Currently 23, broke, working on getting a software job, with the skills I have now that I've been developing in the last six months I could secure a job that would get me on the right track to making 6 figures in a year and doing remote work.
Let's be optimistic and say I accomplish this with few hurdles.
What are my dating prospects if this works out and I'm 24-25 with six figures in the bank, working out 3-4 days a week, in shape, medium height white male with a full head of hair, green eyes and decent enough face, how likely then am I to be able to date 18-21 year old girls if I'm looking for a wifey, looking for girls who come from good families. Would I be considered too old or would it be socially acceptable if I have a decent job and money?
Let's be even more realistic and say that it takes me three years to get there, if I'm 26 and want a good young wife material gf, how likely am I to find an 18-19 year old with a low body count or virgin from a conservative Catholic community (I'm Catholic) who would be willing to date a man who's 26, would I be accepted by her family or would they see me as a creep? There is no way I am taking my chances with dating a girl over 23 in this generation. I am planning on having a very traditional family with 6+ kids and I don't need extra baggage, I want a traditional girl who's as inexperienced with relationships and sex as I can find, idgaf what some cranky roasties or beta males think about that, it's what men wanted since the dawn of time and it's what I seek.
So would any experts on male SMV care to enlighten me on my chances to attain this?
If its your only chance then it's pointless to work out how likely it is to succeed. Likewise I am 20, also broke, and so I'm going to careermaxx because I feel the only way I will ever get female affection is by becoming a multi-millionaire. So if I do not accomplish female affection or multi-millionaire status in the 30/40 age range I will kill myself because the only thing I want out of life is for someone to love me back
Same bro, I feel the exact same way, the modern dating market is a bitch, but you know one thing that really helps guys like us make it is networking, you have an email? Even a throwaway one, if you're planning on becoming a multi-millionaire you need to start now, let's link up and discuss business, I just bought the rights to a name I plan to use for my company and I've been building my network for the past few months, I want to become completely self employed. Drop an email and let's share our passions, skills, talents, etc and see if we have any likelihood of working together.
Age gap is a new age myth. Humans, specifically their women, are born with their own value filters and their sexual filters are finalized about one decade and half in. Women have more and stronger filters the younger they are, not less. There is no one party that can abuse the other. Stop thinking prehistoric settings have any saying in the 21st century, stop excusing people for their own stupidity, and let them reap the fruit of their doing.
Evan Thomas
Please speak English and reiterate whatever the fuck you are trying to say in a way that makes sense to what we are talking about here.
Caleb Thompson
>Age gap is a myth in the new age, we're living in. >Humans, specifically their females, have innate filters on which they assess the value of others. >Such innate filters have a subset when it comes to choosing their partners, this subset matures during their puberty and doesn't mutate except through traumas. >The younger the women, the tighter her sexual filters are because they're based more on immutable characteristics before traumas shift their scope. >Stop thinking prehistoric settings have any saying in the 21st century, there is no one party now that can abuse the other, no matter the age gap. >Younglings are not stupid, stop excusing people for their own stupidity, and let them reap the fruit of their choices. Clearer now?
Thomas Hughes
Sooo you're okay with age gaps? Which means you agree with OP?
Hunter Moore
Im a 19 year old girl and I think you are disgusting to want to date someone almost years younger than you. Not because of the age difference, but because you are truly that shallow to not be interested in women around your own age. If all you are after is a virgin, you can find one. But leave the younger women alone, to date the men their age, and have wonderful families together, with both healthy, young genetic information Part of this is bias, as I fear one day I will be unwanted by men who look as aged as I do. But seriously man, you go to church, youll find a woman within your own age thats as experienced as you. Regardless its unlikely any unexperienced 18-19 year old girl would go for you. The older a man is, the more intimidating he is, unless she was into weird shit like ageplay or likes that stuff, in which case; she would probably be experienced at that point
Chase Cox
good thing I give zero fucks you dont approve I enjoy the company of younger females. 0h n0ez some female I wont fuck is upset I wont date her old crusty passed herself around ass. boo hoo. go seethe somewhere else old hag. tho more likely you're just a transqueer pretending to be a female and pretending you speak for chicks. you arent a female thus dont speak for females queer
Jacob Russell
Kek. I made a throwaway one around a month ago. I don't know if I want to work closely with anyone but depending on what field you're trying to get into, I might be able to buy stuff from you and honestly if even one person similar to me benefits from my business expenses, that beats buying from some random home depot franchise or chinese warehouse a hundredfold. [email protected]
Jason Ramirez
>Sooo you're okay with age gaps? Which means you agree with OP? Why I wouldn't be?! We're not in stone age, user, and so anyone demonizing age gaps is gaslighting others. As said: >as I fear one day I will be unwanted by men who look as aged as I do. They literally can't hide why their for real against it, it's all gaslighting, it's out of their own inadequacy. I'm one of those mutants who still look exactly like a high-school senior and I'm almost 30, I'm a nightmare for old females.
