I started working as a busboy. On Friday night, a hot girl and her friends asked me if I was single. The hot girl asked for my Snapchat while I was clearing her table. She took a video of me walking by her table and wrote: sorry for the disturbance, youre just really cute.
I then asked this girl out and she said that shes down, but suggested if we can do something next week. I think it was because she was busy with exams. I then told her that I would let her know as well because my boss has yet to give me my work schedule. We still texted a bit after that. She asked me about my schooling, and then I asked her about her schooling in return, which was yesterday. But its been about a day and she just left me on delivered. Her Snapchat score went up a bit during that time as well. Is it over? This girl is also pretty hot and out of my league.
I started working as a busboy. On Friday night, a hot girl and her friends asked me if I was single...
Yea she got bored because you were putzing around like a stupid faggot.
It is a long shot but next time you contact her just flat out ask her it she is free on day XYZ, if she does not respond forget about it but actually act like a man and set a date.
Don't get discouraged, and turn this victory into a sob story. You got the attention of a hot girl, and said you were cute. That means that whatever the hell you're doing, you're doing right. You should feel good about yourself regardless if she responds or not
>OH NO BROS HER SCORE WENT UP A WHOLE 2 POINTS THIS WEEK!!!! IS IT OVER??
But my boss didnt fucking give me my work schedule for next week yet, so I couldn't have set a date
>But its been about a day and she just left me on delivered. Her Snapchat score went up a bit during that time as well. Is it over?
Of course it is
Relax. When you're free, you're free. During any of those evenings just ask her if she's free right now and tell her you'll pick her up. Not "I was thinking if maybe I could pick up you", rather "I'll pick you up" and that's it.
You get a yes or a no response and that's that. Don't ever send her messages talking about work and studying because that's the boring shit she wants to get away from when you take her somewhere.
I have seen tik toks of girls doing videos of hitting on guys. I think if it starts to be real and not acting out for an audience it changes the context for them.
>she got bored
fpbp
Make a fucking move bitchboy. Kek
So what am I supposed to do? She still didn't open my message and and my boss didnt give me my schedule yet.
>talking about work and studying
typical rookie mistake I made multiple times.
only for boring people that want to play safe
And I already asked her out on Sunday to go out Monday (yesterday). That's when she suggested next week.
Don't overthink. Just set up a time and place to go with her. If she doesn't go with it (knowing THAT SHE IS AVAILABLE - this is a big one where guys fuck up), gives you a wishy washy "my cousin's uncle's brother's dog died and I have to attend the funeral", or some other chicken scratch excuse: plug it. Don't waste your time OP. Don't go full autistic elliot rodger meltdown on her if you get rejected - just move on gracefully. I used to overthink and get mad but as I got more experience with the ladies I realized they spin plates like men do - even harder. It's all a numbers game. Make the move and ask her out champ. If she doesn't roll with you - it isn't meant to be. Dust yourself off and keep being you big dog.
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Same poster from above of dating advice - get your schedules aligned and go for the kill. Just keep it smooth. Don't come off as needy constantly texting her. It's pretty gay we have to "hide our excitement" but that's pretty much what the dating world evolved to - not give a shit so you show you have more "power"
I wish you luck big dog. You got it.
So I should even ask her out again if she doesn't open my message?
Are you saying that she only hit on me as a joke and that she isn't actually attracted to me?
Yes. It is like one more chance for her. If she responds great if not move on.
But the point is to make it concrete not hey u free sometime this week, more like hey you want to go do X on Y. Just ask her a day or two out (other poster suggested same day I never did this).
The point here is that talking over some faggy social media app with someone you barely know is fake and gay and boring, if she is as hot as you claim then she has dudes hitting her up on those apps 24/7. You need to move it to text and then IRL ASAP.
When it comes to the day you agreed on message her telling her when you're going to pick her up and what you are going to do.
Take her out. But if she ghosts then move on quick and don't worry about it.
Thanks. I'm just sick of good and fun things being dangled in front of me, and then taken away. I'm sick of being inadequate, and I am sick of being unable to properly interact with the opposite sex. I am sick of being rejected and unwanted
Oh, I'm supposed to pick her up?
>more like hey you want to go do X on Y
More like "let's do X at Y tonight"
Close. Literally tell them what to do. They don't care what it is, don't make them think at all.
This.
You lock them down that instant if you want them. They get hit on by men constantly and so have constant access to new interest whereas your interest becomes old interest.
She approached you and threw herself at you essentially as well.
Then, you blew her off. It doesn't matter what the excuse for it was what matters is you did it. You told her she wasn't worth the immediate attention and effort and then socially deflected her like she's done to so many others herself.
You basically did the exact maneuver women do to men they don't really like but don't really dislike and so will keep on the back burner just in case. Her, being a woman, is familiar with this and so when you pulled this you told her exactly what you thought of her.
Yes, I know that's not what really went down but that doesn't matter because that was what her experience of that interaction was.
After that, why hang around wasting time texting you? Other guys exist who will happily drop everything on the spot to chat them up and invite them back to their place that night not a week and a half from now. Even worse you could have mauled her self esteem with that earlier maneuver do even less reason to want to stay in touch with you.
To anyone reading do not ever shove it out ahead of time unless you already have deep interests in eachother and actively wish to make it work and it's not just a basic bitch interest. They will never passively and patiently sit there because every day between then and your planned date time is a day they will be hit on by men out to impress that will offer them a dinner that night or right then and there if the woman is up for it possibly.
Yes, that means you're gonna have missed opportunities because you can't always just drop everything to simp like a bitch but that's the cost of living a normie life where your slave collar constantly chafes.
>I'm supposed to pick her up?
I mean do you have a car? Or just meet her somewhere. It's not super important just make a plan and do that plan. Don't ask her what she wants to do.
Well youll never get what you want with that attitude. Like I said you are getting predictable results with predictable behavior. Nobody wants to chat about school for weeks on snapfag. It is ok, just take it as a learning lesson and move on.
Like when I was on the dating apps if I matched with a chick I asked her out within 10-20 messages. Any longer than that and it is just boring and impossible to keep the energy. if she said yes I asked for her phone number and moved the convo to there. Of course you already got a quote unquote match so just move fast and be smooth.