Wanna know how different it is for a Chad?
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While you wonder where and when to approach, how to talk, keep your posture, watch hundreds of hours of socializing tutorials on youtube, think of the best lines, buy super expensive clothes and perfumes...
...Chad comes up to two chicks, tells them to give him their number and that he will be their daddy and they gladly give him their numbers and agree to a thruple.
The inequality of a life difference between a Chad and an incel is higher than the difference between the richest and poorest in Brazil.
unironically why is wealth disparity discussed so much but social disparity discussed so little? i would much, much rather be a poor chad than a rich ugly fuck who girls are disgusted by.
So, what are you gonna do about it? Yeah, reality is unequal. Too bad you didnt have a dad to tell you when you were twelve.
Because when I was twelve there wasn't so many whores there yet and when my dad was a young adult ANY man who wanted a woman and wasn't an asshole would get something.
Must have been long ago mr boomer.
In any case, beyond trivialities, whats your point? Everyone knows how it is, even most normies.
It's "nice" to see it in action sometimes.
Thats always intrigued me. Do incels get off on this? Why spend so much time obessing on the one thing that is your weakness? Why not cut your losses, as hard as it may be?
IDK, why do homeless people obsess about having a house?
Or children in palestine thinking about war and safety?
Or hungry people with no food, thinking about how others have it.
Maybe because they are basic human needs?
Nothing! He ain't gonna do jack shit! He just wants to engage in this mental masochism "oh, woe is me, I never had a chance, it never even begun!", get his dose of dopamine and move on.
>Do incels get off on this?
Mentally, yeah. Feeling pity for yourself can be pleasant, you know?
But opposed to all the others there is precedence of people still having fulfilling lives without it. And since you dont get it anyway, why not try going through it and making your peace? Does seething about it here help you?
>Feeling pity for yourself can be pleasant, you know?
No, I dont know if Im narciccistic or autistic, but I dont know that feeling. But it seems that many incels do exactly that.
Blackpill: even if you get yourself a gf just remember that chad can just steal it if he deems it necessary. You will never be trully happy because your gf will always be temporary. Everything you share with her will vanish the instant chad gives her attention. And by chad I mean tall handsome man, he can be a total jerk asshole loser with no manners, as long as he looks handsome the girl will instantly memory hole you from her mind and get fucked by chad. You are born here to suffer. You have no future. It's literally over.
>But opposed to all the others there is precedence of people still having fulfilling lives without it.
>"EVERYONE IS THE SAME"
Thats the exact difference. Everyone dies from starvation. Not everyone is necessarily from sexlessness.
Do you have any other option? What else are you gonna do? Wallow in some more self pity?
The existential dread of understanding that you will never fit in with the rest of society is what makes this shit so hard to even try and have a life of your own, try and do anything really. Girlfriend and sex aside, just knowing you can't ever fit in because you got something wrong going on inside your brain or that you got fucked up in the head, there is no going back from that. Transitioning from adulthood from childhood with this mentality all but guarantees that the individual will be disabled in life, worse than any kind of drug addiction. Majority of incels I would even say are likely autistic. And the worst thing is people just think its funny, and in many ways it is.
Human suffering has always been funny when you are able to dissociate yourself from it, and that is why it is so easy to cyber bully/harass people and why it is so fun for many normal people to even join in on it. As long as they are perceived to deserve it, there ain't no rest for the wicked, even if they eventually do have a change of heart.
The hardest part that hits is understanding the capacity of evil within each and every individual, the selective cruelty that everyone carries and exacts on others. Like wishing someone would get cancer and die when they offend you in a "joking" way. People say some really messed up shit when they get emotional or whatever, normal people. And then understanding that everyone is fake, and really can do whatever they please to others of no consequence.
>youtube video
do you faggots really think this isn't staged?
Now thats a lot there. I'm not saying its easy, Id imagine its extremely hard and debilitating, but trying to confront it is probably still your best choice, even if it looks hard or impossible. And I'd suggest to start getting off social media. I'm probably far above you in the social ratrace and I still get jelly when I browse celebrity insta. You dont have to spend your time remindong yourself of it.
Id say that it acuually hinges on looks a lot more than even you give it credit. A lot of incels are just average normie men that didnt make the cut in todays society. On the other hamd people like me can kinda fit in (or at least pretend to) . I'm extremely antisocial and introverted, dunno if actually autistic or psychopathy, never got a neurological diagnosis and my shrinks couldnt agree on smth.
Still "high functional", few problems with career or with girls. On the other hand, many normies I know are incel, while being completely neurotypical.
As for evil, what you say is true, I just think that calling it evil is asinine. The world is cruel, people will always hunger dor power, status and domination and justify literally anything to get there. Another case of "just gotta deal with it".
I have been making leaps and bounds at confronting my issues. Everywhere I go, everyone can immediately see it, sense it. I tried for years to fit in and always got fucked with or made fun of anywhere I went. In the past I was always a spineless coward mostly, but even as of recent when I have become more bold to stand up for myself people have been giving me an even harder time in my life. I keep trying, and people just keep hating me. I don't even try to talk to anyone anymore and people still hate me for just trying to show up and do a job or whatever. Just because they can see I am fucked up, and everyone thinks that it is funny.
I have had people growing up that never ever really liked me, they manipulated me and pretended to just be my friend while never actually ever being there for me because I was a clown, because I was some sick form of entertainment to them. And I fell for that shit for nearly a decade, for years after high school ended. There is no way for me to know if people are being serious or fake with me, because I have a lot of mental issues and am seriously fucked up over what so many people did to me over my life. There is no trust to be had, because I have always been treated like a dog, an animal.
The only people who have ever shown me kindness just for the sake of it are old people, primarily old women like grandmas and stuff but also old grandpas too. I have never been shown that from really anyone else, always looks of judgement and like there is something wrong with me. I take care of myself, I'm clean, and a lot of the time people don't even want to look me in the eyes unless they need to. I try for so many years but in the end, everyone tells me with their face, their affect, and their expressions and words that "you are still sick, and you will always be sick". and I can see the demon in their soul smiling at my suffering, because this is just what I have been predetermined to face my entire life. Just suffer, always.
i really enjoy cooming
>othing! He ain't gonna do jack shit! He just wants to engage in this mental masochism
And what should we do? Try so hard?
>Not everyone is necessarily from sexlessness.
People die from sudoku