How true is this, anons?

Your impatient. Make her need you then get blow job. Should take months

never been in a relationship so no it's not true for me

Yeah completly true 100%

I’m engaged to my hs seeetheart. Been lifting for years. My parents were ultra obese my whole life and I workout so my kids will know I care

this story took place over 5-6 weeks or so, I was content to just get some affection honestly but seriously not even a proper kiss after that long?
>Should take months
she wanted nothing long term

Ooh yeah, I have this.
>dumped her because I wanted to be a player
>10 years later she's married and has kids
>I have a dog and an instant pot
fuck

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Bruh. You were within one or two times chilling with her to get blow job. You can’t just power trip and demand sexual gratification in a certain moment. You should have asked if she wanted to be your official gf and waited up to 3 months for blowjob

>she wanted nothing longterm
That’s a lie, all women want longterm. She was just regurgitating some how logic she heard at uni.

If you were just chill and cool with her she would have developed a need for your approval. You don’t try to convince them for longterm until the dick down

there were other times we went out in that timespan, maybe 8 or so dates in that 5-6 week period homie, I just outlined the main ones. shit i wasn't even hoping to smash the night she invited me back, just something other a kiss on the cheek, if she wasn't willing to give me a proper kiss in that much time spent together i really dont think a bj was even on the table
maybe you're right, being held wondering in limbo in the meantime was hellish though, I despise playing guessing games

1. there's way too many zoomers on here for there to be a 15 years post-romance story
2. there's way too many incels for there to be fucking lots of women as part of said story
so no it's not true for every man on fit

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Take your Dog Bro for a walk. Set your instant pot for gainz after you and Dog Bro return to your place. Yours and Dog Bro. This is your castle. There are many like it, but this one is Yours. And Dog Bros.

I ran into this scenario, except she actually married one of my buddies. No harm, no foul we're all still cool.

Except he comes over to mine to bitch about the wife, and ask me to regale him with tales of my bachelorhood.

Go forth and conquer user. Bachelor life is a legitimate path. I'm 41, broke off an engagement at 35. No regrets.

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>be me
>awkward insecure fuck but decent looking and reasonably Any Forums in hindsight
>have crush on girl in school
>prettiest fucking thing I've ever seen in my life
>never spoken a word to her although we made eye contact now and then
>last year of school
>somehow social circles merge
>start hanging out with her in groups
>actually become friends
>fall in love like I've never been before or since
>can't imagine she would ever like me back even though signs were there
>couple months go by of me being a pussy
>one night after this kind of town carnival we take the bus home drunk
>she ends up putting her head on my shoulder for the 30 minute bus ride
>when I have to leave at my stop she gives me the most magical look I have ever seen in a human
>our friend group meets again the next day at the same place
>I made the mistake of getting high beforehand
>socially anxiety through the roof
>basically ignore her don't even say hello
>she looks heartbroken
>few weeks go with nothing really happening
>ask her roommate and mutual friend if he wants to hit some bars like I usually do as a way of hanging out with her
>he says he busy but he's sure she would love to hang out
>panic and tell him I've already made other plans in the 30 minutes that passed
>3 months later she has a different bf
>I still think about her every day for the past 8 years
>life has taken me for a hard nosedive first and now a huge high
>have women constantly miring or hitting on me
>currently dating a qt for the first time who worships me
>legit had trouble making eye contact with me while sober for the first few times we hung out
>feel absolutely nothing for her
I know this story is boring as fuck for an outsider but it's the biggest regret of my life. I'm proud of the person I am today but I'm not sure I can ever really love someone again. It's like the universe gave me my soulmate and I was just too afraid to reach out

>invites you back to her dorm
>doesn't even kiss you
Women are cruel and you don't deserve to be treated like this user. I will dedicate my max bench set tomorrow to your good fortune

>Lift because people say its good for you
>get hooked, enjoy it
>do it every day

>Y-YOU GYMCEL WOMEN DONT LIKE MUSCLES
>ERMMM.... ACCTUALY GIRLS ONLY LIKE SKINNY TALL GUYS
>YOU HAVE TO BE BORN A CHAD AND CANT SELF IMPROVE INTO GETTING GIRLS
>STOP COMPENSATING FOR BEING A LOOSER
>incel chad maxx pill *buzzword* *buzzword* *buzzword* *buzzword*

Shut up cunt.

