Do men actually value virginity as much as they say?

do men actually value virginity as much as they say?

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Can't speak for all men but I certainly do. It's happened a few times where I really like a girl who I'm talking to and then I find out she isn't a virgin and my interest in her shrivels up and dies.

Maybe some do. Im fine if she had less than 3 partners. I can understand that nowadays almost everyone is a whore/manwhore but I dont want anyone who had 3 or more people at age 18-20. That just means for me that she wont take our relationship seriously and will be trouble for me

It bumps you up 3 points out of 10 to me
4/10 virgin =7/10 slut stacy

I sure don't. But I'm Scandinavian. We have never really put much faith in traditional values here.
Girls are expected to have a career and not be dependent on males for anything ect. I love it. Fuck culture

I don't think the average man values virginity all that much. They just don't want someone with a high bodycount

Yes, I met a girl here who I liked a lot, learned she had done stuff with another guy before and my interest in her just evaporated instantly. I didn't even want to care about it, but I just did a lot.

I don't think so, honestly me and most of my friends prefer if they aren't a virgin since virgins are inexperienced and bad at sex.

Most don't, but most men don't want to commit to you either. If you choose modern dating standards then you should expect modern dating returns.

very interesting.. what do u think is the reason?

Probably insecurities about their own masculinity

>what do u think is the reason?
I've thought about it a bit and my reasoning boils down to mostly the following:
>I'm a virgin and want to be with someone who's the same. [insert "Be their first and only" thing here]
>It grosses me out, in a sort of moral way. I dislike the idea of casual relationships/the more modern standard of date, fuck, move on as if dating is just about sex
and more of a result of those girls in particular
>They treat sex and romance so poorly. Sex is just an activity to do, it isn't something deeply romantic and loving to them. They just seem to do it to feel good and that's it.

>very interesting.. what do u think is the reason?
It just feels gross to me, like they see relationships and sex very casually. I want a deep, romantic relationship and connection. Someone who just throws sex around casually is on a completely different wavelength than me, which is not good for what I want.

Men who want a wife do because it binds you to them. Men who want a fuck sleeve dont because it makes you "bad at sex."

Well maybe they should stop ruining virgins for the rest of us and stick to sluts.

kinda cute desu, but yeah i agree

Personally, I just want someone who's similar to my experience. I wouldn't mind someone who's not a virgin if I'm also not a virgin. But the ground rule is that I value emotional intimacy. I would never date someone that lacks self-control and goes for superficial pleasure.

I want a wife. Obviously virginity is a huge bonus here as it is the only thing that will get a woman from gf to wife with me.
I think the bigger thing is how gross nonvirgins are. It's like a less visible version of tattoos. Doesn't matter how cool a woman is, once you discover she has tattoos or is a slut(one or more sexual partners) you quickly lose interest. Might still try to get a blowjob out of it but she's not really a person anymore.

Yeah it's one of my only hard line dealbreakers.

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If I'm going to commit myself to someone I want them to commit to me too. If she had sex with someone else it shows she didn't commit to them and so why would I think she would commit to me?

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Foid psyop

literally nobody but Any Forums and Any Forums care anymore so when we're talking about 'men' that's all who really matter
normalniggers don't give a shit at all they just want some pussy and don't care about anything
it's less about the actual virginity and more about wanting a long term relationship with someone who has had lots of partners and is exclusively focused on short term relationships
virginity and pair bonding are real concepts, but it doesn't mean a non-virgin can't be a good person and a fulfilling relationship partner
but statistically
if you're looking for a long-term relationship you're better off with a virgin than a nonvirgin

incels and weirdo religious creeps do, because theyre incredibly insecure and indoctrinated
so no, men don't. boys, however...

Tits or git.

I don't really care about it much, I care more about whether you've whored around and had a bunch of casual sex. If your past sexual partners have been romantic partners then I don't really see an issue