how does it cripple men?
for me ive never been diagnosed, but have trouble holding eye contact in coversations.
my coworkers often say i lack expressions and my voice is monotone. most of all i find social stuff really boring, sometimes it feels good when you find some good people to talk to, but overall its just very meh. makes me hard to understand why these normies like to go out so much, like ive tried to go out, it is boring and you can never truly be yourself, you have to pretend and have facade. also i can be long periods of time alone and it doesnt bother me that much, but apparently normies cant even spend 2 hours by themselves. what gives? is this how assburgers is? i got no superpowers too, really bad at math and logic, i guess im just fucked, really thinking of someways i can use this to my advantage but its hard to find
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i relate to this post a lot except I know I could easily learn to be great at math physics chemistry or anything if I set my mind to it, the only problem is i have 0 drive whatsoever to do anything and a terrible attention span
yeah i also have 0 drive and terrible attention span, tho very rarely i get into some hyper focused state where i can even forget about eating or other things and just focus. im getting old and i dont know how can i at least improve my situation, my dream life would be getting a job with medium pay that allows me to work remotely
bumperino, anyone got answers?
>anyone got answers?
Die young, lol. I probably have the burgers too, I don't know what to do with myself as well. You probably have superpowers of some kind, it's just that the system doesn't want to give you money for it, they only pay people who tow their interests. I think more autistic type thinkers were the first to get axe when it came to the rise of industrialization, you go from understanding and being able to impress systems management on the world to having your job/social value, being taken by computers, robots and public relations. Just do your best and find inner peace is all I can recommend, a thinker forcing himself to be a worker drone is an insult to nature. So is the opposite, btw.
thanks dude, blows my mind that this board says autism that autism this but doesnt even discuss how to benefit from it. wamen wamne, fuck wamen, if you do things because of wamne you already lost, i cant get women, so that means i cannot be comfy and rich? no, fuck that
You definitely sound like you could be autistic OP. Watch this video and see if it resonates with you at all
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the guy in the video is kind of likeable, but all that shit is so vague, i swear half the normies does those things too. yeah i get it my facial expression is non existant and body language is probably shit too, but does that make me a freak? i look better and fit than most normies. even if im legit autistic, theres not much can be done about it, i dont need to give up because of it, just need to find my strenghts and focus on that
>how does it cripple men?
I have an Asperger's diagnosis, and it severely impairs me. I'm a broke, friendless, KHV NEET of seven years. It's comparable to being totally blind or missing both legs.
why dont you get a job at a warehouse?
some blokes might bully you abit, but if you stay quiet, dont say weird shit and be helpful they will let you stay. in 2022 i dont think anyone has real friends anymore, and KHV well, if you had money from any job you could hire escort and be done with that, intimacy and yadda yadda i know its bad, but you could achieve even that if you tried really really hard and treated it like getting a good job, i know dude some fucking normies dont have to move a finger to get all this and world is not fair, but should you give up because of this? my fucking life goal is to get work from home, idk how im gonna achieve it yet but im gonna do my best and put all the effort my tired self can
>why dont you get a job at a warehouse?
I applied for a nightshift job as a grocery store stacking shelves and they rejected me. Anyway, normalfags always get the wrong impression of me because I'm severely socially crippled and stunted, not only from a disability but garbage parents that abandoned me. So, no use trying to appease people who automatically hate you. I'm just gonna die on the streets instead, and I'll ride unemployment checks from the government until then.
lemme tell you a secret, nobody get a job at first place they applie, apply to ten or twenty places and get rejected, just lie on your resume. i hate this system so much i just straight up lie to normies and they sometimes fall for it, make up jobs, titles, nobodys gonna check, and its not some harsh offence. you also probably from USA, its the easiest country to get by. im from eastern europe and let me tell you its tough around here, no goverment checks for assburgers or anything, living paycheck to paycheck and everyone is uber nigger normie here. i know i might sound like some women now but dont wallow in self pity, nobody gives a fuck about you, that you live or die. just say fuck your autism and get the ball rolling, start excersizing, eating better, the less people will fuck with you if you look muscular. when you go to job interview always wear ur best clothes and be ultra nice and try to fake positivity, say shit like ''im willing to go that extra mile'' and when they hire you just work very hard for month or so and then slack off
i was diagnosed when I was 4
overtime i learned to observe human speech patterns and behaviour to imitate them. It is not perfect, the keen eye will notice the unnatural way I speak as I was reading a script, which I am doing.
