I am a female (XX) and I had a wild sexual past. Lets just say I didnt care much for self protection and did a lot of experimentation, including things I wasnt exactly confortable with. That is something that haunts me to this day. Now I want to start a serious relationship with a guy, but I am afraid he will think less of me for it. I believe I have changed and I dont want to lie about my past to my future husband, because to me truth and communication are the basis of any relationship. I have a crush on a guy in my class at uni and we talk sometimes, he seems to flirt with me but every time the subject of past relationships comes up I change the subject because I am afraid of what he will think. Am I overthinking? What can I do to make him feel at ease with my past?
I am a female (XX) and I had a wild sexual past...
You should try smoking weed and putting stuff in your butt
Larp
But they will bite anyway, this place is so predictable
I knew you'd become a whore, fuck you.
gentlemans agreement, silence and NO REPLIES
>That is something that haunts me to this day.
and it will until the end of times
>I want to start a serious relationship with a guy, but I am afraid he will think less of me for it
as he should
>I believe I have changed
you haven't
>What can I do to make him feel at ease with my past?
Nothing. stop leading that poor lad on, roast beef
I could love a slut, she just needs to like getting throat fucked and licking my ass. I've probably had more sex than her
Post his email address and I will send him an email explaining all about your past. And I promise that after he reads my email, you won't have to think about this problem any more.
If not bait, just leave it general/vague and explain what you want now and why you don't want what you wanted then. If you can't explain either, introspect some more and leave the poor man alone.
Why are you so mean? You dont even know me, you dont know what I have been through, I have never done anything to you
Just stop it, you are not better than anyone else
I feel like I have always wanted a good relationship, but the first guys I tried to date just led me on and used me for sex. Then I started just having sex with guys I didnt know, going to parties, getting high and doing crazy shit. I liked the attention, I recognize now that I was needy, but I just wanted to feel warm, to feel human contact. I lived 2 years like that, until 4 months ago, when during one of those parties in a friend house I ended up trying coke for the first time and hooking up with two guys at once. The next day I was devastated, I couldnt even look at myself in the mirror. After that I stopped going to parties and was depressed for a while. Then I started talking more with this guy and he seems really great, and I want to try to have a relationship with him
>I am a female (XX)
Correction: I am a fe(male) (XY)
You have closed the window on many opportunities. High-value men will not wife you up. What haunts you now will haunt you until the end of your days or until you find a husband. You need to accept that as reality.
That said, it is always possible to overcome sin. Not just in the eyes of God, but also with men. Some men will reject you outright. Some men will see you have earnestly changed and will never repeat your past. You have to be honest and let them judge. No matter how painful it may be, do not conceal it.
God bless.
>I just wanted to feel warm, to feel human contact.
Women who slut it up for this specific reason can never be trusted. You are a dick junkie and you will never change. This "moral transformation" you claim to have had after being spit-roasted won't last. The next time you get a tiny bit sad, or bored, you will tell yourself that "relationship guy" isn't meeting your needs and you will fuck random niggers and still claim the high ground.
Sounds like pretty typical 20-something shit. Meaningless sex, going through relationships like flipping through a phone book, "parties". I wouldn't worry too much about it. Doing something crazy once and immediately feeling so bad about it you decided to do something different is a good sign.
Assuming the dude is also in his later twenties and isn't an incel type (i.e. he understands and isn't going to lie just to get some pussy) tell him how you are feeling and either he will understand or he won't.
Thanks user but I am not really religious and I dont see that changing in the future
Why do you say that? I sincerely think I have changed and matured after this dark period of my life, I dont accept to be treated like that anymore
Thanks user. Thats why I am afraid, he seems to be pretty shy and definitely doesnt seem like the type of guy that is out there having casual sex. But maybe he doesnt have these prejudices, he seems very progressive as far as we talked about other things
Wait... I've seen this movie before. It had Ben Affleck in it. What was it called?
If he is a normalfag, he probably had a similar past, so you shouldn't worry about it. He doesn't deserve better.
If he is your average awkward nerd, maybe he likes you enough to ignore your past, or maybe he genuinely doesn't care.
Just be honest and see how he reacts.
Ahahahhahahha holy shit.
>"I have always wanted a good relationship but the guys used me."
I will always be astounded by how stupid and incapable women are of taking accountability for their actions. Let me guess, honey, you 'wanted a relationship' with a man making more money than you, one taller, suaver, good looking, basically out of your league. But somehow it's his fault when his obvious promiscuous traits led him to the next hole and you crying alone.
You saw that shit coming from a mile and a half away, don't try lie to any of us or yourself.
Why do whores set themselves up and act surprised like it wasn't their fault?
Boggles the mind.
To answer your OP question, don't worry. Most men are so desperate for pussy he'll date you regardless of your blown out gash. He'll just be bitter and resentful for the first few years and it'll manifest as fights later in the relationship.
You'll come to hate him with time too when you realise you actually wanted the Chads who spitroasted you to make you their personal slave and he's just a stand-in, but you'll get half his shit in the divorce so it's all good.
If you plan on being in a relationship with this man, it is your moral obligation to have him sleep with the same number of people you have before you start dating.
>she thinks she's wifeable after being ran through by a massive rotation of chads
Any man of value will throw you back into the gutter where you fucking belong.
If a man is going to risk everything on a fucking marriage then its should be with someone who has some goddamned self-control and not some hyper hedonistic and promiscuous thot.
If I married a woman who turned out to be a turbo whore i'd just murder you since I know my life is going to be ruined by you anyway.
Stick to fucking your dog, swallowing loads in bathroom stalls and get the idea of marriage out of your mind because that was never meant for you.