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nope, just got cucked by an older guy, classic story
>19yo
>28yo guy hits on my gf, he has a car and a job
>its literally over
at least I lost my virginity

This. The pump feels good, I feel strong, number go higher. Me happy.

thanks for understanding man, GL on your bench sets, warming up my lats lightly before i start helps me lift, try it if you haven't already.

Yes, it was in eighth grade. She was perfect and I fucked it up

kind of but kind of not. desu i just missed out on too much stuff. was considered a bright kid, but nobody noticed or cared i was basically socially retarded. pretty much a loner, started drinking too much at 16, only really started to have friends and go out and do stuff at 18, lost that too, got a short relationship through pure luck, lost that too, now i'm just trying to figure out what being a man even means tbqh. also lifting feels good and is oftenly the only thing making me not drink on a weekday or making me leave the house like at all

Lol dumbass millennials like me fell for the parallel male Sex and the City meme of the early 2000s/2010s that we could all spit game and be superchads

I had 2 women who were serious longterm potential/mother material that I let slip away BC I didn't care enough and thought I would rather be a fake wannabe player

Now in my mid 30s and actually want a family/kids. It's my own fault though. Hopefully the universe gives me one more shot and I don't fuck it up

Captcha N2G8TR

Manipulative women will test their grasp on you. When I was more naive I dated a girl who would never communicate what she wanted and get upset if I didn’t read her mind.
She’d invite me over to spend the night and then push me away if I’d make a move, then I’d wake up to her giving me a blowjob, then she’d be so nice to me and then just disappear, and next time I’d see her she’d act like we barely knew each other - only to be all over me again the next day.
After a month I ran far far away. You’re not the one with issues unless you want to take on here’s.

No I'm a virgin. And the only girl to give me any attention just kept me as a beta orbiter. That was 10 years ago. I'm bigger than I was then but I'm also balder. I hate women, I wish just one would think im worthy of love.

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i apparently missed every single clue according to my friends
its due to schizophrenia not autism ok okok

>a storybook romance
lol
>cooming in random sluts
lmao

She didn't strike me as the purposefully manipulative type, more so the blissfully ignorant type, but i suppose in the end you're right in that I'd have to adopt her issues
>she’d be so nice to me and then just disappear, and next time I’d see her she’d act like we barely knew each other - only to be all over me again the next day.
I would be broken by day 3 of that shit, i simply cant handle it man

And were you one then?
I don't get it, were you just with her because it was easy and she liked you and you didn't really care about her? you too. What the fuck were you tards doing.

You did the right thing. Imagine how unhappy she would have been with you and your instant pot.

>grow up awkward beta
>spend years fixing myself
>women find me attractive now
>finally confident with some social skills
>meet friend of a friend at music festival
>make out while drunk
>fuck a few times after drinking
>go on an actual date
>feel absolutely nothing for her
>conversation is completely forced
>she falls in love with me for some reason
>like obsessed with me but not in a stalker way
>can tell I mean the world to her
>break her heart when I have to tell her I don't feel the same
>feel terrible because she is a genuinely great person who has had some tough years dealing with depression and an eating disorder
I didn't ask for this feel