I will take parts of other people's personalities when interacting with them, they may even say I don't look like a person who has assburgers, but they quickly realize when there are gaps in my scripts and soon enough they stop talking to me
it is interesting, i have collected a lot of information, but there is nowhere to use it, just hypotheticals in my mind
It will completely eviscerate your dating life. Take whatever your looks are out of ten, then subtract 3-4 points. If you are a 5/10, then you are now a 1-2/10 if you have autism. It is incredibly crippling, probably more so than poor looks..
I'm a terrible liar and dealing with normies causes me tension and stress to the point of migraines. How can I fake being a nice bootlicker when I'm in visible pain? I go to the gym and I'm muscular on top of being tall but that didn't give me anything normalfags take for granted.
i do that too, i copy other people sometimes, unconciously even lol
bullshit dude, i think this board overestimate how being social affects dating, just be nice to the girl, dont talk some weird shit and ask her alot of question, how fucking hard can it be? and no if im 7/10 in looks i dont lose so much points because i slightly lack in facial expressions, voice tone and body language.
just imagine if you were a normie and met a girl who was abit socially different but she looked really pretty and was a nice person overall? would you honestly give a shit? i know i wouldnt
honestly i would even prefer someone who was quiet but smarter than average normie and saw the world differently
autistic people can be best liars because apparently normies have problem reading us.
he even mentions this in this video if you feel pain just concentrate on your breathing and talk little slower. as with anything, you have to practice to lie abit, just lie to some stranger on the street, then to a cashier at a grocery store and boom ur certified lier
That is not how it works. Trust me on the autism part; being good-looking is not enough to save you if you have autism. The only exception is if you have spent several YEARS training very hard on your social skills.
i didnt trained not a single fucking day dude, i was just forced to interact in my dead end wagie jobs since i was 18.
and why its not how it works? if a guy can overlook abit of autism on a pretty girl, a girl cant do the same, gimme a fucking break dude. im not talking about uber fucking normie stacey with 1000 friends, just normal 6/10 girls
Men and women are not the same. Men will happily overlook social awkwardness in women; women will not. I was a 7 or 8 out of ten in high school with high functioning autism, and I never had a gf.
I hate to be a defeatist quitter while I'm still walking this earth but some people have to eat shit unfortunately. Some people are robbed of life too young, some people die a slow excruciating death and others sit in a dark corner and wither away. Not many would wish for that kind of existence but it happens anyway, it's fate.
cut the crap dude, what autists doesnt need is psilosophical bullshit and comparisions, what you need is excersize and do nofap. be the scary motherfucker nobody fucks with, be quiet, always speak when spoken dont spout nonsense with people u dont know, dont do drugs or alcohol with people u barely know. LIE LIE LIE, make up lies , ur resume ur life, normies are easy to trick
same here man, you just have to find people who likes the same shit you like (music genre, movies etc)
it helps for the conversation and it makes you work on your social skills
that's how I see things even if most people will end up having boring normie conversations
who cares about highscool dude, i barely even remember it, its all big blur.
and no being social and charismatic is not everything, i got some fat ugly normies at my job and i dont want to be anywhere near fucking them, literally im ashamed to be near them, they face and bodyshapes makes me want to puke, i dont care if they got a wife, guess what their wives are not sexy at all too.
i think lot of assburgers here on this site dont understand that its a numbers game with women, they fixate on one specific hoe and barely does shit to fuck her. i can fucking guarantee you that if you workout, look good and have a car, many bitches will let you fuck them for free and kiss them, the problem is that we have high social inhibition and afraid of rejection where normies arent so much. u sometime listen what they talk about? its the most inane fucking babble over and over again , netflix shows, covid u name it, so fucking boring and pathetic, they just try so hard to be releatable and not deviate from the norm its sometimes funny. another cheat code for autists is get $$$, when you have money nothing fucking matters, you can hire hottest instagram model for 1k $ and make her lick ur poo from ur asshole