Incels: ask YOU anything

How long should a person "Try" before he gives up and becomes an incel?
As an incel in your 30s what do you think of teenage incels and what would you say to them?
If you were not an incel in your teens, why not?

I just take it as a term that normies use to designate socially alienated people.

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alright, 24 here, avoidant personality diagnosed, fire away

Does it matter one way or another if someone who is technically not celibate but still exhibits alienation, misogyny gets labeled an incel?
How hard is the life of an incel, compared to people with various other problems (you can choose whichever problems you want to compare it to)?

"We are robots not incels. Incels should be shot. Let me elaborate.
INCEL DOES NOT EQUATE TO VIRGIN.
I believe most of the people on here have forgotten what it really means to be a robot. Older robots mostly never identified as incels, and the word only became popular here after leddit shutdown some place on their site. "Incels" are a bunch of sex obsessed degenerate faggot coomer orbiters. We are first and foremost robots, something I class as a distinct identity, removed from the identity of incel. You may now probably be asking yourself what a robot is then, if not an incel? Well the definitions and differences between the two identities is explained thus:
Robots are male outcasts that are virgin, with EMPHASIS on one's nature as an outcast, although virginity and being male are still mandatory parts of robotdom.

Incels are involuntary celibates, basically an identity that is "I want sex, I can't have sex". Because of this, inceldom is inherently an identity tied to lack of sex. Tying the definition to a dichotomy(incel/volcel) allows the definition to be attacked very easily. A normalfag can say "You can't be an incel, unless someone is physically restraining you from having sex, simply because your beliefs or self/looks repulse people does not mean you don't have the ability to either change your beliefs or rape someone". Mind you, identifying as someone whose identity is tied to lack of sex is pathetic. Robots are outcasts, outsiders.

Robotdom does not have this flaw because it doesnt attach much of it's meaning to that dichotomy of voluntary/involuntary, but rather to it's outcast status. Robots instead claim that, their status as outcasts is coercive. Robots are in essence saying, "Yes, I'm choosing to suck your dick, but you're coercing me into that choice by pointing a gun at my head and telling me you are gonna shoot me if I don't". Coercion in this case is immoral."

2012 my (innocent puppy love) girlfriend
2013 because she thought I wasn't good enough for me and was horrible to me. So we split up...i've been romantically alone since.

I am 25, considered myself an incel until last year, when after a quarter of a century I managed to get myself togather with a cute, slim girlfriend who loves me more than I do her. I have been on r9k for 5-6 years now, and the main thing I focused on to get rid of the 'incel' status was to self improve. Finish studies, get a job, then switch to a better job, lose weight, groom myself, have empathy for others, stand up for myself when I have to. Believe more in God. I should mention that I am from the balkans, so this kind of self improving may not work in the west.

>Does it matter one way or another if someone who is technically not celibate but still exhibits alienation, misogyny gets labeled an incel?

No since normie chemical rejection intent is present anyway

>How hard is the life of an incel, compared to people with various other problems (you can choose whichever problems you want to compare it to)?

Normies are cattle and agents of the Demiurge

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are you sure normalfags say those things? i have NEVER heard a normalfag say anything like that, so it sounds kind of like a straw man thing to me, but i do appreciate you answering honestly.
Do you think being an incel or a "robot" is correlated with either the desire or propensity to commit violence, as is sometimes reported in the media?

Do you have any questions for incels you would like to ask them?

Did you have sex with your girlfriend?
You say you have been alone, but have you made an efforts to find a girlfriend since then? If so, please describe these efforts.

No we never had sex, just held hands and kissed. 2012 was the best year of my life and it's all been downhill since. I have tried dating apps like Tinder, talking to people on Discord, and even met a girl at university. But I am too unattractive, small-dicked, and weak to get a girlfriend. Girls can smell my weakness from a mile away and do not want me.

When did you first admit or acknowledge that the word incel correctly describes you?
What thought patterns or views, if any, do you think most incels share that other people would find offensive or peculiar?

On a scale of 1-10, how important is finding a girlfriend to you at this time?
What would you say to unattractive "small-dicked" men who are able to have sex?

No. They in their deep hearts know what's to be done. Self improve. The sad reality is most of them don't have the drive or overload their systems with artificial dopamine from video games or porn. I once weighted more than 110 kilos, now I am at below 80. I lost this weight in 6-7 years. Everyone should know that if you want to get out of inceldom, you should set your ambitions long-term and start little by little.

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what do you think of the term misogyny? Is it real and is it a problem?
Are being an incel and being a misogyny related?
You have a lot to say about what men need to do stop being incels, but what about the role of women?