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iktf
>maybe if I get into a good uni somebody will love me
>maybe if I get a diploma somebody will love me
>maybe if I get a job somebody will love me
>maybe if I get fit somebody will love me
>maybe if I get my own place somebody will love me
>maybe if I get a car somebody will love me

serves you right, degenerate

i understand user

>degenerate

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this

thread theme:
youtube.com/watch?v=vunm-W-ovLc&ab_channel=CaitlinMyers

>we were 12 when it started, ended more or less around 16
>she was a mentally ill short chick who looked like picrel, except with darker hair, smaller booba, and black framed glasses
>gave me the highest highs and lowest lows
>gradually changed
>went from cute menhera look-alike to a run of the mill slut
>nerdy cutie to literal bimbo with blue contacts and a fake tan and tattoos
>recently she was partying in some European rave

Still reminiscing the day when you left me all on my own, then
I walked away from any daylight, instead of dawn it was twilight
Underneath the disco ball breaks the spell that holds you in my mind
Though I used to dance with you, now we’re through, I’m sorry!
>captcha: D0NTH

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>fuck right after meeting
I'm sure she was the one man.

I'm a permavirgin

based

That guy literally just described the first cut. Someone post it

hah, I wish

Same and it hasn't been 15 years yet

You weren’t too afraid to hang out.
You ruined your perfect moments with drugs.
You could have had everything but chose the momentary high.
Even worse you could have told her and maybe salvaged everything but you destroyed any opportunity for self growth because you were afraid of vulnerability.
Now you’re so enamored with a memory that you let a person who loves you potentially slip by.
Unironically work on yourself now or you’ll lose everything due to your own fears.

Gym receptionist (male bro) told me multiple qts are crushing on me. I'm 5'9 185lbs lean-ish with a zoomer cut , with a degree and a good job. Why can't I stop feeling unworthy bros. I was trash for so long it's part of my core identity.

100% fitness is a cope.

No. I just wanna look good after years living like a fatass.
The cooming part is right tho.

Partially true. We were both immature shitheads. Unfortunately she was much worse than me, and it was either breaking up and being hurt or living a terrible life with a borderline girl who wants me emasculated.

No hard feelings, it's just life.

Come on man, you ca do better. I'm 5'6 and live in Denmark. I'm fucking invisible no matter how lean and jacked I look.
Keep it up, buddy.

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>fall in love at 17
>get ghosted / rejected
>wait 3 years until the pain turns into apathy
My life story could be written in ballpoint pen on a napkin

I am 28 years old and I never even kissed a girl

>Horrific eczema, rhinitis, angular cheilitis, allergic to everything, mood/body destroying drugs like Prednisone and Apo-Azathioprine, Molluscum contagioism breakouts due to scratching, sleep deprivation due to eczema,

No, I was doomed from the start; my physical condition and the mental/emotional warping it had on my mind and confidence precluded me from a normal teenage life. Just Now in my mid 20s I am coming out of it with my conditions all fading maybe due to age maybe due to actually effective drugs

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If you ever learn that love doesn't exist, it will at least free you from the treadmill

I was a pussy in HS so I never told my first real crush anything, then again didn't talk all too much with her. Your story makes me feel better, thanks user, but also sorry man. Honestly if you don't feel anything for the current girl you should move on. Find someone who triggers those feels in you

i feel you my brother, i had a very similar story except that she ended up cheating on me when she was on a trip away

Jeg kondolerer makker.

Are you saying that because you never felt it or because you did and she broke your heart?

angular cheilitis + exfoliative chelitis sufferer here, I know the pain

the struggle is real, if I don't put 12 different creams and ointments on my lips every 45 minutes my lips start looking like decomposing turboaids cancer ridden zombie lips. any time I leave my house and try to be with other people I have to constantly go to the bathroom and reapply the creams otherwise I'll have the turboaids zombie lip breakout right after

Lol, some girls are just sociopathic whores who get off fucking guys around, he absolutely was in the right to cut her off at that point

My only kiss that I ever got was from playing spin the bottle once back in high school.
The girl was utterly disgusted and everyone else was laughing as if she has to kiss some barely human leper or something. She had to muster up for a good minute or two and did it only after downing two vodka shots, and it was just a milisecond peck on the lips.

