an internship for a large organization in the Netherlands. Over the past couple of months, I've become close with that girl who already works there. She is everything I want my GF to be. She's white, blonde, good sense of humor, and very friendly. I also trust her.

My social skills with women, and just in general, are fucking terrible, but I managed to make this work, because I decided to stop being a pussy for once in my life and just fucking do it. I just approached her and said hi, asked her what she does, what her interests are and more. I don't give a shit anymore what happens at this age and after never having felt intimate love. I don't give a shit about any rejections if they happen, because I know that if I don't take the initiative, nothing will ever happen anyways.

Anyways, after we went to the movies for a date, I wanted drive her home, but she wanted to just drive around for a bit. So eventually we came to this secluded spot, we made out a bit, and then out of nowhere, she decided to unzip my jeans. I tried to stop her very lightly, but she just kept going. After my dick was out of my jeans, it was literally completely soft, I couldn't get hard at all. It was fucking embarrassing. She asked me if I didn't find her attractive, but I very much do. When I'm not around her, I get hard when looking at the pics she sends me. I also noticed recently that I cannot pee in public, when someone is next to me at a urinal, I literally cannot fucking pee. Do I need to get fucking viagra or something? What the fuck do you call this? Insecurity?

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Happens user. You are simply not used to the situation.

Keep trying and as you get comfortable you'll stay hard. Just tell her you are nervous and to ease into it.

you're a coomer, your dick only gets hard to porn and your hand. you fucked your brain

Thanks for the kind words, bro. I'm sure it'll all work out eventually. I've been on this board for so many years now, I think it has kind of affected my way of thinking. For so many years I've looked forward to moments like these, now that I'm actually in them, it's rather surreal.

I'm not going to lie, I was addicted to porn for many years, but the past couple of months since I've known her, my fap rate has significantly decreased. I now haven't fapped for at least a week, and there's several weeks between my faps, so I think it's a lot healthier now. I hope the damage wasn't permanent.

Happened to me too user, and happens to men in general. Dont feel discouraged. You arent "used" to the situation. Next time I reccomend you take it slow and focus on fondling, hugging, being comfortable first.

I haven't fucked in a gooood while so I'm certain id suffer the same if I didnt "temper" myself before. Grabbing ass is the best way immo.

I have the same issue with pissing actually, but only when others are present.
Don't ask me why, but usually it helps for me to take a second, close my eyes and envision myself pissing on the face of the person who is in the bathroom with me.
The dick thing is probably the same, try closing your eyes next time and envision yourself getting hard with this attractive girl. It will probably calm you down enough to achieve and erection and the rest will be history.

>Next time I reccomend you take it slow and focus on fondling, hugging, being comfortable first.
Thanks for the advice, man. I'll definitely do that next time.

>I have the same issue with pissing actually, but only when others are present.
I just read online that it has something to do with anxiety. I've had this for a long time, and I really need to solve this issue.

this user is right, it's simply a matter of it being a new situation and being nervous

You are broken.

I go soft sometimes when switching positions but it's because I'm not attracted to my gf at all. I usually have her suck it to get me hard at the start or when it deflates. It's the strongest solution so if sucks don't work for you I'd suggest working in more cardio, squats, and maybe taking tadalafil or l-carnitine. That or your trying to fuck a woman even homelier than mine and it's desperation making you think she's hot.