>get married
>wife is a bit of a prude
>ok so she doesn't want to do certain things in bed, not the end of the world, right?
>talk to a mutual friend
>she accidentally reveals that your wife used to be a mega slut who's done all kinds of kinky shit in the past
>turns out she just doesn't want to do certain things in bed WITH YOU
Absolutely brutal. How does one recover from this?
Get married
>How does one recover from this?
Do those things by force.
>Absolutely brutal. How does one recover from this?
Suicide or never marrying without prenup
this is what awaits the betabuxxer
Threesomes are nasty and bdsm is just weird but if a woman doesn't do anal it means she doesn't love or even care about you. Huge red flag.
they have kids, they probably just settled for each other. that's why he doesn't want to leave her, he knows no one else would put up with him and it's too late to develop a new relationship it may be too late for her as well so she may concede
curious if the last generation of betabuxxers are going through this but are too ashamed of telling anyone. more humiliating than rape.
i don't want the poo poo on my ding dong
Most of them probably never had a "chatty best friend" moment.
My dad once told me not to go for girls if they blatantly want me because they're too easy. Fuck that, if a girl does that hard to get shit with me I already know that she easily spreads her legs for Chad.
It's one thing if she's just genuinely not interested in the act, but if this rule only applies to you and not to other men in her past, you got a massive problem.
Go back. All of you. Shoo.
Generally for the woman, the internal logic is that she did it with the ex because he demanded it and because to her that relationship was just about sex, but her current relationship with her husband is about more than sex; so she doesn't want to do "demeaning" things for fear of demeaning that relationship. It was okay with the other guy because she was always planning to dump him and let all her sins slip away with him. It's not okay with the new guy because this relationship was supposed to be a reprieve from that one.
Sadly they're never thinking of their future husbands. Sometimes they don't even see what the issue is. A man can only interpret her actions the way the guy in the OP did, that she liked the other guy more and therefore was willing to put out more for him. But to her, that may sound insane;
>No, that guy was just an animated dildo that did all the work, I like you more than him because I like you emotionally as a person.
That's how they process it. They don't get that for men, the proof of her approval is access to her body and submission to his desires. She can say whatever shit she wants about loving you, but if she bends over immediately and lets you do whatever, that's the proof. That's how it worked in puberty, that's how it works in adulthood. It's never just sex for men the way it can be for women.
Thankfully, my wife has no "past" to speak of. Anything we do is her first time with it, and I don't have to be insecure like the rest of you fags.
Why are you calling me insecure when you just expressed a sense of relief about your wife not riding the cock carousel? If you were so secure why would you even bother bringing it up?
hahahaha if a woman doesnt do anal it means she has an ounce of self respect. if a girl ever did anal with anyone she can get the fuck out of my life. disgusting attention whore behavior.
bruh i just dont want diarrhea on my weewee
>he wants to fuck his wife up the ass/do bdsm/ have a threesome
>he doesn't just want to make love
fucking weirdo
Wow, twenty years and two parasites and you can't move past some gimmicky sex? She probably had a negative experience the last time she did it and that's why it was the *last* time. You aren't entitled to anything, that'd be like her asking him "why didn't you keep your foreskin?" What a bunch of assholes, I hope the family drives off a cliff and only one of the kids survive as a quadriplegic. I'd sleep a little easier.
Its less about sex
Its more about him having the realization that she loves and respect random guys more than him
Oh also
>something something post breast of gtfo
This doesn't make sense but woman logic never does. I mean, if the past relationship was a walking dildo and disposable, why would she agree to stuff she doesn't enjoy? Say no and if he gets mad find another fucktoy.
Maybe she does enjoy being degraded but doesn't want to do it in marriage for fear of losing power in the household dynamic. Though if she has self esteem she should be able to do both.
The only thing that would make sense from the man's perspective is if she agreed to try it once, hated it and never did it again.
>agreed to try it once, hated it and never did it again
Though this is another reason couples should be sexually matched, to make that journey together. Robots are sort of right to want virgins.
>parasites
Shit bait. Commit suicide.
Ima copy and paste that
You wrote it down pretty well
its quite possible that she realized letting a guy do anal or bdsm on her doesnt have good consequences for the relationship. maybe the last guy started demanding anal all the time. maybe she realized she didnt like having her ass rammed very much.
thats really the thing - maybe she realized that if she says yes to anal with a guy *once*, hes going to keep wanting to do it. i mean, youd think people would be smart enough to know that already, but cest la vie.
its sad because the guys dont realize that its hard to go back to normal sex. even if you decide to, she'll wonder if deep down you really would rather be doing anal or chaining her up. you just cant really go back.
not her fault her husband is a weird little loser who needs to have the "sexiest possible sex" to assuage his self doubt and inadequacy.
Shouldn't have married a whore.
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