no matter who I spoke about my virginity problem they always give indirect advices to me >get into a hobby bro >just lift bro >bee urself bro >dress better bro >work bro so I'm doing all of that but I still don't understand how being good at basket weaving or spending time with weights gonna get me a girlfriend. Hell, it doesn't even get me friends.
I suspect they have the formula to get gf but they are deliberately misguiding me. Some people does none of those but still has a gf. I'm sick of this indirect advices I want fucking locations, coordinates, direct orders to be able to meet with women.
You have to say.. >Hello >How are you doing today >Mention something your doing recently, see if they have any interest in it You have to start being friends first. Chad is so physically superior to men, that he can be as vulnerable as he wants around women. Never suffer for it. Were a woman to cross him, 4 female social circles would come down with rage on that one woman. You have to make friends first. Chad does it easy, because his physical status leaves him impervious to emotional damage, when he looks in the mirror.
Sebastian Cook
>You have to make friends first with whom? that's my sole problem. I have nowhere to meet with women. My coworkers are married, my classmates has boyfriends. I apparently fucked it up in the college. I'm graduating as a virgin
Jonathan Phillips
Nobody knows how to reliably get a gf and nobody really cares that much about you that they'd sit down and start to think real hard about what advice to give. There's no trick to it, sociable people make lots of connections, meet many people, know even more people from hearsay, they have way better chances coming across someone compatible. Of course, you have to be not autistic, hygienic, at least half-decent looking.
Julian Campbell
I'm a 5'6 sperg guy with a 7/10 gf, or maybe 6/10 to the incels here. They're all fucking normies with no introspection, here's how it actually works.
The problem is autists see dating as a logical, discrete process. You make enough money, lift enough weights, looksmax enough and a girl agrees to be your bf. It is not. Women run on emotion. They absorb the emotions of those around them. If you want to get them to date you, you have to make them associate emotions with you. Looking good, that makes women feel good. But less than incels think. Most women honestly don't have a hard attractiveness requirement, even those that claim they have.
But how to make them feel good, specifically? Now that's the part up to you. Different women have a lot of different emotional responses. Mine for example was extremely responsive to my shitty yaoi fanfiction. I don't know why. In fact she DM'ed me. She wasn't the only girl who DM'ed me. Multiple girls DM'ed me because I had made them feel with my shitty writing and they associated that with me, the author. Of course to 99% of the female population, this would not work. But it worked here.
The trick is to find the niche. Do the right thing in the right context. The mistake many robots make is approaching in the worst possible context. E.g. Tinder. The only way tinder makes women feel is through pictures. Profiles - they're 100 words, they don't mean shit. So it's an obvious turkey shoot for the super attractive. Most men would not score there.
Here is all you have to do. >EVERY SINGLE FRIDAY OR SATURDAY NIGHT >Go to a nightclub >get a bit drunk beforehand (don't get too overboard), or take a substance of your choice if you know it will help you >Be extremely sociable at these clubs, go straight to mosh pits, dance like crazy, you don't have to be a good dancer, just copy everyone else. >look at women, 9/10 times they are there for hookups, you both want this, if you see them look back, go talk to them. >get talking, if you feel the moment is right go for a kiss >she will likely ask you if you want to come back to her place, if she never does you could ask if she wants to go to yours, but women are often weird about that kind of thing >this WILL get you laid after even just a couple visits, if not on the first time >I cannot at all guarantee the sex will be nice, the women particularly pleasant or attractive, but it's all I can offer. All you have to do is repeatedly go out and act socially, just act it even for a few hours. That's it.
Carson Turner
>writes yaoi You're completely right but I despise you anyway.
Isaac Rogers
>Most women honestly don't have a hard attractiveness requirement, even those that claim they have. alphafux betabux you absolute retard. All the data shows women care about looks at least as much as men do.
The advice requires that you talk to people and participate in a community. >get a hobby >lift >dress better >work type of advice just makes you more attractive. And being more attractive increases the chance that someone you talk to finds you attractive. Never gonna happen if you don't talk.
Gabriel Barnes
There is no 7/10 or 6/10 woman that reads yaoi. You are just delusional and in love. Your girl is a 4 at most likely, because if she was any better she would have social circles telling her it's creepy shit
The rest of your comment is correct but these guys have been conditioned and socialized by porn and fake Trad internet machismo culture to only want a 7/10+, slim, smart, submissive, virgin, horny, model tier waifu that doesn't exist and wouldn't want what pathetic personality they have to offer if it were the case. Your preaching won't work on half of them. The other half are LARPers who get off on making other men feel as bad as they do about themselves
Michael Ross
he said get a gf user, not get his dick wet in a slag who is impossible to respect as a person
Jordan Davis
>so I'm doing all of that but I still don't understand how being good at basket weaving or spending time with weights gonna get me a girlfriend It might not get you a gf, but you'll have something to talk about at least with women who are into your hobbies
Andrew Morris
Bi phase was the best thing that ever happened to me. Shit was better than playing a guitar.
>no 6 or 7 that reads yaoi You don't know the space. Pic related is into yaoi - I know because her DPs are characters from BL series. Guys grossly underestimate how much girls are into yaoi because they can't pick up the signals.
Also kind of weird, but if you drop that you're lowkey bi to a BL lover, you automatically got up 1-2 points on the attractiveness scale. Its sort of like the present equivalent of being emo.
Girl in pic related is 5/10 without makeup,the bangs, and no editing in the photo You just have low standards because you are in a space of social rejects and people who are considered freaks and creeps by society at large, you being one of them. Also, 90% of girls into yaoi are KHHV who are practically femcels. Or they are under 19
Owen Morris
Kek, are you a het foid who hates yaoi? I'd say she's at least a 7 without makeup, but most women are less than that.
>90% of fujos are khv Perfect
Zachary Nelson
Even so, what good is discussing the same crap over and over again? Incels haven't come up with a new meme in ten years, amigo. It's time to find something else to bitch about.
Samuel Thompson
Are you trolling? That is clearly a sex doll.
Blake Cox
>so I'm doing all of that but I still don't understand how being good at basket weaving or spending time with weights gonna get me a girlfriend. Hell, it doesn't even get me friends. maybe bcs you will looks buff and fit? Some women like that i heard. I'm virgin as well, but i will try it so to see where it will lead me eventually
Brayden Evans
It's a girl. Her e name is sinisterdarling
Jeremiah Cooper
man, how can you be this retarded? kek
Jack Walker
>I suspect they have the formula to get gf but they are deliberately misguiding me Honestly, it just comes down to looks 99% of the time unless your personality is terrible. Notice how all their advice either makes you better looking or able to meet more girls. There was a 'how did you lose your virginity' thread yesterday that I checked out as a curious virgin.
Most of the stories started with 'so I noticed this girl staring at me a lot'. I talked to my Chad brother about his hookups too and all his stories start in a similar way. We literally fail at the starting line. The truth is most of the time, the guy has the girl in the bag from the get go. Girls basically decide before you even talk to each other if you're worth their time or not, and for most of us here that decision is always 'no'.