What did I do wrong bros? It's been a while and she hasn't responded yet. I don't really care too much...

What did I do wrong bros? It's been a while and she hasn't responded yet. I don't really care too much, I wasn't super invested, but I really need the practice.

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You probably did nothing wrong. You're just 1/1000 matches she's talking to

You didn't do anything wrong. She's just "busy." Whether that's true or not is up for debate, but regardless of that, you did nothing wrong. Just idle from the conversation. I wouldn't say anything else if I were you.

Par for the course. She's either talking to a bunch of guys or just a few but was never intending to meet anyway. Some girls just want validation. Whatever happens, do NOT double text. Lose the girl but keep your dignity.

Alright, thanks.
I don't want to seem desperate.
I always have a hard time setting a date time without it seeming too desperate

I hate that simple planning is seen as desperate today.

No problem. Also, as a heads up, avoid dinner dates. It's too formal. Nobody wants to go to dinner and a movie. That's reserved to committed relationships. Go get coffee or do something together like see a show, grab drinks, coffee, painting class, clay throwing, (something you both enjoy) etc.

Thanks, good advice. I've been too long out of the dating scene.

>here's a pic of the smaller kitty
>would you like to grab some
>are you free the next weekend

I can't tell if these texts are between a man and a woman or two lesbians
there's nothing wrong with what you're saying but it's how you say it. Be assertive.
example : "I love Italian food too, we should get some this weekend"
if shes busy or says no oh well. didn't work. but be confident

I see. I've tried being assertive before, but I feel like it often comes off as aggressive or autistic.

>we should get some
Does this actually work? I hear about it all the time from red pill types. What difference does it make what words you use to plan something with a woman? She's got an answer before you ever bring it up however you choose to do so.

Just just replied, "I think so" bros, I'm moving ahead.
What should I say now?

Changing 3 words in a sentence doesn't make you assertive lol

it's gonna seem really weird at first because you're talking in a different way than you're comfortable with. but keep trying. be unapologetic and straightforward with your intentions. avoid stuff like would you and could you when appropriate

are you texting or are you hanging out in real life?

Texting, we just matched on Bumble and she messaged me.

yes but there needs to be some level of attraction and there's no one simple hack obviously but generally speaking assertively is a good thing when making plans

you'd be surprised what subtle changes in language can do

>Find a restaurant
>Get a solid time
>Put in a reservation to make sure you get it
>Tell her "Okay cool! how about [place] at [time and date]?"
>If she says yes, move forward
>If she says no, cancel reservation and probably should move on since she'll seem flaky

This looks like every conversation I've ever had on online dating. My friends always say it's a shit test. She's just gonna keep being a cunt to see how you react. If you will tolerate her bullshit or not. And I never do. I don't want to waste any time on a woman who is going to purposely make it difficult for me to meet her, but I think they might just all be like that. I don't understand that logic behind it. My friends say they want to make sure you're not a pushover. Well I'm not which is why I don't go along with the shit test. And then I never hear from them again, so you can't win. If you want to forever be making plans and having her constantly making excuses and forcing you to adjust until you burn out and lose interest, go for it. If you persist you're a stalker. If you don't persist, you'll just lose contact. Every fucking time.

Your conversation is too nice, pleasant and safe. You need to be more of a smart ass, cocky and let her know you actually want to fuck her eventually. Does she know you have a dick?

She doesn't like you but is being polite/friendly. When a girl like you it is VERY obvious, they aren't good at hiding and are actively excited about meeting, talking and spending time with you. The difference is unmistakable and you'll know it when it happens to you.

You did nothing wrong, delete her and move on

jumping from talking about a kitten to asking to eat out is a bit desperate looking.