I no longer belong here, I'm 32 soon to be 33.
FUCK!
I have no friends, I'm employed reasonably good job, but yeah, I don't really know where to "socialize".
I just realized you're all kids
I hope I'm married by your age or I will kms desu haha
There's a 30+ thread that pops up every now and then no?
Same here user, just turned 34. This is all I got so I'm here.
Oh hey, ENTJ, I hassled you today kek. I was the guy following you thread after thread. btw How old are you?
I'm 27 and feel incredibly out of place, but I stay because I'm a loser with nowhere else to go. I have genuinely no idea why absolute normalfags with careers or even families and shit hang around here well into their thirties unless they're making fun of people. Truly baffling.
Go to a bar, have precisely 4 beers so you're tipsy but not going over the edge of anxiety inhibition, try to talk to some random guy there you've never seen before. Maybe they think you're a fucking freak, cool, stop talking to them, repeat this process until you have at least 1 friend. Godspeed anons who are further down the spectrum than me it took me 6 years of forced socialisation to figure out this one simple trick.
I'm sorry I didn't even notice been alittle busy today haha I'm 24 sir/madam whatever you is lol
Kek, was it worth it?
The vast majority of the normalfags here are closer to 18 than 30
Pros and cons to all things. I wasted a lot of time I could have used being productive in other areas, like work or study, just learning the basics of normie socialisation. But now I'm pretty confident in my ability to talk to strangers in any situation, despite it still making me extremely anxious.
We joke and all, but yeah, it's not a very fun experience, I have no such aspirations, for once I wouldn't endure the humiliation of it, nor would I endure the thing itself, I'm just too self conscious about all the bullshit involved in it, that is not to say that I don't feel loneliness or a yearning for connection, or that I am affected by the practical things of really being alone. It's ridiculous to say this, but it really comes really fucking fast, one day your fine and then you wake up you're 34.
ONLY FUCKS DO NOT LEAVE! I JUST TURNED 28. PLEASE STAY SO I DON'T FEEL OUT OF PLACE
But you will feel out of place, you probably do already, because you are, this was meant to be a past time for teens, we are grown ass man. It's sad but it's true. 2 more years and I will be leaning towards 40. KEEEK the complete fucking state...
What are we supposed to do? I don't have friends and I don't relate to anyone else
I'm 36 and I've been here since this board's inception. I'm not going anywhere.
Me too, I have zero friends, If I died they would find out after the corpse started to smell, and I don't care to make the dance to make friends (which at my age would be unlikely but still), nor will I do the peacock dance to get a wife or a gf. So, in my case I don't know, get a hobby maybe? Go back to watching movies and passing out on the couch? Idk, but is this much different?
Reminds me how wow is like fucking nursing home.
Also fuck you OP. Having a job n shit.
>I don't really know where to "socialize".
The internet splintered off into 1000 social media chunks. There's no more one-stop site for all your cynical nerd needs anymore. Everywhere you go there's sensitive and political people ready to pounce on you for no reason but to get riled up over nothing.
Gotta do your part in creating future incels so you're not alone in the loser club. You're a grown, mature man, you know how the world works, you know their weaknesses, you now what to say to keep them khhvs instead of putting them on the path to ascension. If you leave, you'll be the last of the incels.
Same, at 32 now and the last time I had a group of friend was at 20yo, I did find someone I'm happily married to last year, but still don't know how to socialize or enjoying socializing in general not have friends which I regret.
Oh but most will live, and they should, when you get older your priorities change, I will likely end myself by 55, if I get really "lucky" by 60. Kek, shit that you would never imagine will start to make sense, that is if you are very healthy, I have no fucking clue how people with serious health problems handle being forever alone.