>be me >19 yrold incel deadbeat >meet girl at work >she's interested and keeps asking me to hang out >we go to movies, out for drinks a few times >not super into her but she's cool enough to spend time with >go on more dates >start to genuinely like her as a person and become more attracted to her >sex.jpg >now having multiple dates a week and she's met my family >now my gf
So I got everything I thought I wanted and yet I'm still just as anxious and self hating as always. I thought if I got rid of my biggest insecurities (being a virgin at 19) my mindset would improve but if anything it's gotten worse. I'm not an incel anymore so why do I still feel like one?
Yeah that's valid. 20+ bodies which was a yikes. But not like I was gonna pass up my only opportunity
Bentley Cruz
>I'm not an incel anymore so why do I still feel like one? Because your entire identity prior to sex was being an incel. If you would have listened to normalniggers and not put such a huge emphasis on it, you'd probably have at least a bit of mental health intact. Just stop giving a fuck about it.
Thats just normal for a 19 year old girl. They start going to parties when theyre 14. Many of them sign up to tinder and lie about their age. A few guys a year isnt really that many imo.
Jordan Myers
Damn, that is huge for a 19yr old. I know people will meme and say all women have had at least 20 by 18, but it simply isn't true. I'd say the high end of the scale for the majority of 19yr olds (both male and female) is 5. 20 sounds almost unbelievable, I get it's doable, but most 19yr olds are too socially retarded for that.
Easton Cook
>20 bodies >19
Jack Torres
Lmao ik ik. The way I see it we're both low value so it works out that way
It would have been nice to lose it to another virgin but I missed that point in my life
fuck man what is this mentality you guys realise you'll never be happy if you dont change your mind about this right
Brandon White
there's a big difference between "i had a boyfriend bfore and lost my virginity to him" and "i've fucked 20+ men over my short life
Aaron Young
Should've mentioned she's turning 21. Still doesn't make it much better
Kayden Harris
I'd rather be sad than kiss a mouth that has swallowed more cum than a toilet
Hudson Martin
Ah well mate, the important thing is you're happy in the relationship. You're the one she's with now, no one else. Maybe she was caught up in hookup culture because that was what her social group did. Maybe her promiscuity was a response to trauma, maybe she just always found herself with people she didn't mind sleeping with by chance.
Doesn't really matter as long as she's loyal and you're both happy.
Easton Lopez
That's how I try to see it as well. I think she is also quite insecure and sleeping around was her way to find validation. She told me she regrets almost all of them but I take that with a grain of salt
Jeremiah Ward
>fakecel zoomie wagie wants attention heres your attention you double nigger
this is normal. men want what they dont have. you will spend the rest of your life thinking "if only I had (insert something here) then I would be happy"
Owen Edwards
user a girl that has fucked 20 guys is NOT low value. 20 men found her pussy to be valuable and used her as a fuckhole. You really think that's gonna change?
Thomas Nguyen
Because you're rejecting yourself. That's the whole ironic truth about the incels. They're all just projecting their self-rejection and hiding from their catastrophized fear of rejection.
