I'm tired of everyone on this board making it seem like women have an easy time dating. Like, yeah, if I wanted to, I could have sex with some random creep who would treat me like a toy then never talk to me again, but its basically impossible to find a guy who I'm attracted to who is actually willing to commit. I've never had a man tell me he loves me in my entire life (besides random facebook requests from literal swamp creatures). What good is being able to get some man to hump you while completely drunk for five minutes before he rolls off of me, then kicks me out of his house? Who would possibly want that?
I struggle as hard as anyone else here to make an actual connection with someone, and even though I've been going out with guys for 15 years now, which is fucking work, I have yet to have a guy stick around for more than a month. You guys constantly talk about how you want a woman to cherish and love, but in reality, if you got one, you'd fuck her and leave her after the novelty wore off after a couple of weeks like every other dude. It fucking sucks, and you guys are lucky that you at least have control and can have a relationship if you want one.
Sick of this shit.
Women don't have it easy
But you're a tranny. In the history of this board there have been very few biological females to actually even come here. You are a man, playing an act, you are the embodiment of a sexual fetish and you are the embodiment of throwing in the towel and giving up because you couldn't handle being a man. How sad.
>but its basically impossible to find a guy who I'm attracted to who is actually willing to commit.
Because you are shooting for men out of your league. You are pump and dump material to them, not wife material.
if I was a tranny it would at least make sense to me. I'm not a supermodel or anything but I'm alright looking and was born with a vagina
i didin't give up it just turned me on to become more feminine...
tldr
ur right tho
im scared to approach anyone because they all want to be fwb. i want my hymen to be ripped by actual emotion. im scared of wearing nice clothes and dolling myself becoz anyone who will approach me will try to either kidnap/drug me. you might think im schizoposting but am agshually scared.
i fall in love 2 easily but always drown my feelings and keep them to myself bc i dont want them to lie to me and say ily2 just bc they want to fuck me. literally no way to cope.
I am like Paul Atreides fr fr
I mean, you're not wrong that a majority of retards here just like the idea of a girlfriend and yet don't actually have someone they like.
However...
With that acknowledged: don't act like you're some pure, innocent damsel just looking for a connection. Please. In fact, what you described is basically how you would ironically treat a man, but for money instead of sex.
If in 15 years of searching, high and low, in and out, you've found not a single candidate to match your desires, it seems to me like you are another female with retarded standards and playing it off like you'd accept an average hard working joe.
Literally none of the women I've ever spoken to or gotten to know has ever demonstrated this supposed desire for a connection you're memeing about. It's always been about money, looks, status, and general hypergamy. Some of you are even greedy enough to demand polyamory and God forbid anyone expect you to be a mother or a responsible adult.
No. Don't even.
I'm not reading all that.
But the new Dune sucked.
David Lynch's was better.
I've found a lot of them that match my desires, they just all leave after they've had their fun and pumped me up telling me about how great I am and how happy they are with me. Men either don't know wtf they want or they're totally fine lying through their teeth to keep a woman having sex with them for a couple of weeks. It gets to the point where I can't even be excited about meeting a man I like anymore, because I know he'll just pretend to care about me and then leave once his dick gets bored
>and you guys are lucky that you at least have control and can have a relationship if you want one.
There, I'll save you reading the whole thing. Stop replying to this obvious bait.
>Found a lot of men that match my desires
>Gets pump and dumped
Who can what kind of man she's after robots?
>basically impossible to find a guy who I'm attracted to who is actually willing to commit
But you could definitely find someone willing to commit, right? You'd just think they're too ugly. See, that's the difference between you a me. I couldn't get anyone at all. You're just picky, that's it.
im not the type person to do this and am generally empathetic. if in 15 years of dating the men you've managed to attract and have a relationship have not work (even the ones that are brief), it's you and not them.
>be woman
>have many suitors
>pick the asshole
>he's an asshole
>hate all men
many such cases!
women can get men easly, they have to put effort into keeping one.
Men have to put effort both to get a woman, and to keep her from fucking other dudes behind his back
Sounds to me like, through your own fault or not, you're one of those women who becomes someone else once you've been dating for more than a couple weeks. If what you're saying is true, there's a reason everyone leaves after a month.
Tl;dr, curse of only being attracted to the top 20% of men.
So you would rather be invisible and ignored by the whole world and get never get hit on at all?
Without, of course, the opportunity to pick whoever please you enough when things get too lonely.
No you wouldnt.
>. I've never had a man tell me he loves me in my entire life (besides random facebook requests from literal swamp creatures).
Not our fault you can't do anything right. Most men here are looking for a wife. If you'd bothered to talk to us you'd see most are above average in appearance because so many fell for the lookism meme.
You exclusively want to be used for sex and then get kicked out, which is why you ignore the far more common man that just wants to bag a wife, put a few babies in her, and live happily ever after.
If you can't keep a man around for more than a month and you've honestly tried multiple times then it's clear this is a you problem. Stop sabotaging relationships and maybe you'll finally get somewhere.
>after a couple of weeks like every other dude
"after a couple of weeks" you not only drop your armor, you also get a feel for what this person could be like on the long term. sure you seemed like the same person as you were on your first date?
She's talking to randos online and then they meet to fuck. There are no first dates. One day the poor guy is hungry after a few rounds of fucking and suggests getting a sandwich and coffee from the place up the street. Once, there op uses her mouth as something other than a cock sleeve and the guy has an oh shit moment and ducks out before any harm comes.