Ideal partner thread

>values
education
liberal
atheist
doesn't want a family
>personality
ice queen to coworkers, randos
obsessive in relationships
aggressive
confident
>height
5'5-5'7
>build
slim
>goals
DINK
retirement
continuing education
moving up the corporate ladder
>anything else
has hobbies
not a narcissist
loves me
has a better template than this one

>>values
Conservative, but not a prude or uptight (req.)
I was raised and educated Catholic, but I've lost faith. Catholic background is a plus.
>>personality
Introverted (req.)
I've dated bubbly extroverts and they're exhausting to deal with. I like going to conventions and social events, but not having a legion of friends or talking to someone constantly.
>>height/build
5'4-5'8 (req.), hourglass is a plus.
No manlet sons, and broad shoulders + hips are hawt.
>>goals
Marriage + children + marital happiness = happy children.
>>anything else
Having a nice voice is a plus.
"Nerd" hobbies like reading and LARPshit are a plus.
Being good with children is a plus.

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I'm not gonna complain, it's just weird. What you want seems to be more like a close friend who helps you out in life than an actual lover.

>suicide is my only option.
True.

>values
kindness
authenticity
integrity
>personality
kind
empathetic
doesn't like to argue for fun
not a bpd life-ruiner
>height/build
at least 5'6 and not overweight
>goals
to have a family with me and do everything within our means to raise our children for long term success and fulfillment
>anything else
xx biofem with functional womb
smells good

Someone who truly loves me and respects me, doesn't even matter what the gender is at this point

>This seems like a pretty lackluster temptate honestly.
desu yeah I agree. I just copied and pasted last night's thread on this topic because I'm interested in reading the replies. in hindsight, I should have altered it to make it more interesting

>>values
loyal and committed, has standards (won't just take the first girl who likes him just because she's a female), is capable of being critical of other mens' behavior, and not a redpiller or right-wing
>>personality
calm temperament, confident, decisive, curious, likes to educate himself, and has a misanthropic streak
>>height/build
not obese or skinny-fat. can be chubby with muscles, or skinny. taller than me (165cm)
>>goals
he doesn't need to have a big goal in life if he's otherwise an active person
>>anything else
he wants an equal relationship, but personally likes to be masculine, and prefers it when his gf is feminine, and realizes that there is strength in both. sees women as people and not just baby machines.

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>values
Wants kids
Work just enough to live comfortably
Can be a bit mean at times
Helpful
Smart
>personality
Kind
Patient
Drones on and on about topics
Thick north city centre accent
Dry sense of humour
Into science
Likes to shoot
>height/build
Any height, I prefer a small chest and skinny but the girl I currently have eyes for is the opposite so I guess other ends of the spectrum, long hair
>goals
Live comfortably
A few kids
Own a home maybe
Progress in our respective hobbies
>anything else
Binge drinking and smoking are a plus
Understanding IPC is also a good thing

>values
Kindness, understanding, honesty
>personality
Intelligence is very important. I want someone I can have a conversation with, not a brainlet. If she's interested in the same things I am then great- we can discuss them. If she isn't then we can teach each other about the things we each like. Either is fine, though I'd prefer having stuff in common.
I like people who speak their mind, who are honest and upfront. I don't care how blunt she is, even if it's to the point of calling me a fucking imbecile to my face. I'd much rather someone tell me they're dissatisfied with me and give me a chance to fix the problem, than just think they're dissatisfied with me but look at me with a smile. That doesn't mean someone who picks fights for fun or enjoys arguments for the sake of them, but someone who would rather address issues than just letting them fester.
>height/build
160-170cm, generally lean.
>goals
I don't care, as long as she isn't indecisive and actually works towards whatever she wants instead of talking about it while doing nothing
>anything else
No drugs, though a small bit of alcohol occasionally I don't mind. Bonus points if she looks anything at all like picrel

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Inb4 simps pouring from the skies

I see you are female. Please be my gf.

I wish. I wouldn't be here. I would actually have at least 30 different dudes that fit the exact description of my perfect mate hitting me up.

>values
not woke
loyal
>personality
caring
supportive
introverted
can be somewhat clingy
>height/build
5'1 or shorter, normal BMI for the height
at least medium length hair, long is ideal
>goals
long term relationship, marriage+kids if it works out
>anything else
bio fem
watching anime or playing vidya together over voice chat (eventually irl) would be nice
has her own hobbies
European/white

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I could cave Ben's skull in.

Huge red flag when a girl starts talking about wanting an equal relationship or fairness. Y'all should know by now the difference between what girls say and what they actually mean. When a girl talks about fairness, what it really means is fair to her. She's the center of the universe and no one else exists as far as she can tell. If she doesn't get what she feels like she deserves, it's a grave injustice. Your hope/dreams/needs/desires though? Irrelevant. In her mind, this is equal and fair.

Wat. That kind of man is actually rare, that's my point. Most men these days either hate women, or are complete simps, and I'm not interested in either

the saddest part of these threads is remembering how we tend to have little or humble standards even when considering our "ideal" and yet we're still alone. we just want to be happy

that's a lot of assumptions.

>is female
>black
>lives in maryland
>doesn't have any kids
>is kind of a weirdo

>values
must be loyal to me. the rest doesn't matter as long as personality requirements are met
>personality
Must have enough patience, open mindedness, capacity for logic, and introspective ability to enjoy discussions about and change their beliefs and values. If I don't like her values, I will change them. Must be honest and forthcoming.
>height/build
must not be fat or more than 10 years older than me
>goals
ideally, nothing too ambitious
>anything else
I want her to be my best friend and equal. We would be completely open with each other. I'd want to create and consume art with her, like watching movies and writing. Maybe we'd start a small business too. shit I think I just want a friend

>Not a Lover
I'm not sure what you mean. I'm a 'side', I just don't want sodomy. Not all guys want sodomy. Sodomy won't make it from friends to a relationship.

>seems to be more like a close friend who helps you out in life
I make six figures, so I'd be helping anyone making 60k more than they'd be helping me. This is an ideal partner thread, so ideally they are someone who is able to take care of themselves financially and at least contribute to buying a home with me. Don't start attacking people over their ideal partners in an ideal partner thread when they're just asking for someone who wants the same things they want even if they make less money.

Beyond that, who gives a fuck? Like I literally want to build a life with someone (traditionally what you do with your 'lover'), and I want to have sex with them, but wanting to just be able to have sex outside the relationship turns it to friends?

Like sure, a long term romantic relationship does sound like 'just friends' when you decide to define it that way just because I don't really care if my partner fucks someone.

Yeah yeah yeah, sure hon. Being a bad bitch is so hard. Everyone is worthless and shit. I get you. Poor you can o ky attract the most vile men on earth! What a curse.
Look, we both know you are full of shit, but if you don't know that, I suggest you try therapy. Your therapist will in a roundabout way tell you are full of shit just like I did and if you truly want that, you will eventually snap out of it and grab one of the 50 guys hitting you up with these stats.

>humble standards
you'd be surprised how hard it is to find someone even fitting the minimum standard of decency with this bullshit age tinder and sleeping around