Cooper Jenkins
But femanon, would you not turn me down if I asked you out now? I have an average face, an average build, and an average dick. All three are nearly worthless to you because of tinder and the endless amount of orbiters and simps just floating around in your personal life. You would probably even mock my inexperience and call me a little boy because I'm your age and still a KHHV. Are you saying it's irrational for me to hate you ten years later after you've had a lifetime of sexual experience, intimacy, and companionship in the same decade I spent grinding my ass off in order to even have a chance? My first intention was to date my female peers, because I thought we were equals. After many rejections, my intention now is to date 20 year olds when I'm 30 and an accomplished business owner.
Nolan Anderson
>But seriously man, you go to church, youll find a woman within your own age thats as experienced as you. i'm not the OP but I'm Jewish. the only chance I have to find a virgin woman in religion is by converting to the ultra-orthodox strain which I don't really believe in since I'd have to hate gay people and all that. I've been going to temple (i'm reform judaism don't vibe check me on the nomenclature) and it's all boomers over the age of 60.
I can see why ultra-religious groups are so restrictive on female sexuality desu. It's their greatest recruitment factor. Even if I don't believe in any of the other stuff, the fact I can get a virgin wife is pretty good.
Dominic Anderson
Faggot I do not care if you do not care, Im saying you will get absolutely zero bitches if you go this way, all you will get is lost respect. Women arent stupid, idiot, the average intelligence gender maybe, but definitely not stupid. Three reasons why a man at 26 years old would be a virgin after 18-19 year old virgins; hes trying to live out his missed highschool years and its nothing but a fling, severe mental issues, or because he only wants them for their appearance. You better be a filthy rich mother fucker if you think a young girl is going to settle for a guy your age. Why would she go for you, old man of average to above average income, when she could go for slightly older more attractive filthy rich man? The logic just doesnt add up user. Now think about woman your age, matured, sees you have steady income, prime for being a mother, you just have to filter through to find the ones as experienced as you I dont care who you end up with, honestly I hate guys like you, youre as shallow as the women you hate, frankly I hope you end up with nobody and learn to live a fulfilling life without depending on a woman to bring you happiness And pick an insult to go with, either im a dried out hag, or a tranny
But as a fellow Christan, I think you should pray about it user, ask God to help you find your perfect woman. Maybe she is 19 years old, maybe older, but I think youre a faggot for only going for girls fresh out of high school
Ayden Hill
OP here, I actually really appreciate your honesty, that's the reason I made this thread, I probably come off as narcissistic and shallow in my original post but that's because I'm trying to get straight to the point, I need other people's honest perspectives. So once again, thank you for your honesty, can you also be honest with one more thing though, what would you say would be the rule breakers for you? Girls tend to only really make rules for unattractive or boring guys but seem to be fine with disregarding then if a man is attractive. So how attractive and successful does a 25-26 year old man need to be to openly date a 19-20 year old?
You sound retarded. Most girls I've dated were more than five years younger than me. Tik tok woman, the clock is dragging you forward to obscurity, and you're absolutely right to be afraid of the day when men's eyes pass right over you.
Noah Cook
This is not OP btw
Xavier Anderson
You won't date me now when I'm young though, I know for a fact that I'll be wanted when I have six figures and a house though, would you date a broke 23 year old with no money?
I try to be unbiased, of course I probably care about it because of my own fears, same reason why I might think huge tits are ugly. I just think its retarded to only go after 18-19 year olds like you actually got a shot at it If youre average, the fuck are you doing here, go live a happy life. You can do it you asshole, just stop getting discouraged about all the shallow women you meet, just as I wont get discouraged by all the shallow men I meet. But if Im being honest, I dont care if youre shorter than me, have a micropenis, or are fat, as long as you are not a 300 pound land whale, because if youre that obese, you have some bigger things to worry about besides getting a gf. My one requirement is to share my faith, and to love me as much as I love you. I dont have any orbiters because I can only have one or two friends at a time, as I am unable to handle focusing on more than one person. I dont have tinder because i hate taking pictures of myself and I dont know how to drive. And I am also a KV, and the less experience a man has, the better, as we will be the same Its rational for you to think this of me considering the site you chose to spend your time on. But not all women are such this way. Where to find them? I dont know, I dont go outside except to feed ducks when it rains and no one is there to tell me i cant. Feel resentment for the ones who hurt you, not the ones who never did user. doesnt that suck absolute balls? I know own so called devoted christians who go out and have sex before marriage. absolutely retarded But, you will have a much better chance at finding a virgin in a religious place, than on tinder or at a bar. Also, Bible says nothing about hating gays. You shouldnt hate gays, hate the sin, not the sinner. I dont care about what gay people do in their bedroom, I dont think they should do it, but its none of my business to give my opinion on it.
Eli Hughes
I would date a 23 year old broke girl with no money. Would a 23 year old broke girl date me?
Brody Gray
Eh, man. If you're thinking like this it's over for you. I'm not even going to bother with an explanation. You're just too far gone. I don't think you could even pay a bitch to be around you.
Xavier Foster
Bruh the double standard doesn't work that way, guys will date down, girls only want to date up.