Getting a gf

Why do the majority of people here say all their problems would be magically fixed if they just got a gf? You are always on here for a reason and you need to work on yourself and try to be better to get a gf in the first place. Even if you somehow get a gf it wont end well at all due to the fact you have put in no work into yourself and havent had one in so long. It is that easy, better yourself and get therapy if you need it

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>all their problems would be magically fixed if they just got a gf?
Because all my problems went away when I had a gf

having a gf gives you motivation to better yourself for her, there is 0 motivation to better yourself when you don't even know if you'll get a girlfriend at the end of it

why dont you be my gf I have a big dick

These times 102

and then you'll go on to say later "OMG I LITERALLY CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT SEX IT'S TORTURE"

I know a gf wouldn't fix my life but it would boost (albeit temporarily) my self-esteem self-worth, motivation to make something of myself and this life, happiness, love for people and life in general and would get rid of my feelings of loneliness, exclusion and alienation from society, hopelessness and despair.

I had a girl who was interested in me for a short while and it gave me (vain) hope (and oneitis) for like 2 years but now I'm back to square 1 because I fucked it due my sperginess.

>t. 27KHV who sees no future and whose hope is almost completely squashed.

I am scared for this -- though. Once I tasted love I'm in the rat race for life while now I sort of already gave up on life.

and what problems were those?

to an extent yeah, but you can not be totally dependent on them for that. you can make reasons to try at least half as hard for yourself

this is why you do not have a gf

??

fair, to an extent. having a partner does help in some way regarding self image and what not, but most of those could be tackled on your own doing too. also, sorry to hear that. do not give up though you will be able to do it

idk probably but I just want a bitch to suck my dick and im making you my candidate

I don't want to gf if it takes completely reinventing myself. That is such fake shit. I'm going larp around as someone I am not for some again? Are you fucking kidding me? Go get your fake ass man and get the fuck off my board.

It wouldn't fix all of my problems but if I could at least get one gf it'd prove to me something about me can be attractive to women and I'm not just completely doomed. So it'd be a start

>you can make reasons to try at least half as hard for yourself
Nope. Not wasting time on reward-less effort

dipshit why not just ignore in the first place, if you need to reinvent yourself almost to a 100 percent degree then it is better you are here

ask im sure he is more than willing

so you want a gf to prove to yourself and raise your self esteem? i mean yeah that is a way but not the optimal one

I'm not changing or going to therapy or anything. I like who I am. Fuck what women think. Women think nearly half of all men are trash apparently. Guess what? Half of you can get old and die alone. I do not give a flying fuck..

Perhaps it would raise my self esteem a bit but that's not my goal per say. Women just genuinely don't like me and never have and I don't get why. I've had gay dudes hit on me before but women find me repulsive and that's bizarre to me.

>half
Hahahahahah no all of you are garbage

Look in the mirror. Men are increaingly not doing backflips for your trash ass and now you come to Any Forums to give "advice" on chasing "my precious pussy." That is all you offer and men have other sources for that. They do not need to play your games. Get old. Lose all attention from men. Have nothing to show for it.

I'm not giving you advice I'm calling you garbage, retard

Who asked, retard? Why waste your time? I'll tell you why. You are a lonely bitch that can't get Chad. No one gives a fuck. KYS

All I want is someone to give me a hug when I get home from a hard day at work.

damn. the way you typed that makes me wish you get that gl

It's just going to be a sour bitch that never "worked on herself" because she had zero reasons to. Men validated her for her body. She had no reason to improve anything about her disgusting ass. So I would avoid women at all costs and hug yourself because YOU are the only one that can truly love you. Not some road hard whore.

the only time i've ever truly felt relaxed was when a girl held me fuck off with these retarded "le self improooove" threads research suggests it's very bad for your health to not receive female affection