Any guys here that are still virgin past the age of 25?
>How does it feel?
>Is it by choice?
>If not by choice what do you think the reason for it is?
>Do you think you set your standards too high
>Does it influence your day to day moods?
Any guys here that are still virgin past the age of 25?
Owen Hernandez
Noah Lopez
i'm 24 and only had sex once when i was 18 so i guess i can answer
>>How does it feel?
doesn't bother me much, i'm content with being a coomer
>>Is it by choice?
yes, i choose to not socialize because i am an extreme introvert
>>Do you think you set your standards too high
no, opposite, i have no standards at all because i'm too lazy to pursue sex
>>Does it influence your day to day moods?
i went on a 9 day nofap streak before, i craved female attention so bad that i almost made a tinder account, but i coomed and calmed down my urges
i live this way because it's comfy, i am a hermit
Christian Gutierrez
I'm 30 and have regained my virginity
Cameron Rivera
No. I lost my virginity at 17 and still don't enjoy life most of the time.
Sebastian Perry
Please kill yourself you fucking sex having normalfaggot
Benjamin Bennett
>How does it feel?
it feels horny more than anything, i'm not rly romantic, but i lack physical hormonal parts of it
>Is it by choice?
kinda, i have very strict sexual standards which are hard to get around
>Do you think you set your standards too high
maybe as regards to attitudes and behaviour, lookswise i'm looking for someone who is at least averagely attractive and not fat
>Does it influence your day to day moods?
not that much, it would be cool to have someone, but it's not the end of the world
Adrian Adams
virgin until 27 then lost it to a prostitute
i was extremely insecure and decided to see an escort to get it out of they way. Afterwards I discovered that it was probably just because I have no sex drive. turns out I just don't like sex enough to interact with women. I'd never asked one out or actually tried to get laid.
now rather than feeling bad about being a virgin I instead feel bad about being a borderline asexual turboautist
Isaac Edwards
32 yo khv
>How does it feel?
everyday i want to kill myself
>Is it by choice?
yeah womens choice
>If not by choice what do you think the reason for it is?
166cm
>Do you think you set your standards too high
no id fuck like 75% of women you outside at any given day 90% if im on nofap
>Does it influence your day to day moods?
everyday i want to kill myself
Christian Morales
>How does it feel?
For me this is my normal
>Is it by choice?
No, but now I'm 27 for the past few years I've lost all interest in sex and don't seek it out anymore so I'm content being a virgin
>If not by choice what do you think the reason for it is?
Being unattractive, not interesting/charming, not knowing how to flirt, not understanding what a relationship is due to growing up with 2 parents who weren't in a relationship by the time I was born and only stayed together to co-parent me
>Do you think you set your standards too high
At some points yes, but mostly no, I would hit on very average or even below average girls and be constantly rejected
>Does it influence your day to day moods?
It did throughout my early 20s but now I'm in my late 20s I don't care and my friends and family have stopped asking why I don't have a girlfriend as they realise it's never going to happen now it's been this long
Blake Moore
I also lost it to a prostitute in my 20s, foreplay was fun but when it comes to actual sex I cum too fast generally have a lot of performance issues that a guy in his 20s shouldn't have so that only confirmed for me that I can't ever have a girlfriend because they're not going to stay with a guy that can't actually fuck them
Carson Hill
26 here
>How does it feel?
I think I'm too far gone so I'll probably never find love now because I never got to experience relationships before this, I don't know what they're like or how they're supposed to progress. The entire thing would be new to me and I've gone my entire life on my own so including another person in all aspects of it just sounds impossible
>Is it by choice?
Technically? As you probably saw above I'm more interested in romance than just losing my virginity. I had a couple girls offer to take it but I declined. They thought it would help me somehow, because I'm actually a pretty nice person and I guess they didn't want me to fall down the rabbit hole of hate most virgins do.
>If not by choice what do you think the reason for it is?
I think I've been unable to obtain relationships for two reasons
1. I was never around healthy relationships as a kid, so I never saw what the dynamic was or anything. Because of that I have no idea how to flirt or make my interest known without coming out and saying it. I only know how to act platonically, which naturally gets me friendzoned every time because flirting is essential
2. I have more of a feminine personality, so I need a girl with a masculine personality, but those are incredibly rare
>Do you think you set your standards too high
Again, only technically. I don't think my standards are high, I think they're incredibly rare. I'm not looking for a 10/10 bombshell stacy, I'm looking for someone that my personality matches with
>Does it influence your day to day moods?
It's kind of the core issue but it's not the thing directly effecting me day in and day out. If I had a gf I think it would help me to get over a lot of the issues I face because at least I'd have a partner, the world wouldn't seem so empty and cold when I have someone to help me warm up. But again, it's moreso society (but unironically) and the things I have to do like socializing and working that fucks my moods up
David Torres
Yes, I'm 26.
>How does it feel?
