If I text her, I'm simping.
If I don't, relationship gets colder by the day.
she doesn't text.
brain is telling me it's over and should move on. I've been here before, I recognize the place.
I do not want to. I want her.
If I text...
There's no winning condition here right?
>There's no winning condition here right?
nah, bitches love drama.
Lets just hope they grow out of it eventually.
And by drama I mean your personal drama because of them.
advance the relationship, meet her irl if you didn't, get physically close if you did
gauge how hard she backpedals and draw your own conclusions
as a tip, she'll always backpedal somewhere, don't get completely discouraged
give up and break it off if you get too frustrated, it always feels better than waiting for her
Dont text. Drop her, move on.
Its already over user and shes already on top of someone else.
she's over 200 miles from here. we haven't talked for months, weeks because I texted her for some important stuff. I wish I could get her for a coffe.
>Its already over user and shes already on top of someone else.
No, she's lonely, I know
then take a friday off and fly there for a weekend
I'm an eurofag and I have a friend 100 miles away who I visit once every two months just because I feel like it, we're not even in a relationship
even if she ditches you, a weekend in an unknown city is always a nice change of pace
yeah, I have this on mind, I have no excuse to text her now, but in a couple of months we both have our birthday.
>bitch I'm coming for you
>b-but user
>too late
even if she doesn't even wants to see me, I know more people there, so it would be nice
cool, good luck
don't look for excuses too much, I did this when I was younger
it just makes you nervous and every conversation feels like a puzzle
text her when you feel like it and have something relevant to things she's interested in
I know this chick who's really into 3D printing and we can spend hours discussing plastics and shit
I wouldn't update her with recent conflict in israel, but I would sent her a picture of a box I printed yesterday
>don't look for excuses too much, I did this when I was younger
>it just makes you nervous and every conversation feels like a puzzle
too close to home man
>plan conversations, every possible outcome, every possible ramification.
>it's over in less than 5 minutes.
in this case problem is we somehow argued some time ago, I don't text back so I don't give feedback to that kind of behaviour, and now it's been months and bitch won't text me.
>too close
it gets better in time
>argument
if it wasn't something serious, you can nine out of ten times get away with just ignoring it
unless you made fun of her mother's recent death, it probably wasn't very serious
honestly, just ask
>yo, you free on the 15th?
or whatever
I have a friend with whom I talk exactly twice a year, every 6 months, because my birthday's in January and hers is in June
most people don't really mind huge time gaps, do you? I know you don't