Financial Rape >have to take Mon and Tue of work >pay two nights hotel >travel stupid fucking far in my 14 mpg van because they just had to be at THIS ONE place >gift for bride and groom >buy a whole overpriced suit >probably a bunch of other expenses im missing right now Emotional rape >disabled and will never have wedding, so i get to be at their celebration for over 48 hours on end while getting robbed of my very little earnings by the minute >he never bothers to visit or hang with me anymore >in fact since injury he hasnt treated me like a brother at all >get to meet hundreds of people and have them ask me what happened to make me a crippled freak
This whole thing fucking sucks. >hurt durr bitter incel Yeah sure. How the fuck do think i feel? >nice blog Yes r9k is my personal blog.
Should I just fuck off from the whole thing? If one good turn deserves another, then the best course of action would be to stay home not monetarily ruin myself for the next year. I hate this so much.
bruh that's like $1,000 cant u just think of someone other than yourself for once
Alexander Peterson
Just go and try to be happy for your brother. Leave the reception early if you must. You don't need to stay for days.
Owen Barnes
Do you think you can actually maintain a familial relationship with them? I more or less ignore my brothers and one of them lives a few blocks away. If it really will just totally ruin you, just tell them you can't afford it due to some medical excuse and if they give any bite back you have your answer anyway.
Josiah Brown
Sorry user.I never go to weddings because of im poor asf and i dont know how to behave. I dont even know how to dance
Jacob Nguyen
>leave early and get home late instead of staying out a hotel >not your brother's fault you have a shitty car >you don't have to buy a gift >you can get some cheap clothes from a thrift store, not his fault you dont have clothes >try being happy for your brother instead of thinking about yourself on his day and it'll probably make you less miserable >nobody thinks you're a crippled freak you think that you're projecting it onto other people making yourself miserable
there, fixed everything you're welcome
Carter Reed
okay user... but what happened to make you a crippled freak?
Jonathan Nguyen
I earn 11/hr and no one thinks about me, not that they should anyways. Im still with my parents, im 19. I really dont know how that would end. Im so close to moving out but this, this would certainly be a setback. Maybe I can compromise this way. Theres no way I'm missing two days work I cant afford that shit right now.
Gavin Butler
Don't go retard. Just say you got real sick or smthn.
Joshua Reed
Try not to cut family ties if you can, obviously. However be as cheap and thrifty about this as you can. If your brother is making a token effort at your relationship, make a token effort at his wedding.
Gabriel Cruz
That may work.
True, but doesnt change the fact so dont say "fixed".
Really?
Again, saying not his fault doesnt mean "fixed." Anyways I have to match the specific color everyone else is getting. You know how many types of black there are?
I can certainly try my best.
Women wont give me the time of day anymore. Its fucked and people have to bring my condition up in the most awkward ways in every conversation i have. Its all anyone sees. I dont expect anyone to get it though so i dont hold grudges about that.
Dylan James
But hes not, i previously stated he doesnt give a fuck about me ever since I was injured.
Kayden Watson
>Should I just fuck off from the whole thing? i sure know i would, thats for sure. im not going through that much suffering to celebrate my cuckold brothers getting married to some used up roastie whore. i'd just send him meme's of roasties and save his ecstatic smug face on his wedding so i can juxtapose it with divorce statistics, roastie pussies and his face when he will get divorced or cheated on
i might even take a picture of me dabbing just for him. but im not going to no wedding, as i dont attend executions
user I'm going to keep it real with you chief. You sound like your own worst enemy and the source of your own unhappiness, by trying to manufacture problems and working yourself into a tizzy making molehills into mountains. Stop using your free time to construct lists of problems and what will go wrong and use that same energy to construct lists of solutions and what might go right instead of beating yourself up over things. Or like that Vantag song goes don't count what you don't have, count what you have now. youtube.com/watch?v=SvmX053bQZ0
Aurrggghhhh i know you're right. Ok im done replying itt ill be weighing options and see how this can best be managed. Thanks user.
Samuel Adams
Just don't go, never do shit you don't want to, nobody can force you to go, don't be a bitch Stay safe
Luis Taylor
Wtf even is your disability that you think you will never get some chick to like you and you think people think of you as a freak?
Alexander Cook
Your brother thought about you enough to invite you.
Nicholas King
Honestly fuck weddings. Why is it socially acceptable for any random person to just suddenly drop an unwanted invitation on you out of nowhere that forces you to give up multiple days of your life and hundreds if not thousands of dollars of your own money just to go kiss THEIR asses at THEIR wedding, and you're somehow the asshole if you refuse?
Jaxon Brooks
>not monetarily ruin myself for the next year.
2 days off work is enough to ruin you for an entire year?
Shut the fuck up OP lmao
Either go to your brothers wedding and act like a miserable cunt because you aren't the center of attention or dont and tell them you cant afford it because you must earn like 3 dollars a day or something