Hard to function normally after things like that

>That’s a lie, all women want longterm
So you're calling the Chad cock carousel a fake meme?

post face
genuinely curious

So I recently did some more research on AC after throwing my hands in the air for years; supposedly it MAY be caused by vitamin B12 deficiency; Ive been taking vitamin B12 supplements 3-4 times a day every day for the past month and I have noticed its gone down a lot

Minus the having sex with women part yes

You think someone who lives through such situations is capable of posting pictures of his face online?
Anyway obviously not handsome, but not straight up ugly either. Just in that below average sweet spot for girls to absolutely don't give a shit about you

You moved way too fast. You're not going to get a long term gf after a few dates. Even a strong hug, cuddling and kisses on the cheek are progress.
If I'm following your story correctly you asked her to be your gf after a week of seeing her.
Why do most people think women are whores and when they don't sleep with a guy after seeing him a few times they're called manipulative?
My friend in high school lost his dream girl similarly. They were progressing quite well, making out occasionally after a few weeks of meeting each other. Then she invites him over for a movie. Half way through he starts touching her, she says she just wants to watch the movie. He continues to pressure her into sex, and she gets mad at him and end the relationship there and then.
The longer a relationship takes to build the longer it takes to falter. If tou get into a relationship within a week it's going to last a few months tops.

She wanted to get fucked and not be a long term prospect. “I don’t want a long term bf” = I want to have fun. Going back to her house and getting a drink was to have fun. “I have to get going” and leaning in for a kiss is something a guy who wants a relationship would do. She didn’t want that and the turning of the cheek was her realizing there will be no fun and this guy is serious. The strong hug was “You’re a good guy and you deserve better than me who isn’t serious”.

My two cents, I’ve been in these shoes many years ago. Hard to convince you not to feel bad but you’re better off.

To be clear, saying I gotta leave and leaning in for a goodbye kiss on the cheek without any previous sexuality is what a relationship guy does **

The latter and I realized it wasn't real to begin with. Once you accept that it was never real, you feel okay that you'll never have it. No one has ever had it, it can't be earned, etc. It's like bigfoot. A lot of people want to prove it exists with shaky evidence, but no one will ever actually, undeniably have it in their possession and show the world.

user getting your heart broken doesn't mean it's all bullshit.

>If I'm following your story correctly you asked her to be your gf after a week of seeing her.
no not quite i clarified the timeline here
and again to reiterate i wasn't expecting (or even prepared for) sex, just a makeout session at least
> Going back to her house and getting a drink was to have fun.
again this is my retard tier writing apologies, the drink in question was a glass of OJ nothing alcoholic.
>leaning in for a goodbye kiss on the cheek
I went for the lips, she went around to my cheek, that's partially why i left.

True, and I still think of her every day, almost 7 years later.

Oh, 100%.

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Based king.

I watched the 2004 worlds strongest man while my family was on vacation and i thought strongman was the coolest shit. Starting lifting when i got to play football in middle school and ive always been motivated by getting stronger and beating my past self. Personal motivation is always greater than lifting for girls

Why did the first cut user post that pic? Who is she?

>be me
>14
>fat, long hair, beta as fuck
>friends who i've known since preschool bully me into the gym
>lose a solid amount of weight, cut hair and start going out more often
>acne clears due to actual hygiene
>in the meantime crushing hard on this one girl, the problem is she is a different ethnicity from me
>after literal months of contemplating finally decide to shoot my shot
>she just sadly tells me her parents wouldn't approve
>become extremely hateful and spiteful towards her and her ethnicity
>translate all babyrage into the gym
>ffw 18
>school ending, really solid physique at this point
>she approaches me after us basically ignoring each other for 4 years
>hey XYZ haha want to go out for a coffee? we should really connect again
>smugly tell her my parents wouldn't approve
i am still extremely bitter and hateful towards her and her people, but such is life

absolutey based user

>get my heart broken at 7 when I find out that Santa Claus isn't real
>accept that he isn't real
>get my heart broken at 17 when I find out that love isn't real
>accept that it isn't real
Not that I'm to step on anyone else's dreams. Don't worry, I'm sure Cupid exists and he's out there trying to set you up somewhere.

