What does it take for a woman to love me?

what does it take for a woman to love me?
do i just have to be a nice person and show my love and affection to her without being too clingy? is that it?
>girl im friends with
>your usual internet-addicted tomboy
>very nice with me, likes to be around me
>she's very important to me
>but doesn't seem to be interesed in dating or just hanging out the 2 of us
>tell our 2 common friends about it, without her finding out
>they say i am not the type of man she's looking for and the odds are against my favor
what the FUCK do i do?

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hot and rich

well im not hot and im certainly not rich, but im sure no one in her friend group is either
are we meant to be incel and femcel friends untill we die?

>do i just have to be a nice person and show my love and affection to her without being too clingy?


No nigger. Thats the most boring crap ever. What it boils down to is how entertaining you are and how attractive you are...Thats it. If you have those two, you can be a massive asshole and they will still crave you.

>are we meant to be incel and femcel friends untill we die?
hahaha you fell for the meme

Well, I certainly make her laugh with my jokes. Attractive? I'd say i'd be attractive if I wasn't fucking obese (187 cm, 108 kg; 6'1, 238)

I really mean it. Not too sure about her but so far this is the first and only girl I actually fell in love with, rather than just wanting to fuck her
I care about her, I enjoy spending time with her and I worry about her

You're posting worst girl so I see you getting absolutely devastated emotionally in the near future by some dirty cunt.

I don't know who this anime grill is, I just thought her face was cute

Pretend this is OP image now

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Do you have serious doubts that le tomboy would want to date you? If your only evidence to believe this is just your friends + insecurity then I think asking her to consider dating you would be the best outcome. Even if she says no, you will have the closure that you know for certain what she doesn't want an intimate relationship with you. Go off user, I believe in you uwu.

That's a relief. Sweet qt3.14 gf coming your way.

well, i was also considering that maybe not asking her out yet and waiting for a better moment is a good idea. Maybe that'll improve my chances?

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How do your friends know what type of guys she's into and you don't if you're so close?

Well, what I do know is that she talks to online degenerate gymcels. We don't have a lot of these here in the third world
I also know that she doesn't find fat fucks very attractive.
I am 90% sure they're talking about finding me attractive, rather than actually love me which are two different things

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>The odds are against my favor

They meant this generally, not for this girl only
Once you get this on your head things will be easier

how weird, they specifically meant in this case
mostly because it was in the context on what response i'd get from her assuming i confess my feelings for her

Well, let me rephrase it

Take that advice generally, not just in this case

so... I just move on and never tell her anything?
Seems dissapointing

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Let her know, but make sure it goes off as casually as possible, that way is she likes u back you get a gf, and if she doesn't likes u back you didn't make a big deal of it so you won't have anything to be ashamed of

How can I hint her that I actually love her? I don't want her to see me as a simple manwhore

Love does not exist. It is a device used by women to rationalize and normalize their resource securing behavior in finding a tall rich chad.

Nothing about hints, let her know what do you like about her, but just let it slide

By this i mean saying something like "y'know, i love u, the way u are" or something else that you love about her

I know it's hard to gather confidence, but considering she's ur friend she doesn't want to get your feelings hurt, go ahead tiger

thanks a lot anons, if i get to see her tomorrow and she's in a good mood i'm confident enough to ask her out in person

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If you're a fat fuck with no money and no accolades, then you are setting yourself up for heartbreak. For one, stop having feelings for this bitch. If she's talking about you behind your back like that, what makes you think some dude isn't raw dogging her right now? She doesn't find you attractive, so whatever fantasy you built between you two is bullshit. She can't love you if she doesn't find you attractive.