Why the fuck does loneliness get worse as you age? Shouldn't it be the opposite? Just getting used to it?
Why the fuck does loneliness get worse as you age? Shouldn't it be the opposite? Just getting used to it?
At least your crave for women will lessen
I'm 22 and almost never suffer from loneliness. My biggest problem right now is that I'm sick of wageslaving.
I managed to stop feeling things for a while. It was causing physical health problems though. Apparently that's real. So no, even with a will of absolute adamantium. The body on some level does have to process emotional states.
But hey, you get numb to depression after a while. The loneliness problem? No, it by itself doesn't get any better or worse. But your stress about it stacks over time.
>HURR DURR IM 22 AND IN THE PRIME OF MY LIFE, DON'T KNOW WHY IM NEVER LONELY THOUGH HURR DURR
Wow you are fucking daft.
you are a kid, op probably meant 35+ people
the more you ignore a problem the more it weighs on your soul. Like lifting a weight and holding it, you will eventually tire out
I can relate and I just turned 23
I think media distracts me from needing friends pretty well
Your body yearns for something, and instead of giving it that which it yearns for, you wait for it to stop yearning.
I don't have friends and have never had a gf. Shouldn't I be feeling lonely?
The vast majority of this board is men aged 18-25.
>I think media distracts me from needing friends pretty well
Yeah I know that feel.
this is true. guys who are like 24 and thinking it's not that bad are in for a rude surprise once they hit 30.
Ok you annoying zoomer shitters, give this a good read.
Social capital, you'll yearn for it one day. But it will be too late, not as in "too late to get a degree" but as in literally TOO LATE.
Its a basic need, IMO it doesn't just go away just like water and food is a basic need.
Find a circle of friends.
Happened to pretty much everyone that ignored oldfags warnings.
Forgot pic, fuck.
>Social capital, you'll yearn for it one day
So what am I supposed to do? I've spent my whole life careermaxxing.
People adapt to it differently. For some it gets worse while for others it's gets better. You just happen to be one of the unlucky ones for whom it got worse.
23 and calling me a Zoomer, bruh
You must be very old
23 is peak zoomer though, cutout is 25
I feel so fucking old.
I feel worse and worse ever since I turned 18
>So what am I supposed to do?
Find friends, like real friends who you'll be able to rely on during hard times when careermaxxing doesn't cut it. You haven't seen hard times yet because you're young and healthy and the world is still relatively stable. Your parents will die one day.
>Social capital, you'll yearn for it one day.
I'm 30 now and I've been maintaining my solitude since 19 or so. I don't see myself getting tired of it in the foreseeable future but I do occasionally wonder what would happen if I did. In any case, I do think that I am already too old for it to matter.
>Find friends
Where?
>the world is still relatively stable
Lmao the USA is in the middle of a recession which is about to evolve into a full-blown depression.