I feel blessed. My fitness, career and life generally are on an upwards trajectory.
>Is it by choice?
I've turned down several asian girls that have approache me cold at work/study in the past but I have never made a single effort to find a woman to marry. No tinder, social media, etc.
>If not by choice what do you think the reason for it is?
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>Do you think you set your standards too high
Definitely. Expecting a virgin with no tattoos to drop into my arms would likely require divine intervention but I trust God will deliver me a wife one day.
>Does it influence your day to day moods?
I have no anger or contempt towards women and I rarely pay them any attention.
The only moods being influenced by my virginity are my parents who keep reminding me that they want a grandchild.
My current plan is to make a start towards getting a girlfriend in a month's time.
Alexander Adams
>How does it feel?
not too good
>Is it by choice?
no i would love to meet someone.
>If not by choice what do you think the reason for it is?
i dont put myself out there and when i actually do i dont know how flirt with women so we just become friends.
>Do you think you set your standards too high
no not really.
>Does it influence your day to day moods?
probably. i think about suicide a little bit too much
Matthew Lewis
27
>How does it feel?
Least of my worries honestly. Unemployed shut-in living with mom. Of course I am lonely though
>Is it by choice?
Well, I never tried to date anyone out of fear of rejection. Guess that's a choice.
>Do you think you set your standards too high
Probably. No woman should want to date me if they actually knew more about me.
>Does it influence your day to day moods?
No, I don't think about my life much. Engage in a lot of escapism.
David Rodriguez
>>How does it feel?
It made me feel worthless for most of my early 20s. I felt like I was failing which stressed me out but now I've come to accept I am worthless and acceptance has allowed me to be less stressed
>>Is it by choice?
no
>>If not by choice what do you think the reason for it is?
A combination of factors. The main one being ugly. A long with being introverted, it's a deadly combo. I lack friends because I moved to a bigger city where idk anyone and I just work to fill my time.
>>Do you think you set your standards too high
Nah, not really. I would date any girl that actually liked me. Even a girl overweight even tho I myself am not overweight.
>>Does it influence your day to day moods?
I think I've been depressed most of my life. I don't know if this contributes to it or if it's just my default state.
Austin Walker
26 KHHV
>How does it feel?
If I don't think about it, it isn't that bad.
>Is it by choice?
I never had the social skills or confidence to speak to women. I wasn't popular enough to be approached and I never approached women. It probably is my fault but I just cannot interact with women in any normal way. I have never really spoke to a woman before
Probably some undiagnosed mental problem but I won't do anything about it, I don't want that on my medical record.
>Do you think you set your standards too high
I would accept any girl if she made the first move and could tolerate my level 0 social skills. I suppose that means I have unrealistically high standards
>Does it influence your day to day moods?
If I start thinking about it at work I will be stuck in a cycle of depressing thoughts about my life all shift. I'll think about killing myself on the way home.
Nothing is going to change
Connor Gutierrez
27, girls have shown interest in me but I never took them up on it
>How does it feel?
I can live with it
>Is it by choice?
Yes, I started seeing people left and right picking up girls and giving up on their friends because "having a girlfriend and obeying her" is their life now - that is wack
>If not by choice what do you think the reason for it is?
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>Do you think you set your standards too high
I wasn't sure what I wanted a lot of the time, there were girls I like but I think I just really wanted to be friends, not actually get into a relationship with them
>Does it influence your day to day moods?
I'm content with being alone but I do wonder what could've been sometimes, still I bet my imagination is much more exciting than reality
Chase Jackson
Well I am a virgin, but it doesnt bother me
Colton Flores
Delete this right fucking now AHHHHHh
Benjamin Brooks
28, virgin.
>How does it feel?
Pretty bad. I cope by telling myself at least i got my dick sucked and touched a vagina.
>Is it by choice?
Not really, but I'm also not very proactive.
>If not by choice what do you think the reason for it is?
Probably the fact I'm 40 kgs overweight.
>Do you think you set your standards too high
Not really. At this point I'll take anything.
>Does it influence your day to day moods?
Yes.
Ayden Collins
same here man I hate it
Hudson Ward
Going to be 32 here pretty soon, never even held a girl's hand
>Feels like resignation. Used to feel really bad and bleak about it because I had some fools hope that things could change. By 30, wizardhood, came to disappointedly just accept that it will never happen. Why spend a whole life miserable about it?
>In as far as it's my choice to not go out and be around people, yes. Combine with that, I never tried to pursue girls, and nothing ever happened. Believe it or not I'm decent looking and amiable to be around, but I just don't be around with anyone.
>My standards have dropped significantly over the years, but really the only vague "standard" I have left is that she have as little experience as I do, apparently that is still too high a standard these days.
>It used to strongly and frequently influence daily moods, not anymore. The acceptance and resignation leaves me kind of permanently just as that meme reaction pic of the uneasy smiley face with the "Hurts just a bit" caption.