Incels have one heart break and swear off women forever, it’s so pathetic

sounds like you loved the wrong person who didnt deserve your love user
it happens to the best of us at times, i know what you've been through

Find her and apologize / explain
Heal the hate

why would i want to do that lmao

True, but I coom in my hand 99% of the time

my mans waited 4 years for this comeback, absolute savage

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We were going to have kids. Red hair, F cups, 25" waist, homeschooled, Christian, hated jews and all that other internet weirdo schizo shit.
I fucked it up and she turned into a psycho. Now I'm just bitter and try to see how bad I can treat a woman until she leaves me.

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>heart break
>swear off women
Can't swear off something you've never had before.

What I was doing wasn't "love" to begin with. It is simply because all interpersonal relationships are transactional in nature. I didn't know it at the time, but "having feelings for someone" is just code for wanting to possess them as reproductive resources. In other words, I was at a marketplace, and something was so cleverly marketed that it triggered my FOMO, even though I usually don't fall for advertisement. I was really sad that I'd never get to buy it, but three years after the fact I am realizing it was just FOMO and clever advertising, not an actual need for possession.

>had first real gf from 19-22
>super insecure and always felt like she was gonna leave me
>got drunk 1 night and apparently was asking her to leave
>don't remember any of it
>talk it over a few days later
>take a break, get back together, it doesn't work
>she is moving in a few months so we agree to stay friends until she leaves
>hang out 1 time after said conversation
>never again
>completely ignores me and we don't even have a proper goodbye
>it just ended and that was that
The last 2 points were what got me the most. I understood I fucked up but it was the fact she couldn't even say goodbye properly to give me closure. But it's k. She got fat, dyed her hair, and looks like she could lecture me on my white privilege. Though TBQH, I'm glad that happened and I'm glad I went on my slut banging spree. It got the need for a woman out of my life to where I am incredibly picky for any LTR and refuse to simp for casual/FWBs. Just today my coworker was talking about "muh side jobs" and how he has to make money because after he proposed, he pretty much lost all his savings. I really wanted to ask him how TF he goes on about penny pinching when he does dumb shit like this, yet then again, several years ago I know for a fact I would have done the same thing like a dumbfuck.

So yeah, is true. S, sorry I was a weak bitch. You understood my dumb autistic ass better than anyone else really. Even more than myself.

THIS IS WHY I LIFT
THIS IS WHYYYYYYYYYY

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i did that twice and have been reaping the consequences ever since

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Hi Op,
I read the replies to this and, as a very experienced man, no one hit the mark exactly.

She didn’t definitely know what she wanted herself, and, being lead entirely by her feelings, what she wanted probably changed at different times during your courtship.

You were right to push for the kiss and you will find success that way in time with many girls. What might have gotten you in trouble is asking, directly or indirectly, if you would be a couple together.

The reason is because you accidentally made it so the kiss “ means more” , In effect, that kissing you or more means you will be a couple, which is bigger decision than she wanted to make at that time. It’s the same reason girls need an alibi to have sex with a guy they don’t know well, because without an excuse then it’s more than sex, because then she can’t escape it meaning she is being promiscuous ( beware of girls who don’t need an excuse to keep their idea of not being a slut. A disconnect between doing something and being that kind of person who does that thing, that’s cognitive dissonance)

Of course, she’ll never admit that was her reason, she’ll say something like “ i just didn’t feel it “ , which sounds like she didn’t like you. But that would be inaccurate, she did.

