I think im falling for my regular escort. So ive been seeing this escort fairly regularly, maybe once or twice a month, for about a year now. About 2 months ago she stopped timing our sessions and we would go over the usual 2 hour session by 2 to 3 hours. there were a few times where she even stayed the night and didnt charge me extra. i dont really know why shes doing all this extra stuff for me since its not like im her only client but it has started giving me delusional fantasies about us potentially dating and being exclusive. i know this sounds fucking pathetic and im trying to block off these thoughts but i just cant help it sometimes because our "connection" during these sessions seem so genuine. when she plays with my hair while we're cuddling makes me so upset that this is not real and that i will never experience affection from a woman without having to pay for it. also we have also gone out to dinner, coffee, hiking, fun couple shit without her asking me for payment so i dont really know what to think about this whole situation. am i just fucking retarded and delusional or can a relationship actually come out of this, granted she stops seeing other clients.
I think im falling for my regular escort. So ive been seeing this escort fairly regularly, maybe once or twice a month...
Kek no she's just with your your money
>my regular escort
user its beyond over
businesses offer discounts for regular customers to keep them buying, you are reading into business transactions
but then why is she doing all that extra shit and going out on "dates" for free or extending our sessions by 2 to 3 hours for free? her rates are 600 for 2 hours so shes actually losing money by doing these extras
you're a retarded nigger and her pussy has been pounded by 1000 different dicks. ask her if you can stop paying for her services/presence altogether and see how she reacts. humble yourself
>am i just fucking retarded and delusional
This seems highly likely.
She knows you're lonely so she's ensuring her continued payments.
Just talk to her about it dude. Worst case scenario she just says no and you either go back to what you have been doing or stop seeing her if you feel too awkward about it.
>She knows you're lonely so she's ensuring her continued payments.
that is probably the most likely reason. i need to find a new hooker before i start getting more attached
The anons are right about her just wanting to keep you as a long term customer. Also, it just seems like she's comfortable around you. You can go on dates without ever making it into a relationship. She just wanted a good time, and got it from those activities you mentioned, but those do not define a relationship at all. You got the superficial stuff, but the intimate stuff are still off limits.
I knew some pretty rough street whores back in the day and one said to me most of the girls out here are just looking for bf. I became her bf in a way, well she thought of me that way. I thought of her as a prostitute I didn't have to pay.
I would be willing to bet anything that 99% of escorts are lonely as fuck. Honestly you have nothing to lose OP.
they are probably never as lonely as the johns.
Its a different feeling, there's a kind of ambient trauma going on all the time. Whores get raped, they have to be fucked by disgusting guys. No wonder they're on drugs. They're usually mega bitches and attract hostility
You're an easy client. You don't mistreat her, she runs no risk to her safety being with you, and you pay.
>I think im falling for my regular escort.
Stop it.
>i dont really know why shes doing all this extra stuff for me since its not like im her only client
You're a very good paying customer and if there is no other one up for the night, she might as well just stay with somebody she kinda trusts.
>gone out to dinner, coffee, hiking, fun couple shit without her asking me for payment
But you still paid for (most) of it, right?
>can a relationship actually come out of this, granted she stops seeing other clients.
In theory, yes.
In practice, hardly believable.
You know, you can be friends with a prostitute, but you can't fuck her and be friends. That's just not how humans work, it'd be too fucking difficult.
Maybe start to ask her if you wants to do it unprotected?
It's like Mc Donald's giving you points based on loyalty.
You are thinking too much. Instead, live, laugh, love.
i would never bareback fuck an escort unless she just got an std test and stopped seeing other clients altogether
>you can be friends with a prostitute
i guess that could work but i would still want to fuck her.
>But you still paid for (most) of it, right?
yea but its not like those are particularly expensive dates. all were under 200 inclduing drinks.
>You are thinking too much.
im trying not to but its hard since ive never had female attention before, especially not the kind that she's (at least pretending) to give me.
It's because you're a constant flow of cash. Plus she doesn't have to deal with niggas that abuse her or don't giver her money. You're a net positive, even it means losing some money.
>yea but its not like those are particularly expensive dates. all were under 200 inclduing drinks.
I have a pretty good paycheck, but unless you live in Tokyo or some other super expensive place, 200 USD or 200 Euro is MOST DEFINITELY a quite expensive date.
A cheap date is like
>also we have also gone out to dinner, coffee, hiking, fun couple shit without her asking me for payment so i dont really know what to think about this whole situation. am i just fucking retarded and delusional or can a relationship actually come out of this
Sounds like you're already in a relationship, you just aren't acknowledging it.
>granted she stops seeing other clients.
Not going to happen. She won't change just for you. If you don't believe me, try escalating it further and see how she takes it. Do more couple-y stuff together. Buy her flowers. Be a boyfriend. Eventually she'll take it to a level of intimacy where you won't be comfortable continuing as long as she's fucking other men for money. You'll ask her to stop, she'll say no, and that will be the end of it.