I've landed a perfect virgin GF with fuck ton of green flags, attractive, great personality, no social media, virgin, similiar hobbies, both INFP. There's one problem tho, we're soon going to have sex for our first time and we're making out for a very long period of time, i barely get erection if any at all. I've been using porn since about 14, i'm 25 now, when we first started dating i've deleted everything porn related, all downloaded stuff, all pictures, videos, bookmarks, everything toxic in my life that could damage my relationship.
Still i've had bad comebacks, sometimes i'll go a week without, then come back from a very long make out session so blue balled with pent up energy and it's all gone to shit again for a day or two. I'm really scared of my performance anxiety and just overall ED from dopamine. Luckily, i've always been vanilla guy, and never enjoyed really degenerate shit, so there's that. How long do i recover? any tips? Quick background on my health, i'm very tall, lanky with low/normal bmi so no obesity problem, no health problems or anything, i guess it's all just in my brain. I'm not scared of my member size, it's thick and long when i get fully erect, i just can't get it up fully anymore or hold it
funny part is that you being anxious about your dick not working is partly what's causing the problem assuming your problem isn't entirely physical, in which case all you can do is go to the doctor or get viagra, you just need to get into the right mindset figure out what exactly really gets you going, which part of your gf is really hot or what would you like to do to her, or don't think at all and let the reproductive instinct do its thing
Lucas Jones
I suffered from ED after I went through a 3 year long dry spell. 90% of the time for young men, it's psychosocial. Take things slow, get to know what pleases your partner and what you like. Also you have to "get outside of your head" during sex. Considering that you post here, you're probably a bit of a sperg who has high baseline anxiety and overthinks things. You must stop this. I've found that when I turn my brain off during sex and behave like a feral animal, I can maintain erections even after cumming 4 times in a row. Calm down and correct your mind.
Thanks! good advice We're both kind of spergs, i've met her during severe depression and she helped me out to get out of it. I was taking Lyrica/Pregabalin and it helped to relax immensively, cause i've always felt over sensitive. I've ran out recently, not sure if i should get a new prescr
Cameron Morales
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Sebastian Rodriguez
Just fucking take viagra. How's that so difficult to figure out that you felt compelled to write this verbal diarrhea? Ffs.
Evan Powell
>I've landed a perfect virgin GF with fuck ton of green flags, attractive, great personality, no social media, virgin, similiar hobbies, both INFP. first of all , how ? actually >I've landed a GF yeah , HOW
Oliver Flores
Yeah, i don't know. I've lost my best friend online of 10 years to suicide, i was suicidal and very depressed.
Then through my furry friend, i've met her (she's not furry), and we clicked very quick, she lives very close to me (40 km), we're both INFP and our dates, chemistry is great. I don't believe in god, but sometimes i really feel like this was a parting friend from my best friend, like shut the fuck up have fun in your life. Also it helps im 194 cm...
Jace Collins
>Mentally ill furries are getting high-tier gfs in 2022 All is not well in the universe. The balance has been disrupted. The natural order is falling apart.
huh RNG then I guess , welp im happy for you man. as for the ED situation , A- Id avoid all porn and I mean ALL. avoid seeing chicks in social media, games , media , youtube etc. also avoid touching your dick , I sometimes find myself touching my dick a bit through my pants just to stimulate an erection and that shit will exhaust your penis when you actually need it to work. B- take vitamin and co factor supplements , especially zinc. C- start doing or incorporating lower body workouts in your routine if you already have one. D- just ease off , enjoy the moment when you're with her and dont be scared of that shit. also dont use a fucking condom.
hope it helps
Aaron Morris
You got it wrong, im not a furry, my friend is.
Ethan Walker
that just sounds like your nervous lol, when i fucked my first gf i couldnt cum for like the first 3 times we fucked but then when i came i fucked her 4 times that day (and came each time)
so yeah you wont recover until youve had your embarassing linb dick in her hands and she tells you its okay, you relax and then you can fuck her of course you should tell you that your nervous, imagine trying to sleep with your lover and thinking they dont think your pretty because they dont get a boner lol
Connor Phillips
only true part in this post is the porn addiction the rest is made up. maybe the fact that he can't get it up is also true.
bout a month of no porn and minimal jacking off, the weird thing is that it gets worse before it gets better. you can also acquire some tadalafil pretty ezpz which will make your shit work for a few days
Dylan Foster
It's a terrible cycle. A feedback loop. You can try a few things. One I recommend is golden milk. It's got turmeric, ginger, ashwaganda, and cinnamon. This helps with inflammation and blood flow and I've found a strong correlation.
The big thing is getting comfortable with the anxiety. This is easier with a partner who you can trust and go through difficulties with. You can also try and process the traumatic moments where you couldn't stay hard. Meditation, therapy, visualization.
If you don't have a loving partner who can go through this with you, you may consider drugs. All day chemist is pretty reliable for indian cialis. This is kicking the can down the road in many ways, but omg the ease of use. The confidence and lack of fear is amazing for casual encounters
Easton Nelson
>All day chemist is pretty reliable for indian cialis. just ask your doc, they really don't give a fuck and its cheaper + legal
Blake Garcia
This is old photo, she gets more and more bruises every meeting lmao, i can show some other pics from our dates. Our best ones were in a forest at night from 23 to 7 am all alone, doing stupid autistic shit we've always wanted in our lives, making out for half of the time, latest forest date was during a full moon, and our first kiss was star gazing when i've learnt how to find north star and the cart for the first time
>i've learnt how to find north star and the cart for the first time underage b& someone get this guy
Angel Anderson
i was the same way when i first had sex with my ex, i was all ready and then when it finally came down to it i just couldn't get hard. dont worry about it, its very normal and its just because you're anxious, after a couple times you'll start to relax and then it won't bother you anymore
all these retards suggesting workouts or diets are stupid, its literally just a matter of not being nervous, which you are going to be on your first few times
Thomas Morgan
it's one of those things man where the more you do it the better at it you become and the more confident you will be the next time.
Just do it, literally and stop being a pussy. That's how you get over ED.