It really is a pity women are this way.

In the future, don’t let things mean more than what they are, read up on game by Roosh V for more.

Lastly, do you social circles overlap? If so, she could have been worried about the relationship meaning she would face judgement by her peers. Lead women away from their friends and into private for best results. Group settings are very difficult to make progress in

t. Sociopath

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Question bros

>Sperg with women
>Get on tinder in mid 20s because why not
>Fuck a couple, awful sex.
>Meet this one girl that we click immediately
>She's not overly attractive but we hit it off so why not
>Spend more and more time together over the coming months. Eventually fall in love with her
>Become very scared, wonder if this is just because it's the first time I've ever been truly close to anyone
>Decide not to commit (Which we're both fine with)
Now here we are 2 years later. I still love her and we still spend lots of time together.

Am I making a huge mistake. I'm 29 now. Have been trying to date other people in the meantime and with one exception haven't really found anyone that I really liked.

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tell me about my best friend fucked my girlfriend and they both lied to me about it. Sorry about your embarrassing high school game of soon the bottle big guy.

You just said you love her.
I think the real answer is obvious here.

Enjoy it while it lasts. Just make sure you know yourself well enough in terms of what you are/are not willing to put up with. Only reason to fuck with other people is for the hopes of being able to do some type of sexual kink you can't with her. Then again, if you 2 really get along well then you might have the benefit of getting her to go along with it or, at the very least, ask and not have her immediately reject you.

>i love her
Protip: women can live men, men should only like women at best. Unless you absolutely, 100% want kids, are willing to sacrifice everything for your kid's future, and have a damn good legal setup, marriage is an absolute meme. NEVER get your finances mixed together for any other reason.

GL;HF

Is she of good moral character?

100%

>Only reason to fuck with other people is for the hopes of being able to do some type of sexual kink you can't with her.
Honestly we're both pretty vanilla. She's never refused any suggestions.

I know, but you could also argue I love someone else as well. But that's a completely different situation, we could never be together.

Depends on the situation. I was already lifting when I had that sort of relationship. Immediately hit it off, and she was patient with me while I was getting my shit together and dealing with my sperg-like tendencies. After 1.5 years, things began to get a little rough. We couldn't get past the wear and tear relationships of that caliber endure and our careers drove us to new places and greatly affected the time we spent together. We both agreed it probably wouldn't work out and parted ways. I hope she's doing well, though. I can never forget the good times we had and the nights of incredible passion. It sucks sometimes, but I'm glad it happened. I've been looking for that again, and while I've had some sloots, I'm directing my attention elsewhere to feel that feel again.

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>She didn't strike me as the purposefully manipulative type, more so the blissfully ignorant type

Those are the real pros at it. I stopped trying to decided if they were legit retards, or masterminds. Either way they play the games well.

Women who date to "have fun and meet new people lol" are whores so you made the right call ghosting that slag.

Women slonk chadcock because they want him longterm. Chad doesnt commit so they move to the next chadcock in hopes of trapping him. Comprende?

KING SHIT

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>Be me 16
>First job chain pizza joint
>Girl starts there
>Onitis hard, still think about her to this day (24yo)
>Despite being fit from wrestling and actually looking good have zero social skills or experience with women literally KHHV
>Basically cold shoulder her for months due to being terrified of spilling my spaghetti
>Closing store one day shes crying in the walkin freezer because she thinks i hate her
>Instead of doing something continue to ignore her because now its even more awkward of a situation to broach
>End up getting blasted one new years and telling her i was super into her
>She tells me i could have had her but i blew it bigtime
Guess ill channel these feels into finishing my back day

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Ended? It never even started.

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i can feel the cope emanating from this post, you are the male version of a cat lady dog gentleman

>>feel absolutely nothing for her
And that's the secret to keeping a woman. If you'd gotten that first foid you'd be chasing her like a dog and she'd have lost interest.

based
outstandingly cucked

This is the truth. Can't tell your woman of course, still have to put on a show, but it really does set you free from faggoty abstractions.

