24y old robot (I'm not picrel but it wouldn't make a difference, average=ugly)
when you run out of advice because you've tried them all.
when videogames are just boring. when you even quit porn because it's just painful to see people living things you haven't
when you've been through 4 different types of therapy etc etc..
I stopped trying recently and no it hasn't gotten better
how do you cope? Even music sounds garbage nowadays
I need a new cope but nothing works. Sports didn't work, martial arts didn't work, religion didn't work, yoga didn't work, guitar didn't work, studying didn't work, opening a business didn't work
Nothing works as a cope anymore. it's so bleak. no one understands you, you're mocked even on incel environments. I want this to be gone.
Please help us all, whoever it may be, cuz God hasn't helped us
You get mocked because you act so dramatic with your fake ass """depression"""
William Gomez
what do I do then? how should I act?
Lucas Gutierrez
Uh don't act so dramatic to start with your acting like you have the worst problem in the world. don't be so fucking stupid and maybe people will be sympathetic
Noah Smith
knowing it's not your fault and going on antidepressants to kill your sex drive.
Jose Diaz
I'm a white magick practitioner (male. no I don't witchcraft) And I can safely say: Males don't help other males nearly enough.
I want to help, but I don't know how. Things are never simple, and I don't just say abra-cadabra and throw a healing crystal at you-- I would need you to be in physical proximity to you. I would also need you to be open-minded (a big ask for r9k, because I know how my practices look to the average male) Where do you live?
Henry Diaz
Me (and 99% of incels) are not trying to ascend, we're just looking for one of the 2 things:
1) a better cope mechanism 2) death
if you can provide one of those, I'm in Texas
Ayden Lee
You seem to be stagnated in a position that doesnt fullfil you. You need to reflect about your emotions, your environment, your routine and your future. Find different ways to entertain yourself, find ways to improve your life, find what is missing.
Austin Carter
A better coping mechanism. I can't presume to know what that might be for you. It's a quandary too, because I'm not a virgin or incel. I DO consider some of you to be my friends too-- and as a friend I feel like it would be insulting to offer my advice. Instead, I would prefer to listen (though I don't have much time before work) Do you use drugs or alcohol?
Henry Perry
>DURR GOD WON'T MAGICALLY GIVE ME MUSCLES! That's right dumb fuck, he gives you a weight.
Owen Ortiz
Same advice I give to every user here: start a diary.
It changed my life, because it changed the way that I thought about stuff. Simple fucking as.
>B-BUT IT DOESN'T WOOOOORK!!!! Hey guess what faggot, it takes deliberate, persistent effort.
>BUT THOSE OTHER THINGS TOOK EFFORT TOOOOOO Yeah, and to what end? You got better at guitar to be a better you? You played sports, got into religion and martial arts to be a better you?
That won't make you a better you. To be a better you, you have to develop a better view of yourself, the world around you and the stuff in it. You have to sit down, write "why do I think _____?" and tease out each feeling you have about every little thing. Write it all out, then reread it, and tease out more contradictions and difficulties each time until you achieve clarity on a subject.
There's a reason commies made American prisoners of war write out all their thoughts and shit in those POW camps. Same deal with psychiatrists etc. they'll all tell you to start and keep a diary because doing so means you're engaging directly with your thoughts in a much more productive way than if you were to sit there and let yourself ruminate endlessly.
>how do you cope? Even music sounds garbage nowadays I learned to like different music. How did I do that? I thought about it. What helped me with that? Writing shit.
Leo Lewis
This tradLARP shit won't help you OP.
Consider leaving this place. Get rid of your internet connection if you have to. Hoard a bunch of data like books and stuff, go to /lit/ and get charts, go hoard a bunch of vidya and whatever else, get rid of your internet and be fucking amazed.
Unfortunately, this is impractical for a lot of reasons. But if you can do it, I highly recommend it. Even if it's just for a month-long stint, it could do wonders.
Asher Flores
Puting limits on your computer time and smartphone is really a good idea. Try avoiding the computer at least for the morning, do not use the phone for entertainmemt and keep it in a drawer or bag. Try cooking regularly, eating salads and healthy food. Go for a daily walk and explore your city.
Jaxon Fisher
>Sports didn't work, martial arts didn't work, religion didn't work, yoga didn't work, guitar didn't work, studying didn't work, opening a business didn't work try coping with the gym, it'll make you more buff and give you more confidence so that you can get pussy.
