How the fuck do people deal with their problems if they can't talk to anyone about them? I'm well aware that no one, including my family, gives a shit. So how the fuck do I resolve my issues? How does anyone?
How the fuck do people deal with their problems if they can't talk to anyone about them? I'm well aware that no one...
What issues do you have that require other peoples advice on them? The best judgement on a situation that affects you is your own.
Not OP but being able to talk to and receive support from other people is very cathartic. You're definitely an autistic trans woman
you pay a stranger money under the guise of 'therapy' . If the first therapist doesnt say words that make sense or that you want to hear, try another one.
I'm an overly anxious doormat that's scared of a lot of things. I got into an accidental confrontation and broke down. I couldn't hold it together to the point where I tried to take my mind off it by going to the movies and cried at the counter like a bitch while trying to buy tickets. I tried to ask my dad for advice but he said he didn't want to talk about it. I never even got into detail about what happened before he brushed it off. I don't blame him because I feel pathetic and low test. I have always been an anxious fuck to the point where I don't like holding knives because I have intrusive thoughts that I'll accidently cut myself. I tend to stay in my room when I'm not at college where I don't really talk to anybody. I just want to hide from everyone at this point.
I'm not trans, just larping to make people angry I guess. Care and support from other people is typically dishonest, not sure how that makes anyone feel good about themselves.
>IT GETS BETTER I PROMISEE!!!!
>I UNDERSTAND HOW YOU FEEL BUT
>I KNOW IT'S HARD BUT
Other people don't know shit about you or how you feel. If you have no one to talk with to begin with then it's probably because they don't give half a fuck about you anyway. People will lie to your face out of straight pity.
If i have learned anything from Evangelion its that no one will ever truly understand you or what you are going through/feeling, and as such they wont magically have the solution or answer to your problems.
I get this. Picrel also makes me assume you're also black. It's okay. You are capable of handling these things better the more you try, its hard but I'd also suggest getting checked out for a possible anxiety disorder because that's what I was diagnosed with.
Some people may have similar experiences but never the exact same, and even the similar ones are few and far between.
>mfw my dad doesnt give me giant robot and various sluts
Only girls and faggots need to "talk about their problems" you sound like a whiny little bitch.
I am a bitch.
>being able to talk to and receive support from other people is very cathartic
And this is basically why therapy "works"
You're in an unhealthy situation/family possibly
>user died from a self inflicted shotgun blast to the head, 3 months later. following a post he made on Any Forums, denouncing the expression of emotional traumas.
I don't know user. I've been able to find a couple of people that kind of understood me and cared enough to talk to me about problems. Was nice while it lasted. Unfortunately no longer have that. So I usually just rage to anons on here. At least until I find a new friend.
>no harem of slutty coworkers
>no giant robot to pilot
>not part of some secret society with definitive proof of religion
Im ngmi
I've never had a great relationship with my dad. He's an alcoholic and it makes me concerned about his health. I don't try to talk to him about it because I fear he'll get mad. He thinks I'm gay or asexual because I have no GF but truth is that I have been going to strip clubs on a monthly basis for quite some time and he doesn't know it.
You don't resolve your issues. You let it build up inside you more and more and more until you become a masochist and enjoy the suffering. Or you kill yourself. Will you get unbelievably lucky and get everything you want in life. Literally no One cares about you or will ever care about you. People really care about what you can offer them/ take from you.
You could do the healthy rational thing all those self-help blogs suggest and talk to a friend/family member that you trust to respect your feelings and understand you. but that doesn't seem to be practical advice since most of us are on Any Forums because we lack such people
OR: You could bottle it up and (ab)use substances like a real man aka 99% of the population.
Do you think Any Forums is a digital death note?
>just larping to make people angry I guess
Understandable. And well, I figure that's what OP means. The vast majority of people don't actually care and will just repeat some shitty platitude like the ones you mentioned. Because your negative emotions make them uncomfortable and they just want you to shut the fuck up. But having someone who just lets you talk, without interrupting and being dismissive would be very helpful. Though someone like that is probably 1 in a million
Talking about your problems / emotions doesn't solve anything. I've talked to hundreds of different people about how I feel and what I'm going through and nothing ever comes from it. You either lucky and you suffer less than normal until you die or suffer a lot until you die.
Actually laughed out loud
I've talked close friends and family members about how I feel multiple times and nothing of her comes from it.
Then pick option B. Not that hard.