>couldn't even say goodbye properly to give me closure
Kek stop being a gay. You took a break, she shagged other men, lost interest in you, and that was that.

>dog gentleman
KEK i felt the "single unhinged animal person" aura from this post as well

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It was my fault, indeed; but I knew pretty quick she wasn't going to be the mother of my kids. It's an awkward story, but it would make sense to virgins in their 20s

Naw I just enjoy lifting

True, but all the men who do that are based.

lmao you fucked up, why would you say you're leaving you retard? She had sexual desire and you wimped out, that lack of confidence dried up her pussy so fast. LMAO. You can still make her a long term partner after the one night stand

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retard stop being a fucking beta, women need and want a fucking MAN, not some crying bitch lmao. They will not feel anything for you if you aren't a fucking confident man

>ANOTHER CRYING ABOUT WOMEN LIFE BLOG THREAD ON FIT

based

No comprende. Why settle for one Chad when you can "be single and find yourself and enjoy life" with many Chads?

>fat loser
>Slim up and get gf senior year
>She dumps when I go to college
>I'm head over heels but realize it's a good thing
>Brain cant get over her no matter how many heavy things I lift or put down
>Can no longer feel much after trying to kill the feels
>A decade later
>Still picking and putting down heavy objects,
>Still struggle to feel much

I really don't get it. I saw a picture of her recently and was disgusted, but still have dreams where she's in it. I even dated once and felt like I was acting the entire time. My only conclusion is that maybe i was meant to pair bond.

You should keep trying, maybe you'll connect hard with someone.

I think you're right. Low numbers aren't going to do any good.

Just as much her fault for not saying shit, dude. If she'd really wanted you, she could have done something.

relationship can be tiring to maintain, depends on girl

It's the exact opposite for me. Been with a girl I love since high school and who clearly loves me and is currently pregnant with my first son.

Bump

>girl texts me
>I'm so glad you responded
>I would like to lie on you
>would you like do draw me naked?
>text me the next day
>then she ignores me
wtf is up with these people

Ive had similar user. Its entirely on her nothing on you. She wanted to do relationship but for some autistical reasons we can only guess she doesnt want to officially be a relationship hence all the schizo shit. You were 100 in the right. Ive had it extremely similar. But let that be a lesson for you to not trust, care and feel too much too early before you should.

>It's like the universe gave me my soulmate and I was just too afraid to reach out
fuck man same here, but i met her in primary school and we talked throughout highschool

Being a man means you being you. Free to do whtever you want, set up your own goals and do them. Most get sucked into social circles and being have to accomodate to fit them which overrides them, especially women. You can just choose where to join and what to do, just the same as deciding to stay alone or stay alone plus get a family with kids going or whatever, all decisions you can make and work for as a man. Youre free to do whatever, dont compare yourself to other people or say "I should have been this and that" ever.

You're overthinking it man. Did your mom had you growing up on fair daily dose of guilt trips in your childhood that made you sensitive to that kind of thoughts to end up feeling guilty for your actions?

>t.Sociopath
BASED
only you miss spelled psychopath

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>twice
Nigga try everytime.

not sad about it though. I'm still 5 year old me looking for a friend. i'll find her

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OP here, thanks for the detailed response, im inexperienced as fuck when it comes to women as im sure you could tell
> What might have gotten you in trouble is asking, directly or indirectly, if you would be a couple together.
I think you might be right about this, when my friend first asked us both about the topic she shied away and it stuck in my head for too long, i really should have just ignored it.
>Lastly, do you social circles overlap?
no not at all, she didn't have many friends in the area being a uni student, and i introduced her into my group of mates. thanks again ill have a look at that book and hope that future interaction with women go a little better.
this seems to be the common factor in the replies, her autism/own issues leading to a problem and my fault for not seeing it coming

Not true at all.
My storybook romance with my childhood redhead tomboy friend ended because my family had to move away and I never saw her again.

