>have ex-bf
>was really the nicest guy I've ever met, and took me this long to realise what a positive influence he left
>wasn't ready for him back then, as personal life drama made maintaining relationships impossible
>look him up for the first time in eight years
>he's now with a girl, and traveling to all the places he and I talked about traveling
>she's 12 years younger than him
Why do men do this?
go for young pussy? you get more mileage
Good for him. Glad he met someone who meshes well with and is living happily. Best of luck to you too, I guess.
The fact that he is nice doesnt mean he doesnt want to hit a fresh new young puss. You should be happy for him
>Why do men do this?
what? make you insecure and embarrassed about your mistakes? They don't. You do. If he fucks someone younger than you, that's your fault for getting old and embarrassed about it. You should have taken better care of yourself and other people.
He wanted someone similarly naive and idealistic as you were back then.
It's hard to give into love after someone you wanted to be with so long never reciprocated. At least for me anyways.
I would want to date my soulmate gf who is around my age and mental capacity. I see guys dating younger girls and my mom encourages it in me, but I still don't want it. Maybe as I grow older I'll like younger girls. Anyways, I don't know either. Why don't you talk to him?
have you tried not being a fat ugly used hag?
>She's already 30 and hasn't found love
YNGMI
This. You were all he wanted so he found a replacement.