Why is wanting to have a wife and family not a real goal anymore?

It's all about status, my friend.

Because unless god wants it you'll only find whores, and boomer owning 4 houses made it impossible for us to own real estate.
Youn goal should be Heaven user, and He will provide what you truly need.

Yeah sounds fun, get married and then divorced not even 10 years later, lose half your shit and never see your kids again

>High earning woman won't settle for low value, no goal loser
>Women are retarded
Ok

I'm going to get rich but the problem is finding an 18 year old virgin to pop out 5+ kids and stay at home and homeschool them for me when I'm 30. Planning to be rich by 30. Am 20. Virgin and saving myself for that woman. Hoping to settle down somewhere rural, I grew up in the midwest. Maybe something like Montana and raise some animals, buy produce from local farmers. My work should be entirely remote since it's in the financial markets. I've already finished my first bachelor's in computer science, currently working on second major in finance. wagmi

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Prenuptial contract user....

Would you get kicked in the nuts for $1,000,000? The catch is there is a

pre-nup doesn't protect against "child maintenance"

All the good women in your age group will be taken by the time you're 30.
You need to find someone who will work with you, instead of doing all the work yourself.
t. 30 multimillionaire who had the same idea as you

That's why I said I want an 18 year old woman when I'm 30, not a 30 year old woman. I don't want a 20 year old woman now either. I don't want a woman who works, I want one who will raise my kids. I think you have different values in women. The problem is finding a woman who hasn't been tainted by social media and still has those values. That's where I'd had to find one in a small town with a religious community. I was raised Roman Catholic.

You gotta mantain your kids man

child maintenance is code for paying for mum's wine

I'm pretty fucking inept at life skills honestly so I'm not looking to start a family.
I'd settle for a decent paying job and a nice apartment/house to myself. House prices in Bongistan are ludicrous at the moment.

I told my deadbeat dad that I'll never speak to him again until he pays me 100K in back-child-support
Lmao, fucking loser is going to die alone
God I hate that deadbeat

Wish I could do that. I haven't spoken to him in years now anyway and I don't think I'm worth 100k to him

this

>House prices in Bongistan are ludicrous at the moment
then how do paki's manage to move in?

Even feminist women don't want a pathetic effeminate guy if they can help it. Not that they don't deserve one but it's not what they desire

You think the Pakis pay for houses? LMAO our fine guests get houses for free. Also 3 generations live under the same roof

I know a girl that's 18 getting married to a 30 y.o. and it's creepy. She acts like a child and is still in high school. Definitely something wrong with the guy. He expressed interest in her when she was 17 after knowing her for 3 or 4 years

>our fine guests get houses for free
>bongs government is also giving their tax money to fund invaders
I guess we aren't so different after all

Women are only marriageable 18-24
All 18-24 year olds are in hoe phases having hot girl summers not looking to settle down

You don't though.

I'm the opposite of effeminate
I'm tall and muscular and since I live in Japan I'm pretty much hypermasculine compared to most other guys

Living costs have gone up so much, husband and wife have to both work just to sustain themselves.

I have reasons to question God's criteria.

>tall
>japanese
I bet you're 5'6" huh takahashi

>wanting to have a wife and family
it is indeed a "real goal" or whatever but only with a woman that I love. And by love I don't mean okay personality that can be tolerated and is a reliable source for sex like most normalfags do but someone that has thing in common with me and I legit fell love with. That being said i'm turning 25 this year for the likelihood for this to happen is getting lower but ending up alone is a better alternative than living in a lie of unhappy relationship.

>boomer owning 4 houses made it impossible for us to own real estate.
>blaming boomers for corporate america and wealthy investors from overseas and (((financial institutions))) buying up all the land
the only thing to blame boomers for is actually selling their land to these fucking monsters.

I'm 6"2' and white (not an English teacher, I work with computers)
I can probably count on my fingers the number of Japanese I've seen that are my size or larger

>haven't met my soul mate by 25, guess it'll never happen
bro, c'mon now

it never was
wife and family is a normal step in life, not a destination
if home life is a goal for you, consider hoping on HRT bc you're already a woman mentally

>I'm 6"2' and white
how many japs do you fugg on a weekly basis and also do babies cry when they see you?

Do you really think most married couples simply tolerate each other?

>how many japs do you fugg on a weekly basis and also do babies cry when they see you?
I'm not a sexpat and only have sex within a relationship.
While I was here I've slept with two Japanese and two Chinese, and dated maybe 3 or 4 others but it didn't go anywhere.

They don't cry, but basically every Japanese kid I see stares at me like I'm an alien

destroying the family structure is one of the most crucial steps of global goyification.

not him, but yes
my own parents got divorced, my dad divorced twice, and basically any of my friends I've ever known whose parents were still together you could feel an underlying tension. They had good days but it's obvious for most couples it's just became a complacency thing.

This

Did you grow up working class/lower middle class?

do they go near you on the train?

>"*sniff sniff* he forced me to sign it mr judge hes so mean...."
>"okay I will give you half his stuff anyways then"

Considering my size I tend to avoid sitting next to people since my shoulders are about 1.2 to 1.4 times the standard train seat width.
Usually I only sit when there's two seats available
People do sit next to me sometimes though, but not always

You are so off-base about what's valuable in a woman. For hundreds of thousands of years women were valued by their youth/fertility and ability to take care of a home and children. Only in the past 100 or so years have these feminist ideas taken hold, and they've been horrible for everyone involved. Horrible for the young girls who just want to raise children and keep a house and don't want to wage slave, horrible for men who want to find young women to keep a home for them and raise their children, horrible for 40 year old CEO women who realize they're not fulfilled and they missed out on the most fulfilling thing a woman can do—have children. And the result is a bunch of failed marriages, single mothers, and promiscuous women who harvest what they can from men instead of having a traditional household which built everything we enjoy today.

