I used to think I would be forever alone for so long that I had made peace with it. I wasn't a bitter incel, it was just another part of my being like my hair or eye color. I thought my chances of a relationship were behind me and I was fine with it. I used dating apps to try restaurants and get out of the house, but never expected a second date.
Then I met her user. She was patient with my awkwardness and is understanding that I can't express my feelings immediately. I don't think I could have landed such a wonderful woman if I wasn't at peace with myself. If you don't want to be forever alone, you must first be okay with being forever alone. Being happy with who you are is the first step to happiness.
>i was a depressed chad who was in the top 10% of male beauty and I downloaded a dating app Good for you, bro. How can we ugly and short guys replicate this? Or is this another humblebrag thread?
Angel Taylor
Now to be fair he neither stated or really implied that. And to OP I simply don't believe you have what you think you have.
Hunter Bennett
>I'll add a dash of hope in his life >Then he'll try to uplift my never lovers.
Seriously though. That's great to hear user. It's also pretty important advice. Most people here aren't starting even the fundamentals of developing a social life. Let alone an intimate one. I wish you the best.
Adrian Evans
My gf would disagree, but I am average at best. I had minimal matches and no second dates 7 fucking years. Maybe this won't last, maybe she'll end it with me tomorrow. These are possibilities, but if I was to be single again tomorrow I would be sad yet not bitter. Time is the great equalizer. We will all be dust and forgotten eventually. I would rather be calm than angry over something I couldn't control.
Jayden Myers
>failed normalfag who is too lazy to talk to people gets gf >acts as if he can related to robots why do they do this? You're probably not even that old and acting as if having your first relationship in your early 20s makes you a late bloomer.
Asher Scott
Mf I am days away from 30. I didn't realize someone had to be 40-50 to be a robot. Based on your attitude, you still might want to try my "don't be bitter" advice. If you're as old as you're implying a month or two is nothing.
Jonathan Peterson
> Based on your attitude, you still might want to try my "don't be bitter" advice.
>dumbass gets a crumb of pussy >suddenly starts spouting normalfag platitudes It's like your decades of loneliness meant nothing lmfao
Austin Brown
I have made peace with loneliness exactly 4 years ago. I had a few close calls in getting a gf but lack of action or something beyond my control screwed it up. Still not giving up on it though.
Wyatt Price
At every try you get a little better. Dont give up user.
Caleb Hernandez
There's a very real point here in that you should've learned some harsh lessons from your silent suffering. Better at what man?
Parker Wood
Thank you and I agree
Charles Cook
What do you want to hear? "You're too unlovable to get someone who cares about you"? Because I don't believe that. You are deserving of love, but first you have to love yourself. I haven't forgotten about about my massive gap in relationship experience. I was totally open about it and it is actually a weak point in our relationship. It's not something that will end it though. If I hated women I don't think the relationship would've formed. I don't understand how some robots can produce such hate, yet still expect women to love them. I'm not saying you're one of those, but the sentiment is real.
Easton Lewis
The basics of having a relationship dude. Someone should only have to tell you "I'm not your mom, this is an equal partnership" once. If a relationship ends because "you don't communicate well" then work on that. Those are exact quotes I've been told.
Carson Peterson
Look, he even developed his savior complex! Congrats you're normalfag now.
Tyler Collins
>If I hated women That's nice for you but I actually hate women. I don't even want to be attracted to women anymore. I'm involuntarily heterosexual at this point.
Blake Reyes
You're perverting subjective perception of something into an absolute truth.
Nathan Clark
Pop viagra and watch gay porn then. Don't be a pussy, only jerk off to dudes if you hate women. Drugs and determination will get you there. The other option is commit to being asexual. This "involuntary heterosexual" business is for losers with no control over their life.
Kevin Parker
lmfao here comes the "you're a loser if you don't have sex" coming from the dude who got a crumb of pussy could you be any more stereotypical
Joseph White
? What exactly is the problem here? Do you think you can get someone to love you if you don't even love yourself? Do you think hating women is the secret to a long lasting relationship? I don't claim to have all the answers, but I don't give up before I try
Parker Edwards
Bro I didn't have sex for 7+ years. I was okay with never having sex again. However, if you call yourself "involuntary heterosexual" you're a fucking faggot just looking for sympathy. Either work harder to get pussy or fuck booty hole. Idgaf about your sob story
Grayson Moore
I'm not speaking on what you need to do get in a relationship, how you need to behave or what you need to believe true or not. Clearly he doesn't think he's worthless or he wouldn't be angry. You're perverting the views of what basically amounts to likely his and more broadly our lessers and turning it into an simple truth.
Ethan Ramirez
He's just stating his point of view man. That's all you did too.
Jack Martin
Fair, it just got surrounded with other ideals that I conflated them. Apologies
