theres no such thing as an extrovert and an introvert, there is just normal people and people who cant get bitches
holy shit just socialize you motherfuckers, is it that hard? we human beings are social beings, quit masturbating and staring at your PC all day, start making friends and go outside, socialize! online friends dont count
Who the fuck do you think you are to say all these insults to me? Fuck you. I want to fight you right now for you being so fucking rude and hurtful.
dude just go outside, socialize, make some friends,
being lonely is a choice, not a fate/destiny
>there is just normal people and people who cant get bitches
I've seen a ton of extroverted redditors though
I'm not attractive and people don't react to me well when they see me in public. Nothing I can do about it, been trying to polish myself for years. I've tried everything. I have no life at this point.
It's almost funny how devoid of empathy OP is
>Be around people
>Feel self-consciious and embarrassed
>Can't think of anything to say, feel trapped inside my own head
How is the above a choice
But we're not normal, that's the problem
being ugly doesnt stop you to get new friends, true friends are people who judge you by your character, not your physical appereance
Introverted people are not hikikomori. I'm introverted and socialize with people daily (work in customer service), we just need time to re-charge afterwards and prefer being alone before returning back.
Extroverts on the other hand go mental if they don't get constant attention 24/7.
>Human beings are social creatures
No, some humans are primarily contemplative creatures, secondarily social, and even when they are social, it varies according to personality. Stop repeating this phrase, and actually think about what you're saying. I don't need to be surrounded by other people whom I don't even like 24/7. Fuck you for assuming things about me. Fuck you for gaslighting us. Fuck off.
hey, being online is alright, whats not normal is if you spend 24/7 socializing with strangers on the internet, and watching porn while having no real friends in real life
I am older now and have no life. And people talk about judging by character but people in public judge each other, and me, by energy, looks, their own preconceived ideas and impressions, and so forth. Everyone does that.
Maybe they get bad feelings about me but I get bad feelings about people in public, and an outing can be exhausting, travelling long distances and having to survive without attracting the ire of other humans.
I'm socially anxious and socially retarded
Even if I weren't, the only people I can relate to are Any Forums weirdos who are impossible to find IRL
We dont have the mental capacity to do that. Why dont you scream at cripples to stop being lazy and get up off their damn chair?
>who are impossible to find IRL
yeah because those people never go outside
This, I can't even make small talk with customers at work
All the more reason for me not to bother
Once I tried going to a vidya meetup and it was mostly quirky Redditors plus one or two smelly gigaspergs
A few years after that I moved with my parents to the middle of nowhere, now I'm surrounded by old people and beer-chuggin' four-wheelin' buck-shootin' country music-blastin' good ol' boys
I get a gut feeling, as well as a logical assessment, that not bothering is the only true solution. You may be surprised at how many people I've talked to online and offline who advocate that approach to life and the people offline who have said that to me are not the stereotypical Any Forums autists. Some of them are professionals with families.
At what point do you realize how impossible and full of bullshit life is and just drop it all? That's up to you to decide but it's a legitimate option.
You're completely void of healthy social interaction. If you aren't able to see that this is what makes these situations exhausting, it's over. You will never recover. One of these days you will look back and want to take a ball-peen hammer to your skull for being a fucking faggot towards yourself.
>people in public judge each other
>by energy
>looks
>preconceived ideas
>impressions
Who cares? I don't give a flying fuck what some faggot on the street thinks of me. If they aren't paying me money why the fuck should I ever take what they have to say in consideration? Unless I'm having a conversation and they're giving me constructive criticism that would help me, they can get bent.
>Everyone does that.
This is projection.
>create imaginary scenario about people getting a bad feeling about you
>get upset and overwhelmed
Once again, unless you can just prevent yourself from doing this, it's over. Good luck man.
Not him but I can't deal with embarrassment or rejection, and I care deeply about what anyone thinks of me even if I'll never see them again
In social situations I almost always feel either inadequate or unwanted
I didn't expect to come back here and see such a sperging out post. And no it's not projection, everyone judges each other in some way. We're all humans. You can't deny it. No denial to be had here. I have been in many bad situations with people before and you are not allowed to just brush it all off like that, you son of a bitch.
You seem to have the iq of a tapeworm, so I don't why I'm bothering to reply to this, but here goes: don't you think if everyone could just "be social" they would? Some people (like myself) just have this weird "block" in their thoughts that prevents them from coming up with anything to say in social situations. When I'm on here, anonymously, I can come up with one witty quip right after the other, but IRL when I'm around other people I can't think of a single goddamn thing to say. It's fucking bizarre. So I just stay quiet, and then when I'm by myself again I replay everything that was said and come up with a million brilliant jokes I didn't make at the time. Being around other people is just hell, and no matter how many times I "force" myself to do it, it never gets better. It's like a fucking curse.
Introvert and Extrovert are simply different ways people get energy. If you get more energy by being around people, you are by definition an extrovert. If you lose energy, then you are an introvert. Both can be lonely, which is where the humans are social beings thing comes in.
I unironically think I might be an extrovert because I almost always feel more energized after interacting with others, but experience too much shame, fear and anxiety to do it consistently. Those within themselves are not directly related to introversion but being introverted or too indoorsy for too long could cause it.