>did you grow up in *70% of countries demographic*
geez, how'd you know?
I'm sure rich people are much happier with each other if that's the point you're going to try and make

Oh also another result is the cat moms.

Are apartments really as small as they seem? They seem outrageously expensive for like, 1 and a half rooms.

Fucking this. Attack the church-family dynamic and keep the population undisciplined.
Things aren't looking good right now.

My grandfather was 16 years older than my grandmother. He raised a large farm family who went on to be live very successful lives.

No matter how you think about it, they enabled it and continue to perpetrate it. They profited well from it, and even if they didn't orchestrate it they were at least blinded by their greed and sacrificed the younger generations.

So what. Young women are way hotter than older women and arent used up and baggage carrying. Why the fuck would you want to wife an older woman

It's not even about what's "hot" it's literally fertility and it's biologically ingrained to be attractive. The younger the better, and that's how it was in the past. Men much older would marry basically a generation younger women.

Depends entirely on where you live.
I live in a very central, very expensive area near Akihabara and I pay approx $1900 USD a month for a small kitchen with attached lounge area + a bedroom and balcony (and ofcourse bathroom and toilet)
It's a very modern apartment however, plus it's gaijin and pet friendly, which adds to the cost even more
It's about 45^2m, so it's small but I've gotten used to it, I don't need much space

If you move further out you can get a similar place for half the price, probably no trouble.

And women depreciate rapidly while men appreciate in value as they get older.

Council houses. Not just an issue for pakis tbqh. Everyone leeches in this shithole. Pakis are the worst though

480 square feet for 1900 a month? That's fucking insane

It still is you dummy, you just need to go actually outside and not get your worldview from TikTok bait on posts here.
Plenty of my friends are married in their early twenties and planning to get kids

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Yeah well it's Tokyo, so prices are like New York
Everywhere else in the country has a deflating realestate market and you can probably find a place pretty cheap, esp if it's semi rural

70% of the US is not lower middle class

i hate the antichrist so much

The definition of middle class is very vague. I just went with a household making more than 6 figures a year which I think is a fair metric. That'd mean with 2 working adults you'd only need to bring in 50k each, although this is gross and not take-home.

>Yeah well it's Tokyo, so prices are like New York
that's disgusting, I'm sorry user
Hope you're having fun though

You think 100k is working class? Leave brooklyn for once

I would fucking kill for 100K USD
To people who don't live in Santa Clara that's enough to live like a baller

>You think 100k is working class?
No? I think it's middle class. The type of money you'd need to have a nice house and new car and a couple kids and still save some money for retirement. How the fuck did you think I called the lower class/lower middle class people people making at least 100k? Can u read nigga?

I'm 19F getting married to a 25 y.o. this year. I just find it weird because she is immature and like I said acts like a child. As well, he knew her for years prior.
Good for them, but I'm sure your grandmother was raised much differently.
It would be mid-late teens girls marrying late teens to at most mid-20s guys. Think 14 and 19, or 16 and 21. 18 and 30 would've been exceptional.

>Can u read nigga?
Now it makes sense why you're poor and will continue to be so

I make ~110 in a fairly expensive city and manage to support a family of 5 easily. I don't know what people possibly spend their money on when you hear stories about households bringing in 250k that are living paycheck to paycheck.

>can't read and gets easily confused
>gets BTFO'd by alleged poor
>w-well you're poor!
No, by you're standards won't I be middle class? lmao

ywnbaw

Because marriage is a scam

How were your 3 semesters of community college before dropping out? Is that working out for you?

>67112972
>more deflection
you'll get your (You)'s back once you stop being gay

>being poor in 2022
lmao

>It would be mid-late teens girls marrying late teens to at most mid-20s guys. Think 14 and 19, or 16 and 21. 18 and 30 would've been exceptional.
WRONG. Exceedingly wrong. The gap was often much greater than 18 and 30. A 16 year gap like was standard.

what is the appeal to that kind of life
sounds boring as fuck

>boring
the same people who says this are the same who think going to clubs and shit is "fun"
Your brain is sick and broken

As opposed to playing video games until 1:30, jerking off to wmaf porn, and sleeping until 10:00. What a life you lead.

You stupid fuck. How about you find someone you actually love and have things in common with and work hard on it to make something good? Who gives a fuck about bodycount or if they're not stacy. Find someone who makes you happy.

both of you are going to end up slaving 60 hours a week for a wife you havent had sex with in 20 years like my dad and grandpa

>60 hours a week
Nope, gonna do it for me. My retirement is fucking sweet and my job offers an amazing pension. Gonna retire at 42 then bring in 150k a year for the rest of my life. Stay mad because you never felt what love is like

>everyone is just like my trailer trash family
user all you have to do is apply yourself - you'll be stunned at how quickly it all comes together.

>t. roastie

My advice is find someone sooner than 30 because what you’re describing is a pipe dream. Also not sure what you plan on doing in finance but a lot of funds and investment banks are back working in person.

great way to get throat cancer

Do you spend time alone or do you build relationships?

let me explain. men are more competitive than women, and most feel insecure if a woman they're dating makes more than them. this doesn't apply to all guys, but it is common. there are tons of stories out there of women with good careers dating bums, and pretty much always the guys start eventually acting up and treating the women like shit because they want to feel better than her.