i've failed at almost literally every personal goal i've set, i can't do basic things like cook and clean for myself. i started and stopped a gym habit left and right. this year's resolutions are the same as the last, which are the same as the last, and so on and so on. the story of my life are repeating the same goals and starting over and giving up
the only thing i succeeded in was getting lucky and getting a job that pays over six figures, but since that was mostly due to things out of my control i don't really consider that an achievement. it just happened, while all the things i wanted to make happen, i failed at
Not telling yout to "self improoooooooove" but you could learn to cook and clean at the bare minimum. Cooking and baking are great skills to have socially. Genuinly the best feeling in the world is have somebody eating your cooking and being visually impressed with the quality of it.
Owen Hill
feels like for every right thing i do i make 10 mistakes
i can cook very basic stuff which can taste good enough it's just that after work i feel too tired to cook for myself. is this how normies feel?
Hudson Wright
>it's just that after work i feel too tired to cook for myself. is this how normies feel? Yes I understand. I am NEET so I have all day to perfect, and practice my technique. If I'm hungry will usually make something super easy, like fettacine alfredo, or porrage, or idk (that's what i ate today) because fuck cooking if you're hungery.
You sound like you're describing what's called executive dysfunction OP. Autistic people can have difficulties with it
Tyler Evans
when i was neet i didn't do anything at all. i just sat there. entire weeks of my life are forgotten
i know what i want to do i just don't do it
Ethan Anderson
>when i was neet i didn't do anything at all. i just sat there. entire weeks of my life are forgotten You really did nothing? Why? After I became NEET it's like I've become a student of life, free to indulge in anything that sparks my intrest. I've never been more self-refelective and happy. When I have to work again, my soul will leave.
Tyler Jones
>You really did nothing? yeah. i did nothing. i tried to start a few projects, and gave up on all of them i played a lot of vidya but i didn't improve at any of them i tried working out and cooking, and i didn't do any of that i just...don't do anything. i barely even put effort into working
Evan Moore
I mean I can't diagnose you over Any Forums, but maybe you have ADHD. Talk to a professional about it.
Lincoln Morales
>ADHD might be true. i've been on medication for it but i would still just aimlessly do nothing or hyperfocus on something useless
Alexander Hernandez
Holy shit I need a 100k+ job where I do nothing. What do you do for a living?
Asher Richardson
software development but you probably were expecting that answer i don't do nothing at my job, unfortunately i do have to work and put effort into it. just a different. much less enjoyable way of wasting time compared to doing nothing at home
Ian Cooper
Not sure why this is surprising. At this point I have years-long blank periods.
Christian Kelly
>feels like for every right thing i do i make 10 mistakes
Try to make it for every 2 right things
Luis Wood
Dealing with ADHD isn't just medication. Look into ADHD productivity tools and stuff like that.
Kevin Lee
Damn, this hits. Also a software developer and I'm barely hanging onto that shit. I don't do anything outside of work, either.
Mason Carter
somehow i have blank periods but also dwell on the past
every time i try to better myself i revert. i'm old enough that it's just pathetic
i've been trying i just keep giving up on it.
same. we just are products of good times
Ryder Peterson
I'd love to quit this shitty industry but I know there's nothing better waiting for me at the other end of that decision.
John Campbell
There's not a lot we can do for you either you try again or give up The choice is yours
we all do, but i think we get sucked in because we're NPCs who literally have nothing else to do. maybe i'll do something with this money but right now i just work for no reason at all. it's not like working really makes me feel good anyways, all the work is completely useless, just happens to pay a lot
every time i try again it's worse though because i get older. after a certain point it just feels kinda useless. after a certain age your life kind of just means nothing anymore
David Brown
try doing something you like first of all don't overload yourself with goals perhaps photography might be something you can enjoy? or cars? or playing an instrument? i sure know those three are what i like to do in my free time besides sitting at my computer or hanging out