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I was never a "player" but I did enjoy meeting / hooking up with new girls. I was mid-20s and living in the Big City and had a drinking problem.

There were also things about her I didn't like. She spent a little too much time on her phone. She could have lost 10 lbs. A little vain.

But, down the road, you realize that nobody is perfect. You can easily look past minor flaws when you're getting a sweet loyal girl who wants to cook for you, bear your children, supports your goals, thrives on your support in return...

I missed my chance due to my own mistaken attitude, so I can't complain.

>
post body and youre not on FIT, nigger

Congratulations retard

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There was a girl that was all over me from middle to high school, and then after we graduated I didn't hear from her for years. A few years after I graduated college, I ran into her and she said "Oh, I did that to keep other girls away from you." with no further explanation. She ended up "dating" her drug dealer from back then and now she's single with 2 hapa abominations. 30 years old now and I'm still a virgin!

Immaturity, abundance mentality, too much alcohol. I cared about them, just not enough and took them for granted in my early and mid 20s.
>wow look how many girls are around surely it will be that way forever
>you never know what you have until it's gone etc

I wish.
There was a girl I liked in high school.
In retrospect I think she liked me too, but I was too autistic to do anything.
5 years later, I ran into some old classmate and found out everyone thought I was asexual.

>awkward sperg since birth
>liked this girl in elementary school
>ask her out a week before we graduate to middle school
>we date but we're both too shy and awkward to do anything
>mostly just sit next to eachother and mumble some stuff
>go into homeschooling after 6th grade
>she moves during 7th grade
>return to school in 8th grade
that was my first girlfriend, don't really think about it too much but hope she's well
>second gf is some chubby mulatto
>freshman year
>we're both depressed and i'm incredibly beta
>she finds me cute but we only last 3 months
>lost my first kiss to her
>stop talking to her entirely
>drop out of highschool halfway through freshman year for entirely unrelated reasons
>spend the next several years NEETing
>she comes back 3 years later and got really into shape
>became a party girl, had body count in the 20s
>she's really attractive and wants to fuck
>i'm still a virgin
>turn her down, disgusted with how she acts now
those were my only physical relationships, anything online isn't worth mentioning, too many to count given that i was a NEET between the ages of 14-19
honestly i have nothing but apathy for my exes, rarely will have a dream where i'm fucking an acquaintance or ex and it'll make me doubt my better judgment for an hour or so waking up

NTA but what is there for me to be confident over?
>24 yo khv
>actual, diagnosed, unironic mild autism
>severe af acne from ages 11 to 18 left both side of my face from the hairline to the jaw with horrible scars
>mix of the above two made me incapable of ever socializing with grills: have absolutely no clue how to talk with them
>fell in love with this genki blonde at the end of middle school and never got her
>closest thing to getting any I've had was when oneitis and I would greet each other with pecks (we do that where I live) and one day we both turned our head a bit too much and our lips brushed.
Sure, from objective standpoints my life is pretty good, I've got great finances, a very nice job, work out and do martial arts and sports, I can play music don't even have that many inhibitions for having fun with the lads, was even dancing around last time we hit a whorehouse last time we went out drinking (didn't get a whore because that shit's nasty). But for women? I have absolutely no idea what I'm supposed to be doing, even if I were to learn how to fake confidence that shit will start falling apart the moment I need actual know-how on dating and relationship stuff.

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>>fell in love with this genki blonde at the end of middle school and never got over her*

I’m laughing very hard because that is literally me
Something about the retard apu lol

I'm 24 and never even kissed a girl

I'm 30 and haven't kissed a girl either. It gets easier to stay "pure" as you get older and start to wonder what is so catastrophically wrong with you.

Absolute spastic, pic rel.

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fit has more virgins than r9k