>"why don't you like me?"
>because i'm brainwashed to only be attracted to certain genes and absolutely nothing you do will ever make me like you.
There was that that hard? Is all this fake advice about "personality", "confidence", and "self improvement" even necessary? Why can't we as a society just be more honest and transparent?
because truth hurts and nobody wants to hear it
I would like to hear it. I could have stopped wasting my time long ago and wouldn't have had to miss out my enjoying my twenties, in pursuit of bullshit.
Because genetic determinism is against all other vlaues pur society has and changing it would mean admitting that we are massive hypocrites.
Confidence does matter tho. Looks just matter more. You see it too onesided as well.
Because you are autistic and don't understand what they mean.
"Personality", "confidence" and "self improvement" are absolutely important factors that people consider when choosing a partner, but that is *after* you pass a minimum attraction threshold. No one wants to be with a partner they are not attracted to, not even you, and it's incredibly entitled to ask that of anyone. No one wants to kiss, hug, have sex with or otherwise be intimate with someone they find physically repulsive.
Such is life.
well just because you (one person) wants to hear doesn't mean that everybody else will magically start telling you the truth. sugarcoating is the basis of being polite.
Just value male friendships and treat women like disposable holes (they literally like it lmfao).
But that's hard since the average guy is constantly told that gender brain differences aren't huge.
>"Personality", "confidence" and "self improvement" are absolutely important factors that people consider when choosing a partner
Nah looks (mainly face) are most of it. You are still coping.
Just don't show any weaknesses or ever cry in front of a female or she'll leave you.
That's it.
You're the one coping. It's much easier to blame everything on the genetics roulette than to face your own shortcomings.
Unless you are physically attractive, there's no way for you to negate this. Anyone who has been around normies for a decent amount of time will tell you as much.
People don't like you because you have nothing to offer besides the countless shitposts you make on a korean basket weaving forum and '''insightful''' blackpills.
It's the same thing with how guys refuse to admit their porn use is what caused them to be single or flakey. People don't want to look within.
>porn use
Is that such a thing? I always see people seething about porn, but where exactly is the huge problem. I mean i rarely use it, but even when I did it didnt influence me.
The two faces of retardation. Is it impossible for either of you to look at reality for one second without projecting?
>it didn't influence me
You're one of the lucky ones.
So what exactly does it do? Why are people so obsessed with nofap and shit? It seems like the improovercucks focus on this over the lifting cope nowadays
I stopped porn at like 17 cause it seems boring and unrealistic compared to fantasies or memories. Sometimes I'll go and watch some bdsm porn for inspo tho.
At end of the day we're still animals with observable behaviors.
The majority like being treated absolute garbage and ignored by attractive men.
That's literally number the #1 female fetish.
Alright. Keep being an overweight/skelly, porn-watching insufferable whiny bitch with no hobbies, interests or personality traits besides resentment. I'm sure that'll help.
Prove I'm delusional by telling me why someone aught to like you then
Kek. I dont even watch porn anymore. See . But please explain to me why you think that porn is bad?
You literally have no argument except to insult that user.
Sex is a need like food and water and guys turn to porn when it's unavailable at the moment.
I have no idea what you mean. You want me to tell you why I think that people like me? Do you want a comprehensive list or just the top 10?
I want you to tell me why anyone should choose you, should 'like you', over someone who is a totally average well adjusted person.
Well, going by things I have been frequently complimented for in that order
>my height
>my hair and eyes
>being smart/educated
>my style
>my cooking
>my piano playing
>good at my work and academics
>my body (only recently got into shape)
That have been the things other people seem to like most.