I love femdom.
Not just the sexual stuff, but as an underlying relationship dynamic. I want to be my GF's servant. I want to learn how to give quality massages just for her. I wanna learn how to cook her favorite foods. I wanna learn how to serve her and make her home life so enjoyable and stress-free.
Unfortunately though, I have yet to meet a woman who wants such a thing. That makes me a bit sad, because I have these submissive feelings I want to express for someone.
I love femdom
>Not just the sexual stuff, but as an underlying relationship dynamic
This. I already know I'm a submissive bitch with mommy issues. Just let serve happily. All I want is to genuinely make her happy day-to-day.
Where do you search for these girls? They are rare, yes? search in rare places then, not in common places. Then you find them
The problem is many people use femdom as a way of masking their low self-esteem. You can be submissive and still believe in yourself. In fact, I'd argue that to be a good servant bf requires you to have high confidence. After all, you should be proud to serve a beautiful lady.
I'm not sure what qualifies as a rare place
I want to be hot and be some domme's submissive boytoy
Women want those things its just that you are probably so repulsive (looks) and clingy(as in invasive of personal space) that they despise your presence itself.
I wouldn't know if that's true, because I rarely get opportunities to talk to women.
Why do people on this board like femdom so much?
You'd assume that since they're all losers they'd want to be doms to have an ounce of power on their lives but that never seems to be the case.
Kill yourself newfaggot.
all of you should just suck my cock instead desu
Sorry, I'm not gay and I don't like men.
If I'm going to be giving oral sex, its going to be licking a vagina
If they dont even talk to you, you are probably hideous.
I hate that I like it. I got into it when I was a shy nerdy youth but now I see how gay it is but I cant help but yearn for a dommy mommy gf
your loss, i bet your domme would suck my cock in front of you, no questions asked
I'm the opposite, only the sexual stuff interests me. I would love for a woman to use me as her own personal sex toy, but it'll be a cold day in hell before I let a woman control my life outside the bedroom, especially my finances.
This, i want to treat my gf as my princess, i ;want to carry her around, do all the menial work, focus on her pleasure during sex, get bossed and ordered around etc.
we don't even need to do bdsm. I'll be perfectly happy with just missionary/cowgirl and cunnilingus.
No, as in I don't get to even go where women are hanging around.
I have things about my appearance that I'd like to fix, but they're hardly the main thing holding me back at the moment.
I love femdom in a sexual capacity and always have, I can't even get turned on by vanilla stuff. But a power dynamic in a relationship grosses me out so much. I love pampering my partners but I expect to be pampered back. It makes me feel used and shitty if I give them massages and cook for them but they don't do the same or something equivalent in return.
I can't speak for others but I've been into this ever since I could remember. Even before I knew what sex and bdsm are.
Welcome to the switch life brother.
You get headpats and sweet words! And hugs and kisses!
I could be satisfied with a kiss on the cheek, a compliment and a light squeeze.
Not him but same, man. I remember being 7 years old and lying under the firepole thing at the playground hoping that the girls who were playing on top of it would come down and land on me. At the same age I would fall asleep to fantasies about being bullied and beaten up by a group of imaginary women. I especially always loved the feeling of getting hit in the balls and didn't grasp why everyone talked about it as something bad. I assumed every other guy felt the same way as me and thought it was some weird secret we all shared but didn't discuss. It was only when I was 11-12 that it dawned on me I might be unusual and most people do not enjoy their balls being hit.
I'm not a switch. Even penetrative sex feels too symbolically dominant for me to go through with it. I get limp immediately after putting it into a girl. I've tried viagara lots of times and it lets me have sex but I'm completely turned off the entire time and I don't cum.